is there truly power in saying goodbye?
When you are involved in a relationship with someone. .of any kind and you just don't feek that they are giving you 100% . You seem to be an option vs their priority...you decide to say goodbye.
Who at this point has more power? Will they even notice your absence? Is there really good in goodbye? What have been your experiences?
Who at this point has more power? Will they even notice your absence? Is there really good in goodbye? What have been your experiences?
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Posted by xdimplezPosted by Mr. DefensePosted by xdimplez
i thought you said you werent investing any feelings in to this mr defense.
anyways...threads are being posted muy rapido! it use to take a good 10-15 minutes for a new thread to be shown in the front page
I've come to realize that the only way you don't invest feelings into someone is when they are no longer in the picture
cheers to that. you don't need her, keep your time open for someone who is worthy of itclick to expand
If I had a bucket of +1's, I'd dump them on you for those words.
(Btw, nice job on the Yoga pose
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Posted by CluelessCancer
It takes two to tango, what mistakes have you made in past relationships, that you now regret?
Losing myself. But I don't regret it at all. If I wouldn't have been na??ve then, I wouldn't know what I know now. Those lessons were great & they taught me a hellava' lot.
Posted by ShakenNotStirred
IME, truly beautiful / sexy women are either:
1. Deeply insecure, and overcompensate by being Type A Super-Bitches that think they're too good for any man.
2. Vain as hell, and think they're too good for any man.
IOW: HIGH MAINTENANCE! And, not worth the bother.
My sentiment exactly.
The really hot ones tend to be whores anyway, so I prefer a naturally beautiful woman over a hot slut anytime.
Posted by RealTalk
So let me see if I understand.
Basically you're not reprimanding women who sleep with men too soon, you're just pointing out the fact that based on their decision to sleep with the man before she actually really knows who he is, & then complaining about him leaving & or being a jack ass? No?
Well, sort of.
But I will still say that ultimately men will place more value on the woman
who made him work for her affection instead of the one who dropped her panties
willingly on the 2nd date. You know it, I know it, the men know it.
And if some woman still wants to disagree and say that it didn't affect their relationship in a bad way....Well....Like I said....
"How do you know those men weren't just biding their time with you until something better came along?
How do you know they weren't just being perfect gentlemens to keep the sex ongoing?
Where are those men now? "
Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by SatoriFierce
err yeah, I don't get it either, TLS.
Hah Satori, neither do I. It has nothing to do with the OP at all, felt like writing so I did.
*shakes my head*
No reason what so ever...Foot-in-mouth syndrome.
I better shut my trap now.
*cues exit from thread*click to expand
Haha! How adorable
Posted by NGG22Posted by WaterCup
I really don't know what to say to you, just dont push him to choose. Let it be his decision & his alone, so that when you all's relationship dont work out, atleast you'll be guilt free & he'll have a support system in his brother or any other member of his family. Trust & believe in your love and God & who knows, in the long run his family might learn to accept his relationship with you..welcome you. I honestly believe that one's future with a s/o should be built on clear grounds with family blessings & whatnot. But that's just my belief. Do what you see fit & good luck.
PS- if you really do belong together, nothing will ever stand in your way of togetherness..not even a disgruntled family member. This might be a "test" to your love if you believe in that sort of thing lol. I wish you all the best
I am guilt free... Im stepping aside for him to sort this out... (or not) It's just so tragic and somewhat shakesperean to me... lol... but I'm not going to ball my eyes out over this.. I'm crushed, no doubt about it... but I'm 33 years old, and so is he... this is high school shite.click to expand
lmao @ Shakesperean. Who said life was going to be fair lol? How long have you guys been together & why doesn't the brother like you?
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
@ Jahlia
Online translators do a terrible job in translating poetry, especially from a foreign language to English.
Do you take Spanish in school?
hahahah better than nothing xd!!!
Posted by PhoenixRising
I was dealing with "limp handshake" (
I guess when I read this I was thinking two things. First, that this "enemy within" is also referencing personal desires, needs and wants, not necessarily just insecurities or weak points in your character that can be easily exploited by others. But putting that aside, the second thing I thought of was what Seraph hinted to, which it this statement is talking about a way of thinking, a process that must occur every single day. A person doesn't suddenly just shift their way of thinking or stop "fighting" this enemy within--if at all.
In many ways (not all), the person you are is shaped by other people--what they think and say about you. For example, the reasons you think you are a good mother is because your children??s success, physical and mental well-being and personal feedback (or the feedback from others) reflect this or say that you are a good mother. Without this reflection or feedback how would you define what a "good mother" is or know you??ve achieved this goal? So, if other people have this much influence on how you view yourself, how easy would it be to get rid of the "enemy within"? This type of influence would also suggest that other people will always have an impact on you (or the ability to ???hurt?? you).
I understand the proverb was referring to enemies (or even strangers), but do we only struggle with the sh*t that our enemies try to throw at us?
OooOoOoh, I likes the way you think, honey. Well-said. Love the interpretation.
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