Because at least for me that is, it is easier to cut people off that we think will hurt us and in that way we save ourselves from heartache down the road. Maybe he has a gf now and if they have been together for some time, and if he knows he got a weak spot for u then maybe he thinks it wouldn??t be fair to her if u were in his life again, as it could mess things up for him.
It could be alot of reasons why. But i feel u, not knowing is difficult, if he meant alot to u.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Why didn't you press charges on him at the time?
His agression is from some other psychological reason. Could be circustances of his parents divorce, frustrations, not getting attention from dad or mom, no parental support, mental abuse from his parents, etc. You did nothing wrong but be in the wrong place at the wrong time.
It's still not too late to have someone beat his ass!!
*grabbing shotgun; heading to Canada*
I am in love with a pisces woman and I am a scorpion. What can I do to attract her to me and for her to open up to me? We have dated for 8 months now..I am very affectionate with her but she has withdrawn herself somewhat from me and don't know why...Please help with some adice...
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Lol @ "power off his phone". Too cute. Angie, I dont think its only libras who dont lie about their health. Its a sane human thing. Only a psycho would lie about serious health issues for sympathy, or whatever personal gain. Its sick.
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From your other post freddy... it sounds as if she's being smothered and therefore losing interest.
She told you that she wasn't ready for a relationship. You've deemed yourself in a relationship, where she has deemed that you are dating for the past 8 months. You are at a level of commitment that she outright told you she wasn't ready for in the beginning. So you signed up with the guise of "ok I will be patient" - but now you are becoming impatient and wanting more than she already told you she could offer.
Give her some space. Some room to breathe a little more.
You can't hold a fish with any comfort. You just have to enjoy it when it decides to be near. hahah said that way - why would anyone want to be involved with us, I wonder... but I think you know the answer to it based on the fact that the time you spend with her you enjoy. Right?
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Yes, I often do write in my journal. If I didn't, I think I'd scare everyone off with frequent philosophical, existential rants. There is so much information stored within us I feel it's necessary to write things down- we can look back on them and remember our previous thoughts, our rambling riddles we once found to be of importance. It is a timeline, a document of ones pondering. A contrast of future and past realities.
So yes, I do. I like to tape flowers inside my journal also and look back on them some year later when they're dried and frozen there- a reminder from my past self to my present self that one day, my present circumstances will also be a memory.