Because you have treated her so well she knows she's not going to meet anyone else like you so she keeps coming back.
A way to get her into your arms is to slow her down. Meaning not letting your guard down easily; she will enter your life just as fast and leave the way she was welcomed in your hands. If wanting to make this relationship work is to proceed with caution. A good man knowing how to treat a lady, place the Cap on. For the longest time you have shown her what you are made of, but it is time for you to break the barrier wall she's holding onto, and that is to be the Man you have shown her you have always been. Place restrictions on yourself, do not let your guard down. This woman hurt your feelings and making it harder for her to come back is asking herself questions like "Where Did I Go Wrong?" in starting to think of solutions on how to make the situation better and a way to get back with you. It is up to you on how you want to lead the situation. My suggestion is to lead carefully and thread fully, not let this woman enter your life the same way as you have made it for her after what you both have been through. It is a woman or a man's loss that good situations and good people don't come easy to find the golden key to one's heart. Hope you find your way to this woman's heart, if it isn't her, then it will somebody who deserves you and your good intentions with a well blended heart. ??? & Blessings. : )
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Jan 14, 2007Comments: 71 · Posts: 2672 · Topics: 56
LimM, I am sorry about your Dad. You have had a difficult time with grieve the past few years. Do you have support from other family members or friends during this difficult time?
Your thought about past lives is really interesting, but I don't believe that you did anything in a past life that caused the loss of your loved ones, or the pain your are going through now. As we process our grief, we try to make sense of death, and guilt is another stage of grief. Death is a mystery of life.
My personal belief is that we as humans, are connected by something deeper than our bodies and minds, which are born, live for a while and die. We are connected by the core of our being. We bond through our cores and that bond never vanishes -it is always there.
I send you many hugs ???
ASCENSION
And if I go,
while you're still here...
Know that I live on,
vibrating to a different measure
-behind a thin veil you cannot see through.
You will not see me,
so you must have faith.
I wait for the time when we can soar together again,
-both aware of each other.
Until then, live your life to its fullest.
And when you need me,
Just whisper my name in your heart,
.....I will be there.
~Colleen Corah Hitchcock~
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Nov 14, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 4517 · Topics: 108
No guy has ever wanted to be my friend. I've never wanted one either. I think the " home girl " is the one they marry right?
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Aug 25, 2012Comments: 25 · Posts: 885 · Topics: 40
every saggi girl i have dated has been damaged goods one way or the other.
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Jan 12, 2012Comments: 34 · Posts: 1132 · Topics: 27
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A lot of the people who have spoken to me about their work problems have a difficult Sagittarius co-worker. My mom's boss is a Sagittarius, and she makes my mom (Libra) extremely stressed. She's argumentative, stubborn, and interrupts you while you're talking. She has very little consideration for the people at her work, because she asks them to do her favors when they're busy or right when they're about to leave. She does nice things for people, and always expects things in return. She's funny, nice, sweet, and caring, but in a business setting her negative sides come out.
My aunt's manager, who's also a Sagittarius, also stresses her out a lot. She's very confrontational, blunt, outspoken, and does whatever she thinks is best. My aunt (Pisces) can be bossy, stubborn, and quarrelsome at home but she never steps up to her manager. Her manager is intimidating & always has the last word. My aunt sometimes crosses the line here at home with her attitude, but I feel like her manager humbles her because she never acts like that with her. It's funny seeing how her manager affects her personality.
I've also noticed at my school that the Sagittarius kids come off as bullies. I'm not saying that all Sagittarius are mean-spirited people, but I'm just saying that I've noticed a pattern. Do you guys think you're difficult, or do you think it's just a coincidence that I've encountered Sagittarius that are like this? I think you're all adventurous, funny, honest people; I'm just curious. Lol!