Stood up
I believe the way you communicate has created the problem. You somewhat blurred the communication here with everyone as well as doing this with him as well.
Telling a man your "dating" about your health issues should be something divulged much later down the line. Yes the whole online thing can feel so real and make people open up more especially via text messaging, email, social networking but the rules of engagement still hold firm. Wait to give out personal information and the whole car thing is a bit creepy (to me) and he over stepped his boundaries so be careful about your boundaries.
Not sure what the status is between the both of you but my suggestion would be to start over again. Give him a pass on the situation and then learn how to communicate more effectively meaning if there is something you need to know, want to know, want to confirm then do so and be exact about it.
Your biggest problem will be your inability to communicate better. Next time just reconfirm the date. So for now let it pass, give it some time and start over with him.
Telling a man your "dating" about your health issues should be something divulged much later down the line. Yes the whole online thing can feel so real and make people open up more especially via text messaging, email, social networking but the rules of engagement still hold firm. Wait to give out personal information and the whole car thing is a bit creepy (to me) and he over stepped his boundaries so be careful about your boundaries.
Not sure what the status is between the both of you but my suggestion would be to start over again. Give him a pass on the situation and then learn how to communicate more effectively meaning if there is something you need to know, want to know, want to confirm then do so and be exact about it.
Your biggest problem will be your inability to communicate better. Next time just reconfirm the date. So for now let it pass, give it some time and start over with him.
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haha just one of those random dreams I guess. You guys were all pieces of a puzzle and little pixels 
Only there seems to be a missing piece and I started to freak out when I couldn't find it. It was like that time where I had a dream and you guys all had TV sets as heads with your avatars on them lmao.
Yeah I'm cray
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Posted by PuraLeo
True/False: You start feeling protective of someone you're dating because you're starting to invest in him/her?
An fabulous Cap I'm dating wants texts to let him know I get home safe after a date, and waits to make sure I got in my car safely before leaving a date. Given most men I've dated don't do this so I started to wonder..
When does someone you've met become worth protecting..?
When they realize you have something they want, such as money or power (or something as simple as complete control over your life).
Should they "marry" you (if you can really use the Divine word here), it's to attain something.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Blame your Taurus in Venus.
Fixed signs do this shit to you.
Cancer moon doesn't help either. I have both placements and I hate what it does to me. You can be sane, logical, or rational any other time, but these placements make life difficult.
However, with me, once I'm with someone else, any of that residual from the last guy just kinda disappears. Maybe you should question what you could possibly be missing in the relationship with the current guy that is making you reconsider the self absorbed ex here?
Rockyroad - HEY! I resent that! I have Taurus in both venus/mars but I definitely don't do that type of thing. I would say it's more the Cancer moon hands down.
Well, Taurus ladies like the rowdy sex.
Maybe ya'll should try putting the moves on, and see how he responds.
Once you hook him into that, I doubt he will be dithering on ANYTHING for long, haha.
Maybe ya'll should try putting the moves on, and see how he responds.
Once you hook him into that, I doubt he will be dithering on ANYTHING for long, haha.
Posted by Stinger Baby
I had a sleep over with one of my gem friends last night and her bedroom was freezing! she had the window open, with the fan inside of it going strong, and the house ac was on. i got under a blanket, but she was under this very thin bed sheet in her t and shorts. i was freezing my ass off, but she was fine.
now i ask if it's a gem thing because my littlest brother is also a gem and EVERY TIME he sleeps, he sleeps with a duracraft fan blowing on high over his head with the window open. i would go in his room to wake him up and his room would be freezing.
my gemini ex's bedroom would always be freezing too. we were under duvets while the ac would freeze up the room...all of the time.
and dont try asking any of them to turn the temp down, not even a tiny bit. the reply is all the same... 'that air feels good'. lol, do a lot of you all do that?
Yes!!!! Yes 1000x's! I have my AC on like literally "on" all night, the ceiling fan, and I have a humidifier, and another fan blowing that around so it evenly distributes. Anytime I move to a diff place in the house I move my humidifier and mini fan with me. LOL! I have to have air going. If I don't have all that happening I feel uncomfortable.
Lol, note to self - work on becoming classy,
step 1 get some pink sunglasses
step 2 get a pink top
step 3 get pink earrings
step 4 manipulate a man by using sex or lack thereof to "get" him
step 5 manipulate said man further so that he will buy me a pink ferrari
Wish me luck, i'm soooo looking forward to my classy future it's all looking rosy pink right now
step 1 get some pink sunglasses
step 2 get a pink top
step 3 get pink earrings
step 4 manipulate a man by using sex or lack thereof to "get" him
step 5 manipulate said man further so that he will buy me a pink ferrari
Wish me luck, i'm soooo looking forward to my classy future it's all looking rosy pink right now
DON'T FUCK WITH WATER SIGNS!
Now why would anyone do that? Well, I suppose common sense isn't so common anymore.
Now why would anyone do that? Well, I suppose common sense isn't so common anymore.
Posted by sunshine222
Gem..please don't take offense at this
Every Gem I know is truly two faced..just like the twins. I've had 2 Gem friends and they were both the same. The one friend acts one way, all nicey nice, but then she acts wicked like she has another side..I swear it's true.
As an Aries and loving "realness" I can see right thru it!!
They talk behind your back and then act like your best friend when they see you...ugh so fake..
I had one for a neighbor...she would come over and talk to me about the other neighbor and then go over to the other neighbor and talk about me!! This just wasn't one time, her life was consistently like this.
But they have great fun-loving personalities, and I get along with them well.
I completely agree! I know two Gems very well. They both gossip to me about all of their closest friends so I can only imagine what they are saying about me behind my back. As a straight-forward person, that shit irks my nerves! If you have a problem with the person you're gossiping about, say it to them!!! It just might mend your friendship and allow the problem to go away completely. From my experience, they are just very sensitive people. They use their "twin" to protect them from pain. Otherwise though, they are fun and full of life and laughter so I like having my Gem ladies around.
Thanks so much! Yeah I'm starting to like him more and more but I doubt he feels the same way beyond buddies. I'll talk to him soon. Just how to talk to him because I can be a little too blunt. My truth blurts are like Tourettes. Now we're able to have honest conversations but we never had a discussion about us which I'm worried about. Ok, I should just grow some sge balls and hope for the best.
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