What TaurusBull said above ^^^!!!!
Mehak I dont think anyone is making fun of you. I think what happens with earth and water is that earth is very direct...we cut through the bs and take the very direct straight path which can leave water thinking that we are being mean and hurtful...which we didnt mean to do at all. Trust me this happens all the time with me and my sis (scorpio) and mommy (cancer). I am sorry if you took anything I said that way and I dont think the other bull girls meant it that why either.
To answer your should you contact him question...here's the deal, it's like I told you earlier, he's watching to see what you will do. He cares about you because he is still there. Honestly the fact that he cried says a lot. I'm a girl and let me tell you I would not let anyone see me cry unless the feelings run deep. I mean don??t get me wrong I would cry at home by myself or maybe my mom or closest friend might see a tear or two but to show such vulnerability to someone that was braking up with me...never...I dont know maybe that is just me though. Yes contact him if you have the patience to wait and show him that you will be around and not bolt the minute you feel you are not getting what you want. It's gonna take time. I think it is hard for a girl in this situation because as women we want the man pursuing us...that's one why we know they care and want us. In this case I dont think you should purse him just keep in contact a few times a week to let him know while he's watching and figuring things out you are still there and this time you are not going anywhere. If at any time things get hard for you talk to him in a direct straight forward way and do it after you have gotten your emotions under control. Dont jump to an extreme and brake up with him unless you really mean it is over and you are done...just take a brake...dont contact him for a week or two. To be honest this has happened a few times with the 2 Scorps I have dated and I would make rather just take a little brake for us both to figure things out and have a breather then for them to say it is over. If it is over then I take it for just that...being over. It??s like TaurusBull said what you have been doing hasn??t worked so try doing something new.
The thing is sweetie you did this and I??m not saying that to be mean. You kept braking up with him. Yes maybe you did it because you thought he didn??t care or wasn??t giving you what you wanted??_I fully understand that. B
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But if you want him and you truly think this could be love and something deep you are going to have to be the one to fix it and that is going to take time and a different approach.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Well.... he's told you what his MO for break up is. I'd be cautious about that.
Maybe things just went really fast and he's no longer sure. And, he doesn't seem to have a lot of experience with relationships. Maybe just more time. Pull back a little and see what happens.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Also, something to consider. It is romantic hooking up with a high school sweetheart years later. Perhaps the romanticism has worn off and reality set in.
*shrugs* I really don't know. But communication will be key!
Lol, Jynja.....no way am I doing that, he would probably love it if I did...but nope!
As for as the whole just roommate thing, wth..is this another test or is he scared.
From what I wrote does this act like a man in love?
Also, my cap gives PDA all the time.