Geminis are you impatient with others?
Yep absolutely impatient. And I'm always in search of something better, so unfortunately for the people I date (which takes a bunch of detective work just to even get a date with me behind the scenes) if you don't act right then my awareness shifts. I'm not sorry for it either. You either are good for me and compatible or you're just not. However if you are really my type, my eyes don't wander looking for the BBD (bigger better deal). I always ALWAYS warn people I hope you act right (insert laugh) but it's not a joke.
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Somewhat different from the "Gaydar" thread, and more common than most people think.
For those of you (females) married, maybe a couple of kids, or even those females who could imagine something like this happening..by all means share your thoughts.
Anyone who does not know what "Brokeback" is: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brokeback_Mountain
There's been two instances that I personally have had female clients (one married for 25 years, the other 11) with this situation. I have to tell you with all of the female clients who have been cheated on the everyday way, the cheating "Brokeback" pain is tripled. The ultimate deceit that their husband has a gay "misteress" or simply humps gay men on the side was unbearable for both of these females. Both have divorced, one also won a huge lawsuit on a different level and separate from the divorce, the other one is about to file a lawsuit as she is now just divorced.
These men (many who, believe it or not are on a corporate level), in my opinion are as low as the pedophiles that lurk in the shadows. They use women as a "front" to cover their sexuality because they are too afraid to come out of the closet. The movie was nominated for 8 academy awards. I also notice Showtime is showing it an awful lot these days. Personally, I got half way through the movie when it came out as a rental and shut the damn thing off. Hollywood ironically calls it bi-sexuality. In this case I disagree. (obviously courtrooms do too in the case of divorce) To hide this from another human being is just LOW. These two women (and the 100's of thousands going through it or have gone through it) are entitled to know and entitled to choose whether or not they want to be with a man who is bi-sexual. When it is hidden, it is again the ultimate deception.
Without going into details, the two clients had one thing in common. Both husbands would not let the wife blow them, and the sex was almost always initiated by the females.
What would you do if you married one and found out a decade or more later?
For those of you (females) married, maybe a couple of kids, or even those females who could imagine something like this happening..by all means share your thoughts.
Anyone who does not know what "Brokeback" is: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brokeback_Mountain
There's been two instances that I personally have had female clients (one married for 25 years, the other 11) with this situation. I have to tell you with all of the female clients who have been cheated on the everyday way, the cheating "Brokeback" pain is tripled. The ultimate deceit that their husband has a gay "misteress" or simply humps gay men on the side was unbearable for both of these females. Both have divorced, one also won a huge lawsuit on a different level and separate from the divorce, the other one is about to file a lawsuit as she is now just divorced.
These men (many who, believe it or not are on a corporate level), in my opinion are as low as the pedophiles that lurk in the shadows. They use women as a "front" to cover their sexuality because they are too afraid to come out of the closet. The movie was nominated for 8 academy awards. I also notice Showtime is showing it an awful lot these days. Personally, I got half way through the movie when it came out as a rental and shut the damn thing off. Hollywood ironically calls it bi-sexuality. In this case I disagree. (obviously courtrooms do too in the case of divorce) To hide this from another human being is just LOW. These two women (and the 100's of thousands going through it or have gone through it) are entitled to know and entitled to choose whether or not they want to be with a man who is bi-sexual. When it is hidden, it is again the ultimate deception.
Without going into details, the two clients had one thing in common. Both husbands would not let the wife blow them, and the sex was almost always initiated by the females.
What would you do if you married one and found out a decade or more later?
Title got cut...suppose to be Spinoff from Gaydar thread
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Prep
Set your oven to 350 degrees F for preheat
Spread the salt over the shrimp and leave it for about 15-20 minutes. This will help bring back some of the flavor of the shrimp lost from being frozen.
Large pan - add the clam juice mixture, wine, and saffron. Heat and keep the broth hot. (Note: If Saffron is pricey in your area, I've forgone it and it came out fine)
Paella Pan or Cooking Pan - Heat the olive oil and add the onions and red bell peppers. Stir until these ingredients start softening up. Should be about 3-5 minutes.
