Posted by JennGemPosted by Xin
Yes bad omen. Plus a lot of people cheat through FB. Don't do it.
That's horrible! I could see how FB is the new married fishing pool or something. Ugh, I'm getting irritated. Lolclick to expand
Well with me what I've thought is: a lot of these guys married right out of college (some even right out of high school, if you can believe that) and I am from the South, and I have lived in Vegas and L.A. and don't have any kids....so I just figure I look "exciting" to them from a distance. Like "oh there's blah blah blah, hey she's still pretty hot...and she represents the life I never lived, since I decided to stay here and get married and have kids, I wonder what her life is life."
I hope for most of them it's just a stupid fantasy, that I seem like an option they never took, and there's something exciting about that in their sedate young married lives...but the one guy I mentioned who was too persistent about it...it seriously made me MAD.
I haven't had this issue with any of the guys who actually traveled or did other things with their lives before "settling down."
In the post where you said this guy actually comes to the bar where your family goes (or owns it)...I wouldn't like that either.
Do you have a problem telling people like that to fuck off?
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Posted by wagtail
A good Virgo mate of mine was with an Aries girl he really loved... They made countless sex tapes etc but when they broke up he showed them to everybody!
All his buddies, even me *ew*
He cared about her but I mean, once the relationship was over it seemed like their memories were just so much porn to him in the end...
I don't know if I could trust anybody to do that unless I was in charge of the camera and all copies thereafter.
And I don't think she knows either by the way.
She might regret it later...
I have to agree on you here @Wagtail
I witnessed same thing too and I pity the woman but they're all grown up so I just laugh at it.
I can only do it if I'm the one in control of everything but I still doubt it.
I have high regards to the art of making love.
I believe it is the purest form of expressing my love so I won't do it for the sake of having physical pleasure but it has to be soulful union of our souls too.
Anyways, how are you Wag? Hope everything's well with u...
This is my first post on this, and I hope I get feedback. Thank-you...
I am a married guy that is tortured with the thoughts and emotions of love for a girl that is 24 years younger than me.
I met her 3 years ago when I was at Dentist and she is his assistant. I immediately felt a strong attraction to her. Not a sexual urge, but that feeling like you want to hang out around her for as long as you possibly can.
I then spent the next 18 months in and out of the Dentist office getting implants and I may have been to the dentist 20 times over those 18 months.
We had several events outside the office and we always make sure there is no kissing or touching (just an occasional hug) and eventually we would have short conversations by phone or text messages. I told her my marriage is not a good one and I want to end it and be free and she does not respond, she is careful not to lead me on, but at same time, she seems to like to talk and chat with me a lot (I am guessing as I want to be careful not to tell you something unless it is fact).
Towards the end of my dental visits, she asks if I want to go to lunch and I did so I came by during her lunch to meet her at the office and the receptionist and dentist are joking a bit about us taking our time at lunch like they are kidding a young couple going on a date. We went to lunch, casual, nothing happened, we chatted, we always had good times and laughed a lot, we had an easy going friendship with an edge of unspoken words that we both seemed to feel ( I did, I am guessing she did) and after the lunch I started talking on phone more frequently with her, and one day, out of blue ( no action prompted this) she texted that she thought things were getting out of hand and thought we should keep our relationship professional, not personal. I quickly replied, I understand, and would honor her wish. I was a bit embarrassed as I was always cautious about pressing too hard because of age difference and fact that I was still married.
It hurt, but I went for last few dental visits with a very professional, but happy look on my face and the both of us pretended no words were said, and we kept it light and friendly.
That was about a year and a half ago when she was 27 (it was Nov. 2011). Then in April 2012 she sent a happy birthday card from dentist, saying she wished me an awesome birthday and was friendly but not flirty like she was before agreeing to keep it businesslike. I will need to do this in 2 parts, sorry
I am a married guy that is tortured with the thoughts and emotions of love for a girl that is 24 years younger than me.
