Virgos and EX's

Posted by fortch0201
Well I have a Virgo woman,
She still keeps contact with most of her Ex's. I would like to know what does this mean is she using me for an emotional escape? She says that she will never go back but she has never made the break away from them she still keeps them around. Well I figured that this was ok and I had contact with and EX's whom I told I was presently with my Virgo. It went well and my Ex wished me well and I moved on. I explained this to my Virgo and she blew up on me. What does this mean when she has the freedom to do things in our relationship and she tries to put the chains on me. I been easy about it but I can only be nice for so long.
Any help out there?
Fortch0201



I have not read the rest of the thread. Speaking for myself, I stay in contact with one ex. But, we never dated. We slept together a couple times 20 years ago, and stayed in touch. When my wife found out about her, at first she was upset. But once I explained that it was so long ago, and the fact that we had stayed friends, she was ok with it. Now, the two talk on Facebook. lol
I think that if we had actually had a relationship, it would have ended badly and we would not be friends now.
Personally, I don't have a problem with her talking to ex's. It has happened, and I stay back. I am not a hypocrite, and unless there is a problem, I am not going to make one.
But I do understand the tendency for a Virgo to be jealous. I have felt it from time to time, but I suppressed that one because I realized that everyone has a past, and not all past people are evil. Now, I don't get jealous.

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