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Sep 18, 2012Comments: 57 · Posts: 456 · Topics: 7
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Sep 18, 2012Comments: 57 · Posts: 456 · Topics: 7
This seems to be an issue for most of the Scorpio men that I've known, they take things very personally- even the smallest of remarks can seem to cling onto their thoughts. As for me, I take criticism into consideration as improvements I can make to my already decent self. The thing is.. Scorpio sensitivity works much differently than most other types of sensitivity- even when we know things may not be meant as insulting, or even criticism at all, it can remind us of our deepest insecurities. These insecurities may be not being desired, or not being "good enough" for those we care most about. Never stop being honest with him, that's a part of who you are and it's important not to hold anything which is a piece of yourself back. Just explain to him gently, that you're with him for a reason. That you think he's wonderful the way he is, and you wouldn't change anything about him. Reassure him that whatever he's feeling is a side-effect of his own insecurities reflecting back at him, and not your ill favor or harsh judgement. Remind him this in a way that's intimate and tender so that he'll remember what you've said and take it to heart.
I need to be pointed this out to me ever so often as well even as a confident Scorpio lady.
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Apr 27, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 195 · Topics: 27
That's what I thought. When he told me "go ahead and ask her" and I said to him, "that is very tempting. I wanna tell her Hi! You must be Billy's mom. Pleased to meet you. Are you and my boyfriend still married? But then, that's not me." And he smiled. Yes, I do understand that I cannot ask him to forget them. I asked him before if he ever loved her. He said at one point he did but then the connection wasn't enough which resulted to their separation on their 3rd year of marriage. He said she wasn't a bad mom or wife. It's just that they got married for the kid and it wasn't the right thing. And that he loves his child although at first, abortion came in mind but then he said he's not that kind of person. His kid is a wonderful kid. I'm only seeing his pictures. He shows them to me and I felt that I love the kid like my own already. I asked if he ever wanted to have custody of his son but he said he doesn't want to because the kid has a mom and he wants a new family. He wants kids with me. In case that he wanted custody of the kid though, I am willing to take him as my own son. Although, I'm too young to be his mom. I dunno if this is love but I do know, I have accepted the fact that it's always gonna be a package deal.
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 288 · Posts: 30828 · Topics: 650
He already has pussy at home, so he can say whatever he wants. His sure thing is on lock.
With single men who dont get pussy, theyre more inclined to lie to get the pussy.
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 288 · Posts: 30828 · Topics: 650
I wonder if thats your mars in aqua talking. My mars in virgo loves to be used and rape fantasies turn me on. Mars in Scorpio obliges.