Typcial stares during A YEAR! And still no move
Still waiting for some advice 
I'm new one on this forum, maybe doing somenthing wrong... sorry!
I'm new one on this forum, maybe doing somenthing wrong... sorry!
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OMG Robyn808, you designed your dad's tat? WOW!! The design is really nice!
I can see and understand the slight frustration over the shading details and the artist's color choice on the flames totally irking your Virgo Asc. When Virgos want something done, they want it done RIGHT and PERFECTLY (if possible.).lol
I would know, (Both my parents are Virgos..).lol
The tat looks nice and maybe the artist figured that fire brings on smoke hence his choice for black/grey. IF your dad loves it..then thats good.
Don't spread the perfectionism bug over onto him..lol
I can see and understand the slight frustration over the shading details and the artist's color choice on the flames totally irking your Virgo Asc. When Virgos want something done, they want it done RIGHT and PERFECTLY (if possible.).lol
I would know, (Both my parents are Virgos..).lol
The tat looks nice and maybe the artist figured that fire brings on smoke hence his choice for black/grey. IF your dad loves it..then thats good.
Don't spread the perfectionism bug over onto him..lol
I don't have to kill anyone to call them a sissy 
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Oh my.
My Saturn return was like this... I was in my early thirties and it just kept going and going.
I was going through a...
Saturn Opposition Jupiter
Pluto Opposition Saturn
I didn't suffer materially but, the serious threat was there along with other threatening situations. I overcame. I was surrounded by all kinds of possible misfortune.
"This is a difficult time period when unexpected demands and responsibilities arise. It seems as if every weak link in your life decides to break now! New obligations are likely to arise both in your personal life and your work. You may find that a family member develops a physical or psychological problem, and you are the best person to assist. Problems with your car and other mechanical devices may also arise. Even if no new problems and responsibilities arise, you will find that you cannot open new doors now. If you have been hoping for a promotion, salary increase, better employment, a new home, a long vacation, or other release from the daily chores and limitations of your current life, you are likely to be disappointed. Expansion is very difficult at this time. A good way to prepare for this time period is to make your life as stable and secure as possible. For example, by having all debts and loans paid off, you are less vulnerable if your income decreases. If you are employed in a position that provides a high level of job security (for example, many government jobs are very stable and secure), then it is probably best to stay in this position rather than switch to employment that involves great risk."
This Interpretation of Pluto Opposition Saturn is from the Life Forecast astrology report by Gina Ronco
I look back at it all from time to time and I am like, "damn girl, you did the damn thing." Somehow Sugar, I did prepare for this transit unknowingly. I did have debts cleared, I did get a secure job with a high level of security, finished my masters... then, wammo! It was really bad... too bad to go into details.
My Saturn return was like this... I was in my early thirties and it just kept going and going.
I was going through a...
Saturn Opposition Jupiter
Pluto Opposition Saturn
I didn't suffer materially but, the serious threat was there along with other threatening situations. I overcame. I was surrounded by all kinds of possible misfortune.
"This is a difficult time period when unexpected demands and responsibilities arise. It seems as if every weak link in your life decides to break now! New obligations are likely to arise both in your personal life and your work. You may find that a family member develops a physical or psychological problem, and you are the best person to assist. Problems with your car and other mechanical devices may also arise. Even if no new problems and responsibilities arise, you will find that you cannot open new doors now. If you have been hoping for a promotion, salary increase, better employment, a new home, a long vacation, or other release from the daily chores and limitations of your current life, you are likely to be disappointed. Expansion is very difficult at this time. A good way to prepare for this time period is to make your life as stable and secure as possible. For example, by having all debts and loans paid off, you are less vulnerable if your income decreases. If you are employed in a position that provides a high level of job security (for example, many government jobs are very stable and secure), then it is probably best to stay in this position rather than switch to employment that involves great risk."
