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Apr 03, 2013Comments: 18 · Posts: 1149 · Topics: 51
I understand, he is the man. I have always let the man make the first move. Maybe it is that ego stroking thing I need.
But today, the "traditional" roles of relationship have evolved. It is a known fact, men and woman are wired differently neurologically speaking. Just looking at the corpus callosum (I think that is what it is called)that links the right brain to the left brain, in men it is very narrow and in woman in it is very broad. That is one reason men are more simple in their emotions and woman are more complex. But today in society we are more aware, psychologically speaking of our emotions and mental health. We have become more aware of what we need to do in order to maintain a more healthy life. Speaking our emotions is one way to do so. You are doing so now as you work through this dilemma your brain is fighting with. It is up to you to take action on it. It is your decision what you want that action to be and the impact it will have on you. He may never expose how he truly feels. And yes, he could just being friendly. Who knows??
What is important is COMMUNICATION. You can't sit there and expect to know what he is feeling unless you communicate that you want to know. That is the big problem in any form of relationships. Communication. We are always trying to figure out where the other person is or make assumptions. Unless we communicate we will never progress.
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Apr 03, 2013Comments: 18 · Posts: 1149 · Topics: 51
Alex, you are being unfair to him. You are expecting him to show himself while you preserve yourself and protect himself. How can you expect anyone to communicate how they feel about you if you unable to do the same, even in self preservation.
Can't tell if he will. I don't know him or his personality as person. This rides deeper then astrology. I believe in astrology, but I also believe in nurture vs nature. There are so many variables here to know for sure.
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Yes. There's a pool of numbers they pull from when they create your account. If he ditched the old one and made a new one, the old one goes into a pool and it's given to a new account.
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