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Nov 17, 2012Comments: 22 · Posts: 6178 · Topics: 30
I'd say if the majority of the time you are happy and enjoying yourself... then I wouldn't let the once a day/week/month snide remarks turn me away.
However, I doubt you made this thread over something like that?
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Yeah, I can kind of see what you mean.
I used to feel that way too honestly...I was really distraught at first when me and my Libra we weren't having sex everyday. I thought it meant he wasn't into me as much anymore. But since we have been long distance for a couple years now, I've realized that it has nothing to do with it. (Not to mention, lots of reassurance from him, as it is something I immediately wanted to discuss)
I mean, I still get the sense he wants to "ravage" me when we do do it.
Less frequency does not equal less passion, by any means - although it might seem like it from the outside.
I relate it to cheesecake, kind of like Poisson mentioned....
I am really fucking passionate about cheesecake. I want to eat it all the time...but I don't.
But all good things are best in moderation. Doesn't mean I don't want it any less!
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Oh, it wasn't the snide remark that I was referring to. It was me taking a peek at my past behavior and realizing that me leaving when hurt or angry seems to be the norm for me. I am just curious what people's take on this is. Just a topic up for discussion, I'm not butt hurt about anything :-)
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You are fond of secrets and often keep your thoughts hidden from others, because you feel it is better if they don't know what you're thinking. Just be careful that you don't make this attitude so plain that people start distrusting you, even when there is no reason to.
You may be afraid to tell people your ideas because you think they are no good or that everyone will disagree with them. This is not good, because your ideas are probably not at all bad. Your mind is as good as anyone else's, but you will not get any credit for your beliefs unless you learn to speak up.
You like to be alone and ponder your own thoughts, even if you don't share them with others. You are especially fond of beautiful and fantastic ideas. Just be careful not to spend so much time in your private fantasy world that you neglect to learn about the real world outside of your head.
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A shy person, you prefer to stay in the background if possible; in fact, you like to hide.
You have more compassion for others than most young people do. You love mysteries and secrets, imagination and fantasy.
You may have had an extremely painful experience when you were very young. If so, you may think it was a punishment for something that you did, and you may be afraid that it will happen again. In fact, whatever happened was an accident for which nobody is to blame. You are not a bad person, and there is no reason why it should happen again.
When you grow up, you will probably have an unusual understanding of the supernatural.
Getting up in front of an audience will probably never be easy, although you can learn to do it if you really want to.