Any suggestions on moving on from a Capricorn guy?
Posted by WoundedLeoPosted by Metoo
Cap men don't usually give closure and to keep seeking it is not good.
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Constantly asking for closure, or refusing to accept and move on comes across as needy. We don't understand why you don't just chin up and get on with your life. We know we are responsible for you feelings and we regret hurting you, but we don't like having to feel like we were responsible for pain when we were being honest when we said "this isn't going to work". We do have a conscious, we just don't understand why you can't be stoic like we are.
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Posted by Rays Heart
I like her to be open and honest. I instinctively investigate mystery being that I have a need to know but a woman who purposely hide things for whatever reason is unattractive to me. There's a difference between someone hiding things on purpose and someone who's nature expands beyond what you can perceive with a glance, leaving you with a need to know more and more each time. Keeping you interested.
my nature is not what you just described. Fixed earth sign *sogn* let's hope my venus in Gemini help me keep things exciting lo. ......l
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I highly doubt it in my case. But whatev. I've come to terms with this.
I would think 50...this day and age the majority of the woman/girls sleep with guys on the first date/meeting so I'd be willing to bet that the majority of girls have in fact had 20 or more or very damn close to that many partners!Considering these days they start around 13-14 and some even sooner!!!
But what's that got to do with the OP anyhow???
But what's that got to do with the OP anyhow???
Thanks for the input people. I read many of them more than once. I also realized this whole situation made me look bad in the way I handled it because of my ego in love matters (Leo in Venus) but it has made me realize that I myself had became too demanding and I should have let the ego go in sake of my daughter. As a Cancer we tend to revisit the past too much and all the sentiments of hurt overpowered me as it does for alot of us moon children sometimes. I realized it made me look very weak as a man and that is why I have a different outlook on it now. I just cared alot about this but not in a healthy way and def not in a way that put me in my best light.
I think I am learning a cardinal rule that all Cancer have to learn before it destroys them, you can't just expect to have your way just because you gave into people in the past and feel its a right somehow domineer people now. It really isn't an expression of love in the correct sense even though we do mean well.
I am letting my emotions go to the backseat for a longwhile and try this logic thing for a while, maybe us Cancers can be the best in the zodiac if we express our feeling up front and look at things logically before emotionaly. I mean it is hard, but it seems doable if you just focus your energy on what really matters. The Core people in your life.
I think I am learning a cardinal rule that all Cancer have to learn before it destroys them, you can't just expect to have your way just because you gave into people in the past and feel its a right somehow domineer people now. It really isn't an expression of love in the correct sense even though we do mean well.
I am letting my emotions go to the backseat for a longwhile and try this logic thing for a while, maybe us Cancers can be the best in the zodiac if we express our feeling up front and look at things logically before emotionaly. I mean it is hard, but it seems doable if you just focus your energy on what really matters. The Core people in your life.
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xxoommm..........I dont understand either
Again I have faults and have been very mean when I was drinking. But, it was because I was upset I wasn't getting the sugar from her I felt like I deserved.
I should probaby just quit trying
I should probaby just quit trying
Here's your problem right here:
Pisces Female
Capricorn Male 1102
Libra Male 1036
Aquarius Male 1033
Cancer Male 1015
Virgo Male 1003
Gemini Male 984
Leo Male 982
Aries Male 978
Taurus Male 974
Sagittarius Male973
Pisces Male 971
Scorpio Male 965
Scorpio man
Cancer Female 1038
Leo Female 1032
Capricorn Female1031
Libra Female 1026
Virgo Female 1023
Scorpio Female 1016
Aquarius Female1003
Sagittarius Female988
Aries Female 975
Gemini Female 966
Pisces Female 965
Taurus Female 954
Your welcome
Pisces Female
Capricorn Male 1102
Libra Male 1036
Aquarius Male 1033
Cancer Male 1015
Virgo Male 1003
Gemini Male 984
Leo Male 982
Aries Male 978
Taurus Male 974
Sagittarius Male973
Pisces Male 971
Scorpio Male 965
Scorpio man
Cancer Female 1038
Leo Female 1032
Capricorn Female1031
Libra Female 1026
Virgo Female 1023
Scorpio Female 1016
Aquarius Female1003
Sagittarius Female988
Aries Female 975
Gemini Female 966
Pisces Female 965
Taurus Female 954
Your welcome
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFishPosted by cowpuncherPosted by ianthepisces
do you ever shut the fuck up freddy...
wipe your tears and get the fuck out..
They're sensitive and nurturing too... according to all the astrology sites.
Sorry Ian, had to do it buddy LOL
If you want hugs and rainbows while you obsess over and over about the same relationship issue with no desire to move on or move forward....try the Cancer forum. They're lovely folks over there.Probably a better match for a sensitive guy like Freddy. Pisces don't believe in dwelling on the same issue over and over again without a resolution. Freddy sounds like you got yourself a lemon. Solution: Dump that wench and get yourself a replacement. Chalk it up to a bad Pisces experience.
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Wait a minute. Don't push him off to Crab beach. He didn't fall for a Crab, he fell for a fish. Which is his first problem. Crab land has more than enough threads about people trying to figure out Cancers. Smh
What is wrong with you fish, the poor man is looking for insight and you guys are snapping like piranhas. You all can't be having the same mood swings. Do what Crabs eventually do when we hit a brick wall, ignore thread. Notice the low reply rate in some of these threads?
Posted by Wynter
Also, can you please change the color of the visited pages on threads?
It's a nice feature for some of the mega-threads - i know where to start in again
:::sigh::: I suppose I COULD read the toolbar to see where I'm at in the thread...I suppose
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Thank you!
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