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never say never or it will happen. with the way you are swearing them off, it aaaaalmmooooooost seems like you're really trying to say "again please!" 
i've had horror stories exiting a relationship with a taurus. breaking up with most recent ex scorpio wasn't, and STILL isnt, a walk in the park. but it was nothing compared to breaking up with my previous bf. however, he was my eastern astrology polar opposite, dog vs. dragon... all that was ever said about that pairing was basically: run. away. ...in zigzags.
YET... i wouldn't write them off. but that's just me. it's not fair to take all the good stuff and not tolerate the bad.
i might write off someone born in the yr of the dragon though. lol
i've had horror stories exiting a relationship with a taurus. breaking up with most recent ex scorpio wasn't, and STILL isnt, a walk in the park. but it was nothing compared to breaking up with my previous bf. however, he was my eastern astrology polar opposite, dog vs. dragon... all that was ever said about that pairing was basically: run. away. ...in zigzags.
YET... i wouldn't write them off. but that's just me. it's not fair to take all the good stuff and not tolerate the bad.
i might write off someone born in the yr of the dragon though. lol
"That's exactly it..I didn't press. I asked what he wanted. . How I could help him feel loved and secure so that I could get the same in return. I'm not saying I'm perfect nor innocent victim here. Just that after 11 years of marriage. . 13 years together. .. I come away emotionally void. He told the world how wonderful ibam.. yet never told me. I made him secure. .his words. .but I never felt that way. He agrees that he never showed it. He calls it being selfish and immature.
All I'm saying that the fight to preserve self after all has been given is tough to escape from. "
eeesh... *foot in mouth*
teehee. your op makes more sense now.
All I'm saying that the fight to preserve self after all has been given is tough to escape from. "
eeesh... *foot in mouth*
teehee. your op makes more sense now.
RNAP, I do not see you as a mean person, neither do you come off as one. 
I always thought you are nice, really. Who ever your heart desires is the one who you think it is worth. This third guy you were seeing is someone I was not implying, it could be anyone, or it could be any of two that you like. I do not know the details of the story.
I would like to point out, I see a lot of mixed emotions. Because it implies to my theory I had once before,
Individual finding to be found in a position of a situation where it is at fault with two choices. Fault not as in a negative sense, fault falling into a weak and vulnerable position and state of mind not knowing what to do, whatever the choice may be; choosing one out of the two. Speaking of emotions, emotions take over eventually, feeling guilt and resentment, not being able to coop with both. A third one came into scene, revolving to push away, in which in turn, could be anyone. Anyone could be your new portal out of these two men.
Who do you want, one of the two? That is something you have an answer within you.
This is my perspective, no one can change it and neither can I change yours.
*officially poof*
I always thought you are nice, really. Who ever your heart desires is the one who you think it is worth. This third guy you were seeing is someone I was not implying, it could be anyone, or it could be any of two that you like. I do not know the details of the story.I would like to point out, I see a lot of mixed emotions. Because it implies to my theory I had once before,
Individual finding to be found in a position of a situation where it is at fault with two choices. Fault not as in a negative sense, fault falling into a weak and vulnerable position and state of mind not knowing what to do, whatever the choice may be; choosing one out of the two. Speaking of emotions, emotions take over eventually, feeling guilt and resentment, not being able to coop with both. A third one came into scene, revolving to push away, in which in turn, could be anyone. Anyone could be your new portal out of these two men.
Who do you want, one of the two? That is something you have an answer within you.
This is my perspective, no one can change it and neither can I change yours.
*officially poof*
This sounds EXACTLY like my new Cap guy! He wants me to lose 10 lb., but to be fair I am the one who first brought this up (I am going to lose the 10 lb. anyway). I need to lose 10 lb, seriously.
We Caps are ALL about improvement, and I honestly think he is trying to make you "better" (OK, at least in his eyes). That said, don't let him pressure or talk you into doing anything that you don't want to do. Stand your ground. Also know that you're beautiful and if he doesn't appreciate you, there are plenty of others guys out there who will/do.
We Caps are ALL about improvement, and I honestly think he is trying to make you "better" (OK, at least in his eyes). That said, don't let him pressure or talk you into doing anything that you don't want to do. Stand your ground. Also know that you're beautiful and if he doesn't appreciate you, there are plenty of others guys out there who will/do.
Posted by LeeeebraJS
Sweet Libra, no matter how sad I am, I want to say something to you.
You are a fabulous lady, simply fabulous! you care about people with such a considerate sincerity it's very very heart warming. You gave people a lot of respect which most time are taken as a given and you handle that with such a grace so I know you had been doing that constantly in your life. You have a keen sense of intuition and insights on a lot of things, and you are very open with your opinion. You have a little spicy streak in you which dd to that magnetism. You have a warm leadership quality that brings out the balance in others without effort, it's a natural gift. I will miss you so very much if you leave, and hope may be you'd come back with SL+something as unimaginative so we can have a laugh, I'm not good at chatting, but I read and it made me smile and laugh all the time. This group of people here on this thread have a chemistry it's hard to describe. But we rocked. Love and hugs.