Remove the pan from the flame. Add the garlic, rice. Keep stirring until you get that beautiful smell of garlic and the rice is coasted with the oil. This should be a couple of minutes at most.
Stir in the tomatoes, paprika, and salt.
Stir in the clam broth mixture.
Return your paella pan to the fire. Set the flame to low and simmer everything. Roughly 15 minutes. Make sure not to evaporate all your liquid. We'll need it for the oven prep.
Add in the shrimp, artichoke hearts, and peas.
Time to put the paella pan in the oven! 20 minutes. Ideally the rice is almost al dente and most of the broth is absorbed. (Do not cook the paella until the rice is completely done)
Remove the paella from the oven, cover it with foil, and let it rest for 10 minutes.
(This final part is where the final cooking happens)
Uncover, garnish your paella with the parsley, add the lemon wedges.
Set your oven to 350 degrees F for preheat
Spread the salt over the shrimp and leave it for about 15-20 minutes. This will help bring back some of the flavor of the shrimp lost from being frozen.
Large pan - add the clam juice mixture, wine, and saffron. Heat and keep the broth hot. (Note: If Saffron is pricey in your area, I've forgone it and it came out fine)
Paella Pan or Cooking Pan - Heat the olive oil and add the onions and red bell peppers. Stir until these ingredients start softening up. Should be about 3-5 minutes.
Remove the pan from the flame. Add the garlic, rice. Keep stirring until you get that beautiful smell of garlic and the rice is coasted with the oil. This should be a couple of minutes at most.
Stir in the tomatoes, paprika, and salt.
Stir in the clam broth mixture.
Return your paella pan to the fire. Set the flame to low and simmer everything. Roughly 15 minutes. Make sure not to evaporate all your liquid. We'll need it for the oven prep.
Add in the shrimp, artichoke hearts, and peas.
Time to put the paella pan in the oven! 20 minutes. Ideally the rice is almost al dente and most of the broth is absorbed. (Do not cook the paella until the rice is completely done)
Remove the paella from the oven, cover it with foil, and let it rest for 10 minutes.
(This final part is where the final cooking happens)
Uncover, garnish your paella with the parsley, add the lemon wedges.
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Final Notes
If you did everything right, your guests should be ohhh'ing and ahhh'ing at something that looks like this...
Crack open a bottle of wine and serve with some fresh, crusty french bread. By tradition, this is a very social dish so your guests should be pleased
If you did everything right, your guests should be ohhh'ing and ahhh'ing at something that looks like this...
Crack open a bottle of wine and serve with some fresh, crusty french bread. By tradition, this is a very social dish so your guests should be pleased
yes too much romance is borring,i prefer a bit of all,claymore is full of action?
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Posted by djbuck1
As always, it's not that simple.
Of course personality and good character are essential, but it has to be the total package. It's the personality and character that we write and talk and puzzle over. Beauty draws us. Character keeps us, or does not.
But men are drawn to beauty. For me, it's the eyes first. Always. Then the rest.
It's all in how she presents herself.
I'm going to see her first thing in the a.m., and when she is sick (though there's a certain amount of pathetic appeal, even in that), and when she is not made up. I know that. But what does she do with what she has?
I was in a realtionship with a woman 13 years older, and she showed her age, but she had great genes and she kept herself fit, and my God did that woman know how to present. Libra, btw.
I broke up with two women (Taurus and Virgo) who simply would not take care of themselves and present well. I am talking hygenically AND appearance wise. There were some other reasons, but I admit that was a big factor. God knows I'm no Adonis, but I always try to look my best. My partner has to do the same.
Being perfectly honest, I would not date an ugly woman. But the vast majority of women are not ugly. In fact, you are far more attractive than you think, and if you take some pains we are going to come seeking.
I agreed to ur point " beauty draws us, character keeps us"
But what if a girl is not really beautiful approaching you n showing u she has very good characters,,,, will u choose her???