Texting first on the 3rd or 4th time, for ladies
I posted on another thread that I waited for a gentleman to text me 3 times before I texted him first.
I think this was misunderstood and I was called cruel.
So I will clarify what I meant.
Firstly, any man that I gave my number out to while dating, I wanted to call or text me.
When they texted or called me, I always responded as soon as I got it.
If I missed their call, I would call them right back.
I simply did not text them first. After every 3 texts I received, I felt free to text first.
So, a gentleman who texts me good morning, then another text later, then maybe a good morning the next day would get a good morning text first the third day.
I did not ignore them, at all.
This worked for me. The only 2 men who complained were:
1) an Aquarius- he obviously was just interested in sex. Had 1 date with him. Found out later that he was pursuing another lady at the same time who thought they were exclusive at the time.
2) a Capricorn who offended me so much I never even met him in person.
There were a few who did not complain but gave up quickly. I wouldn't want a guy like that anyway.
Anyway,this strategy worked for me, like I said before. I never was accused of bothering anyone and I never ran anyone out of town. No one ever called me a clinger either.
Men respected it, and I assure you they did not think it was rude or strange.
I mention it because some people on here text men too much. Then they get upset when they never hear from the person again. Just trying to help.
I think this was misunderstood and I was called cruel.
So I will clarify what I meant.
Firstly, any man that I gave my number out to while dating, I wanted to call or text me.
When they texted or called me, I always responded as soon as I got it.
If I missed their call, I would call them right back.
I simply did not text them first. After every 3 texts I received, I felt free to text first.
So, a gentleman who texts me good morning, then another text later, then maybe a good morning the next day would get a good morning text first the third day.
I did not ignore them, at all.
This worked for me. The only 2 men who complained were:
1) an Aquarius- he obviously was just interested in sex. Had 1 date with him. Found out later that he was pursuing another lady at the same time who thought they were exclusive at the time.
2) a Capricorn who offended me so much I never even met him in person.
There were a few who did not complain but gave up quickly. I wouldn't want a guy like that anyway.
Anyway,this strategy worked for me, like I said before. I never was accused of bothering anyone and I never ran anyone out of town. No one ever called me a clinger either.
Men respected it, and I assure you they did not think it was rude or strange.
I mention it because some people on here text men too much. Then they get upset when they never hear from the person again. Just trying to help.
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How to get a Capricorn woman to make you an omelette.
Scorp: I think I'm gonna have an omelette for dinner.
Me: ok.
Scorp: Okay, I'm gonna make an omelette. Do we have eggs?
Me: ok- yeah.
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Scorp: So, I just put the eggs in the pan?
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