Tizi, I would like to say something too, although you will just be taking time off rather than deleting. You are a very very wise person for your age, I have said this before and will say it again. You call me the war Libra which really is spot on in a lot of senses, you have a very sharp observation of people in general, I've learned a lot of things from your comments in this thread. And you are a true Libra gentleman,with a lot of respect and forgiveness for others, being who you are, I know life has good things in store for you, it just can't be any other way, with all these good karma you create. I do hope to read you when you have time now and then to make fun of Aries, it's very funny and never in bad taste. Thank you for your openness and wisdom you offered to us here...it's so sad this thread is ending, how did it take root in me in such a little time?
I really will miss you all, I'm very bad at keeping my end of being there for people, but I do miss people whom I like just like everyone else, and I will miss you all. And this is the only place in a very long time where I feel safe to let go of my emotions and feel hugged whenever hugs are needed.
I'm so sad I can't be sure if I should go cry a little or go Rambo on some random weeds on DXP.
I hate that you are sooo sad right now and I pray that what ever has you this way aside from our lovely leebs leaving or ta
Leeeebra - I hate that you are sooo sad right now and I pray that what ever has you this way aside from our lovely leebs leaving or taking a bit a DXP VACA that you will continue to come here and drop your knowledge and inherit some more of ours.
Signed Up: Mar 30, 2012
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Posted by CuriousLuv1Posted by rockyroadicecream
They rescheduuuled. :/
I was so ready for that interview today too.
MOAR TIME TO PREP.
Sorry to hear, but may be in your preparation that will get you ready to be HIRED!!click to expand
Yeah, I'm not upset or anything, just kinda deflated a bit. Was up early, ready to GO. Haha.
Hi All, new to this forum and hoping for some valuable advise, insight. Guess as with many on here my story is about a Taurus man. Been dating for the last 4 weeks, seeing each other two to three times a week. Throughout the last 4 weeks he has been caring, thoughtful, kind and passionate. There was instant attraction / connection from the first time we met and the chemistry between us grew strong very quickly. Felt both excited and scared at the same time and jokingly saying to each other how things were moving at a pace. It was his birthday on Friday (3rd May) and this was the first time we slept with each other (twice) it was amazing, felt very close. Although I couldn't stay with him that night we had planned to be with each other from Saturday evening through to Monday.
When I arrived at his house on Saturday evening, the atmosphere was completely different. As soon as he opened the door too me, I felt he was distant and cold. I continued in to his house and went to put things in the kitchen. He went and sat on the sofa to continue watching TV!! I joined him and sat there thinking WTF is going on. Although he finally offered me a cuppa, the distance I felt nerved me. I could only last 40 minutes before the fight or flight response really kicked in. I got up and said I had to go, as I couldn't cope. He told me not to be stupid, but I couldn't stay in that atmosphere, I got my things and left.
As soon as I arrived home, I texted him to say I felt vulnerable and exposed and was looking for reassurance as the distance I had felt panicked me and this was the reason I had to leave. He responded saying he hadn't slept well the night after his birthday and that he was just tired. I responded to say it sounded like with both needed sleep and I will call the next morning. I called and we spoke about what had occurred and agreed that he would call later to arrange to meet up the next day. When we spoke in the evening, we talked about how fast everything had gone and likened it to a roller coaster ride. I wanted to see him but left it to him to make the call. He said he didn't want to hurt me and that we should perhaps leave it, I asked if we could have a couple of weeks to reflect and get in contact again.
When I arrived at his house on Saturday evening, the atmosphere was completely different. As soon as he opened the door too me, I felt he was distant and cold. I continued in to his house and went to put things in the kitchen. He went and sat on the sofa to continue watching TV!! I joined him and sat there thinking WTF is going on. Although he finally offered me a cuppa, the distance I felt nerved me. I could only last 40 minutes before the fight or flight response really kicked in. I got up and said I had to go, as I couldn't cope. He told me not to be stupid, but I couldn't stay in that atmosphere, I got my things and left.
As soon as I arrived home, I texted him to say I felt vulnerable and exposed and was looking for reassurance as the distance I had felt panicked me and this was the reason I had to leave. He responded saying he hadn't slept well the night after his birthday and that he was just tired. I responded to say it sounded like with both needed sleep and I will call the next morning. I called and we spoke about what had occurred and agreed that he would call later to arrange to meet up the next day. When we spoke in the evening, we talked about how fast everything had gone and likened it to a roller coaster ride. I wanted to see him but left it to him to make the call. He said he didn't want to hurt me and that we should perhaps leave it, I asked if we could have a couple of weeks to reflect and get in contact again.
I dated a Sagittarius for almost 4 years.. and it all started online... I was in asia and he was in europe.. but he pursued and flew to me. And when I realized he was really serious, I flew to him to see him.
On the Monday I decided to drive to his house, I wanted to see him face to face. Guess I wanted to make sure I wasn't used!! On my arrival, he was in a state, he had been thinking about us and what had occurred and his guilt for allowing things to happen to fast. He was also surprised to see me as we had agreed to leave it for a couple of weeks. Stayed for a cuppa but knew I should let him be, especially as he felt he was being cornered. Before I left, he told me he had feelings for me and I also responded by saying I had feelings for him.
I sent one final text to him when I returned home, apologising for turning up at his door and confirmed our feelings for each other was mutual and I sincerely hoped we are to meet in a couple of weeks. I'm an Aries, if this is any help. I am prepared to be patient and not contact him for the next two weeks, but really looking for some insight as to where I stand. Thank you all :0)