Taurus Guy needs Deciphering
Signed Up: May 12, 2013
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Comments: 0 · Posts: 20 · Topics: 1
Some good news 
We talked yesterday for most of the day after him being mostly MIA for the week. Busy with life and things.
I said to him we should meet in person, he said we already agreed to that. I said we should plan it, and he agreed. Nothing is set in stone but I asked him when and he said August or September after he completes his degree and finalizes his house purchase so he will have no distractions. I said that's perfect! And now I'm so excited!!!!
Even though we haven't been talking much lately due to his busy schedule that news makes me giddy.
Patience does pay off after all
We talked yesterday for most of the day after him being mostly MIA for the week. Busy with life and things.
I said to him we should meet in person, he said we already agreed to that. I said we should plan it, and he agreed. Nothing is set in stone but I asked him when and he said August or September after he completes his degree and finalizes his house purchase so he will have no distractions. I said that's perfect! And now I'm so excited!!!!
Even though we haven't been talking much lately due to his busy schedule that news makes me giddy.
Patience does pay off after all
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Men don't act confused. People grow. Some have the patience to grow together. Others have to grow apart. There's a big difference. That article just seems very childish in the sense that it's selling the idea "if you can't make him grow up in this way, try the other door instead".
It's a get rich quick article when really we all have growing to do, alone. Patience is something far too rare today. Everyone in a hurry to find the quickest map to destination nowhere.
+1 on the whole post, especially the part about growing. Nobody is born knowing how to be in a relationship, you learn these things throu your mistakes & grow from there on. Everybody has their own pace of learning, or their own trigger that makes them want to improve. I'm not a fan of these articles for a reason.. they package everything in one box. We're individuals with good/bad experiences in life & those experiences affect us more than we know, making us to act a certain way. The actions might look the same to a stranger & be translated to whatever, forgetting the individual reasons behind the oh so familiar way of acting. Nobody is 100% "healthy" within, people have hangups, issues..whatever.
Posted by Metoo
As a Cap I have reinvented myself many times in my life. When I make changes in career and relationship, it was a long time coming, it is usually fairly drastic almost like a complete overhaul. I had given it a lot of thought and prepared and planned, so he may have been stewing some things over for awhile.
Sometimes to if things aren't going well and I was forced into change, the effects are worse as far as impact of relationships with friends and faily and I withdraw. I don't wanna show anyone I am not doing well, and I don't want any pity, advice, help...I need to figure things out and being in touch with everyone just complicates things as a cap will feel vulnerable (this is the worst place possible for us) and since we need stability we are desperately fighting to find a solution to get back on track.
You have been a question mark in his life. He knows your a friend but its the capacity he questions and he doesn't have time right now to deal with that. He has to deal with reality, job changes, financial effects...my sense is he needs to figure out his life right now and he is shutting out everyone until he finds his balance. Send good energy his way and have faith he will return when he can. Theres no timeframe. In the meantime figure out what you want with him when he comes back. Is it friendship ONLY? then be prepared to be specific about that.
And if you want to give it a try as far as a relationship..be clear there too. Maybe its time to get out of he gray so you both have more direction and clear intent toward your relationship.
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so he was asking me specific questions that a newly engaged couple or people who have decided they want to marry each other would address..such as how i would like my ideal married life to be...if i'd like to live with my in laws..if i'd like to work...about kids...etc..etc..if i'd like to move away to a different area...
he actually said to me he knows i'm quite laid back with this sort of stuff but that i should start thinking about my future as he clearly is thinking about his every single day.
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Posted by geminicandlePosted by s4nd
u have to move away from aries tendencies.
A-ha! So say no to gambling, casual sex, drinking, pretty much anything infantile and impulsive. Gotcha!
Thanks.click to expand
I've got mine's in Aries (and the 4th house). Does it mean my purpose in life is to indulge in all the above-mentioned activities at home? I'm on the right track, then!
Posted by robyn808
Sounds like he's enjoying the moments. He probably hasn't made up his mind yet, if he does it will be when he feels he thoroughly has gotten to know you and assessed his life and his ability to give you what you need and commitment to that.
This ^^^^^^^^
Pure WTFery....what does this even mean..
One never knows what feby's doing with the animals 
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Posted by truecap
I have nothing new to add. Everything I thought of to mention, has already been mentioned.
I am sure his disappearance has hurt your feelings and I'm sorry for that. I agree with sending him another message on facebook. Just ask if he's okay and tell him you miss him.
thanks
yes i sent just one more message..but i guess thats it really...up to him now
it did effect me quite a bit...it still is now but i'm coming to terms with the possibility that he might not speak to me..
I just never think friends would disappear like that..ok i know he thinks of me as more..but then that gives him even more of a reason to explain where and why and how...
I'd never do what he did to someone if i thought of them the way he supposedly thinks of me...