This Interpretation of Pluto Opposition Saturn is from the Life Forecast astrology report by Gina Ronco
I look back at it all from time to time and I am like, "damn girl, you did the damn thing." Somehow Sugar, I did prepare for this transit unknowingly. I did have debts cleared, I did get a secure job with a high level of security, finished my masters... then, wammo! It was really bad... too bad to go into details.
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Aria there is a possibility he is still working things out with her and there is a 50% possibility that he is reconsidering going back to her. It's cheaper to keep her. You are the rebound and you deserve so much more than what you're currently involved in with him.
First he should never bcc you about what's going on with his ex, it's immature. Did he divorce her? Or are they separated.
"Also, he mentioned to me that because of his email to her, he screwed up every freaking chance to get back with her and that's exactly what he wanted"
What? If he's doing what I think he's doing. Let me say this. He could be using you to get her back, DO NOT CONTACT HER, do not get involved with communicating with his wife because the moment she realize you are a real breathing human being she will interfere in your life. So my suggestion is to stay out of it.
"That recently, he was seduced and that something almost happened between them but since he's 36, he resisted it because he just don't want another kid with her, he's more sensible and he feels he would never get back with her again. Of course I do not believe it 100 percent."
LOL! What a bunch of bullshit, he screwed his ex and he's chasing her behind your back. Mock my words, I've seen this with my own eyes and had a similar situation way before I married my husband.
Drop his ass...He's going to drop you as soon as he know he can get his ex green with jealousy to the point she'll want him back, you'll inevitably get dropped or become the forbidden other woman in this dynamic.
You can do better but whatever you do stay out of his marriage and don't be too passive about this. You deserve respect and when you passively sit idly by and allow this man to cheat and chase his ex right up under your nose he'll LOSE respect for you and go back to her so be a bit more firm about protecting your heart.
My suggestion, get out now. You deserve to have a man all to yourself that is single, not involved with his ex on social media or otherwise outside of co-parenting and has his shit together to where it minimally effects you and your life.
If you choose to stick it out know the disadvantages and advantages and don't be too passive or too naive and you'll be okay.
First he should never bcc you about what's going on with his ex, it's immature. Did he divorce her? Or are they separated.
"Also, he mentioned to me that because of his email to her, he screwed up every freaking chance to get back with her and that's exactly what he wanted"
What? If he's doing what I think he's doing. Let me say this. He could be using you to get her back, DO NOT CONTACT HER, do not get involved with communicating with his wife because the moment she realize you are a real breathing human being she will interfere in your life. So my suggestion is to stay out of it.
"That recently, he was seduced and that something almost happened between them but since he's 36, he resisted it because he just don't want another kid with her, he's more sensible and he feels he would never get back with her again. Of course I do not believe it 100 percent."
LOL! What a bunch of bullshit, he screwed his ex and he's chasing her behind your back. Mock my words, I've seen this with my own eyes and had a similar situation way before I married my husband.
Drop his ass...He's going to drop you as soon as he know he can get his ex green with jealousy to the point she'll want him back, you'll inevitably get dropped or become the forbidden other woman in this dynamic.
You can do better but whatever you do stay out of his marriage and don't be too passive about this. You deserve respect and when you passively sit idly by and allow this man to cheat and chase his ex right up under your nose he'll LOSE respect for you and go back to her so be a bit more firm about protecting your heart.
My suggestion, get out now. You deserve to have a man all to yourself that is single, not involved with his ex on social media or otherwise outside of co-parenting and has his shit together to where it minimally effects you and your life.
If you choose to stick it out know the disadvantages and advantages and don't be too passive or too naive and you'll be okay.
You can be Alicia, just Alicia!
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That transit lasted for years. Saturn is my chart ruler and I have Pluto in the 8th.
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Posted by Ligeia
The only Fire Ascendant that comes to mind right now who
is BANGIN' for her age.
Sagittarius Ascendant
One word: Make-up!
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J-LO is a Libra rising and looks pretty good for her age too!