I met her 3 years ago when I was at Dentist and she is his assistant. I immediately felt a strong attraction to her. Not a sexual urge, but that feeling like you want to hang out around her for as long as you possibly can.
I then spent the next 18 months in and out of the Dentist office getting implants and I may have been to the dentist 20 times over those 18 months.
We had several events outside the office and we always make sure there is no kissing or touching (just an occasional hug) and eventually we would have short conversations by phone or text messages. I told her my marriage is not a good one and I want to end it and be free and she does not respond, she is careful not to lead me on, but at same time, she seems to like to talk and chat with me a lot (I am guessing as I want to be careful not to tell you something unless it is fact).
Towards the end of my dental visits, she asks if I want to go to lunch and I did so I came by during her lunch to meet her at the office and the receptionist and dentist are joking a bit about us taking our time at lunch like they are kidding a young couple going on a date. We went to lunch, casual, nothing happened, we chatted, we always had good times and laughed a lot, we had an easy going friendship with an edge of unspoken words that we both seemed to feel ( I did, I am guessing she did) and after the lunch I started talking on phone more frequently with her, and one day, out of blue ( no action prompted this) she texted that she thought things were getting out of hand and thought we should keep our relationship professional, not personal. I quickly replied, I understand, and would honor her wish. I was a bit embarrassed as I was always cautious about pressing too hard because of age difference and fact that I was still married.
It hurt, but I went for last few dental visits with a very professional, but happy look on my face and the both of us pretended no words were said, and we kept it light and friendly.
That was about a year and a half ago when she was 27 (it was Nov. 2011). Then in April 2012 she sent a happy birthday card from dentist, saying she wished me an awesome birthday and was friendly but not flirty like she was before agreeing to keep it businesslike. I will need to do this in 2 parts, sorry
Sometimes you just can't be bothered talking to some people. I've done it with acquaintances, time is precious and some people talk too much and about nothing. If they are ex's, I'm sure there isn't much to say so I'd keep it moving there too. Quick wave and smile is all you need.
Awe I get along with ALL my mental ppl...Aquarius included! Even tho them are some STANGE persons lol
Gemini's and Virgo's are really hard on themselves... They are their own worse critics. They need a lot of encouragement. Sarcasm is a front for covering up ones insecurity. Smart people don't think others are stupid. If somebody is trying to change your outlook in life...Just nod your head and go...Yep your always right, how does it feel to be right? Them two signs don't have the highest self-esteem.
US Cancers are gifted with the ability to listen to others with our complete attention. I know that when I with a Gemini they really do appreciate that.
Tho I do got a Virgo Moon and Asc... Might be the reason why I get along with those signs. Mercury and all.
Gemini's and Virgo's are really hard on themselves... They are their own worse critics. They need a lot of encouragement. Sarcasm is a front for covering up ones insecurity. Smart people don't think others are stupid. If somebody is trying to change your outlook in life...Just nod your head and go...Yep your always right, how does it feel to be right? Them two signs don't have the highest self-esteem.
US Cancers are gifted with the ability to listen to others with our complete attention. I know that when I with a Gemini they really do appreciate that.
Tho I do got a Virgo Moon and Asc... Might be the reason why I get along with those signs. Mercury and all.
Hey virgosag, I am very well, thank you for asking! =) how how hoooowww are you?!
Yes, different perspectives on the role of sex across the board here, but it is a delicate matter and depending on how it's handled can present problems.
Just important to be very aware of just how far this situation can play out.
Sometimes the consequences are unseen but far reaching.
I don't have an issue with filming per se but just for me it really needs parameters and very clearly my call...
Ahhh well.
Yes, different perspectives on the role of sex across the board here, but it is a delicate matter and depending on how it's handled can present problems.
Just important to be very aware of just how far this situation can play out.
Sometimes the consequences are unseen but far reaching.
I don't have an issue with filming per se but just for me it really needs parameters and very clearly my call...
Ahhh well.
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