Monumental Disaster.
Hi everyone,
First posted this in the Pisces forum. Hope I can get some input from my fellow Aquarians.
Can't say I really believe in astrology but sometimes the things I read about my sign are spot on. I'm interested to learn more about Pisces woman, cos my relationship has turned rather sour lately. Again, some of the things I've learned so far deinitely ring a bell.... sensitive,
swimming in opposite directions,
So here's my story... Three year relationship with a wonderful woman. We're both 45. Back in February she dumps me. Says our relationship is not working. I'm like, "What do you mean it's not working ??? I thought it was going fine." Sure, we had some disagreements and some fights but that's normal.
Anyway, I did not take it well. Sent long angry abusive emails. If we got together to talk, I would lose my temper and then she wouldn't want to talk any more. After two months of banging my head against a brick wall I started to think, OK it's over. Time to move on. So I started looking at some dating websites and went out for dinner with a woman... and then after dinner to a bar for a drink and then later, back to her place and, well... you can guess the rest. This was not a good experience for me. Only served to convince me more that I wanted to get back with my ex, but it still looked like that was never going to happen.
Until one day back at the beginning of May.
I'm round at her flat for a coffee and I'm saying we can still be friends, yes?
As I stood up to go I said, "Come give me a hug.." Hug turned to kisses and suddenly we're back on. From the hallway to the bedroom.
So, of course, I was very happy. The next day we're in bed at night and she tells me that she went out with another guy... just for a drink. What do I think?
I said, "What you do with other guys when our relationship is finished is none of my business."
Now we know what's coming, don't we?
"...and you? Have you been out with anyone else?"
Now, because I love this woman and I don't want a relationship which is based on a lie, I told her the truth. Yes I went out with someone and we had sex, but don't worry, it was rubbish.
She turned her back on me and I thought it was probably best if I leave, with a few angry words to the effect of, "If you don't like the answer, don't ask the question."
Next day, of course, our relationship was off again. So now I'm really angry... again!
At first I was trying to justify what I did, saying, "You fi
First posted this in the Pisces forum. Hope I can get some input from my fellow Aquarians.
Can't say I really believe in astrology but sometimes the things I read about my sign are spot on. I'm interested to learn more about Pisces woman, cos my relationship has turned rather sour lately. Again, some of the things I've learned so far deinitely ring a bell.... sensitive,
swimming in opposite directions,
So here's my story... Three year relationship with a wonderful woman. We're both 45. Back in February she dumps me. Says our relationship is not working. I'm like, "What do you mean it's not working ??? I thought it was going fine." Sure, we had some disagreements and some fights but that's normal.
Anyway, I did not take it well. Sent long angry abusive emails. If we got together to talk, I would lose my temper and then she wouldn't want to talk any more. After two months of banging my head against a brick wall I started to think, OK it's over. Time to move on. So I started looking at some dating websites and went out for dinner with a woman... and then after dinner to a bar for a drink and then later, back to her place and, well... you can guess the rest. This was not a good experience for me. Only served to convince me more that I wanted to get back with my ex, but it still looked like that was never going to happen.
Until one day back at the beginning of May.
I'm round at her flat for a coffee and I'm saying we can still be friends, yes?
As I stood up to go I said, "Come give me a hug.." Hug turned to kisses and suddenly we're back on. From the hallway to the bedroom.
So, of course, I was very happy. The next day we're in bed at night and she tells me that she went out with another guy... just for a drink. What do I think?
I said, "What you do with other guys when our relationship is finished is none of my business."
Now we know what's coming, don't we?
"...and you? Have you been out with anyone else?"
Now, because I love this woman and I don't want a relationship which is based on a lie, I told her the truth. Yes I went out with someone and we had sex, but don't worry, it was rubbish.
She turned her back on me and I thought it was probably best if I leave, with a few angry words to the effect of, "If you don't like the answer, don't ask the question."
Next day, of course, our relationship was off again. So now I'm really angry... again!
At first I was trying to justify what I did, saying, "You fi
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I want to know if he has come back. He's the only other person I know who's from the same country as I am and so I am actually thinking of the possibility of getting his number so I can discuss some of the things here in dxpnet with someone I could text with. dxpnet has been like a home to me. I've actually fallen in love with this place and the maturity and the sensibility of most forumers here. 
he was joking xd
Posted by ScorpSuperior
Good topic.
To me, being "classy" means having a sense of integrity and self-restraint. It means that when you step out of the house, you remain cognizant of the fact that you represent not only your self, but your family and everything you value...in appearance, the words you choose, and the way you respond to situations (particularly ones that test your patience). Having class means having the awareness and ability to approach life circumstances tactfully.
I know I am not classy. And probably will never be. But I agree to this. This is the best definition of what "class" really is. I am not classy but I will try.
Not in the clothes that I will wear nor in the words that I would speak but in my actions and in manners. Very well said, scorpsuperior.I would treetrunk.
For some reason, classy to me = fake. It makes me think of those women who pat/dab their eyes with a tissue when they're crying. Who cries like that? So fake. I like people to be real. Everybody gets pissed & with being pissy comes a natural reaction, so holding back & try to be a lady or w/e is just too phony to me. Lash out if you feel like it. Go crazy. Whatever. Just be real & stop trying to be so perfect all the damn time. Classy = made in China. Not real.
I'm not classy, don't wanna be classy. I act as I feel/want, dont want restraints such as class on my behaviour.
I'm not classy, don't wanna be classy. I act as I feel/want, dont want restraints such as class on my behaviour.
^^What? Sags are portrayed as truthful/honest?! I'm actually more surprised to hear that statement!
Sags are Mutable Fire so I thought "it's anything goes" with them.
Sags are Mutable Fire so I thought "it's anything goes" with them.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I dunno, still seems like sound advice.
lol mann!!!!!!!!!! not tizani xd
Posted by starlover
Being respectful of others and yes tact, like Scorp above said. I find people who claim to be well raised and dignified then come onto forums like this and communicate with other people by being foul mouthed and abusive, quite ridiculous and classless
agreed- lolol, i do that actually. i play too much.
I am an egotistical SOB, but not a jerk. People and women usually love me.
No offense taken
No offense taken
Bling
Stop posting pics of your babymoms. Keep that b/w you, her, and your text messages.
Stop posting pics of your babymoms. Keep that b/w you, her, and your text messages.