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No fume I'm not saying you messed up. I'm saying you're messy and drama driven and he's a reflection of your choice to be with a married man whose equally being messy. That messiness is going on inside of you and you draw/attract that messiness to yourself which is why you're in another confusing messy situation.
Until you look at your own behavior you will stay losing in love. I have a gut feeling you do not want that and yet everything you're doing/how you're behaving contributes to what you don't want.
You had no business befriending a married man that hasn't involved his wife in that friendship and that is messy behavior on your part. Leave married men alone, do not befriend a married man unless his wife is equally involved in nurturing a friendship with you.
Think about it this way. If you were married. In love but made mistakes but basically still firmly planted in your relationship despite the conflict the last thing you'd hope for is that your man would jump into bed with someone else.
No matter how horrible his situation is with his wife clearly he has no desire to leave her because if he truly wanted to leave he'd left her and he's stay gone and if he hasn't done that throughout your connection with him for the last few years you've known him then he's not leaving his wife.
If you want love don't remain stagnate with a man whose committed to his marriage. Focus on getting on with your life with someone who can give you what you want, he (the married man) can't.
He know exactly who he is. He's a married man with kids, mortgage, responsibilities that he desires to escape from time to time but he's committed to his mess because if he wasn't happy, if he wasn't fully committed, child support would not stop him from leaving an unhappy miserable life. If he stick it out with a cheating ass wife, take her back, he ain't going nowhere.
You do not want to wake up 10/15 years later, no husband, no family and no prospects if marriage/being married some day is your goal. Life is too short..
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so June 1st is that just Gemini or something else too?
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Cuz they are insanly selfish. He wants to be a part of your Life - but only in a way he wants it to be.
He only wants the good, not the bad nor ugly within you. Just one Word : Selfish. I'd stay away, don't let them use you as their entertainment. They do this to every girl they meet^^
And if he doesn't call you he's going to call someone else.