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Trust is an issue that a lot of people face ..... we don't have this problem.
I am an extremely emotional person ... Cancer Moon, you know .... and to my emotions is where I need him to be faithful.
And he is. He has never let me down emotionally, he is right there holding me every step of the way.
He's male, and is going to act like one .. and I accept that. Does he look at other woman? Of course! Does he talk to his buds about skirt chasing? Of course. I'm not going to scold him or be upset at him because he is full of testosterone, and I'm not.
to my feelings he is utterly loyal and faithful .... I trust him with my life that he will be there for me when I am in emotional dire straights.
So, I therefore, have never had the need to fuck with his head to try and make him make me feel special, so therefore, never have I given him any reason to fear other men in his territory .... and territory is what it's all about with men.
he knows that I'm completely devoted to him ... so he trusts me implicitly. Do I fuck up? Of course.
But, to him and by his side, I never waiver from that position, no matter how wrong he is. And in the end, when he realizes that everyone has taken advantage of him (which is the Virgo nature), except for me, because I am grateful for everything he stands for him my life ... he knows that I will die before I forsake him.
trust between us is absolute and it is so because he desire to be
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Aug 27, 2009Comments: 334 · Posts: 8771 · Topics: 323
My mom once told me she wouldn't wish me on her worst enemy LOL
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trust between us is absolute and it is so because we desire it to be
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At two occasions I think he hacked into my computer. Your mouse can't just start moving when you don't do anything. And right after he got caught by me, he called. I asked, where you just hacking into my computer?
That's part of his job actually. He does it for big' important companies.
That's how he got behind his wife's cheating.
He even traced her webcam when she was getting naked to guys in front of can.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Interesting question ..... most likely the person who rebounds every relationship onto another, does so with everything in their life. Just a constant changing to greener pastures, and never any solid foundations to build on.
A rebound relationship is healthy, so long as the person realizes what they are doing, comprehends that it's not real love. Probably only a half a percent of the adult population has the capability of being that real with themselves .... but, still, so long as they don't put all their eggs in the basket, I think it's healthy.
Often times, when people are stuck in a relationship (which of course, they aren't stuck, but, they don't know that) .... it's uncertainty that keeps them there, the fear of what is going to happen to them, how are they going to find the emotional strength to push forward.
And a person on the other side who wants them (even fractionally) is enough, in most cases, for that person to finally let go of the bad relationship. Is this rebound going anywhere? NO .... but, it serves its purpose in helping a trapped person to better themselves, so the purpose it serves is valuable.
Thank you for the insights P-Angel. That's worth saving. My longest relationship was 7 years. We were compatible in some areas, incompatible in others. But the real reason we did not get married was that he was a taker, never a giver, and I just couldn't live that way the rest of my life. We are still on friendly terms, but don't speak regularly. He is missed, but I think he's better off now and myself as well.
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Took two different tests and got Neutral Good, both times.
Neutral Good
A neutral good character does the best that a good person can do. He is devoted to helping others. He works with kings and magistrates but does not feel beholden to them. Neutral good is the best alignment you can be because it means doing what is good without bias for or against order. However, neutral good can be a dangerous alignment because when it advances mediocrity by limiting the actions of the truly capable.
Alignment:
Lawful Good ----- XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX (24)
Neutral Good ---- XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX (24)
Chaotic Good ---- XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX (23)
Lawful Neutral -- XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX (22)
True Neutral ---- XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX (22)
Chaotic Neutral - XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX (21)
Lawful Evil ----- XXXXXXXXXXX (11)
Neutral Evil ---- XXXXXXXXXXX (11)
Chaotic Evil ---- XXXXXXXXXX (10)
Law & Chaos:
Law ----- XXXXXXXXX (9)
Neutral - XXXXXXXXX (9)
Chaos --- XXXXXXXX (8)
Good & Evil:
Good ---- XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX (15)
Neutral - XXXXXXXXXXXXX (13)
Evil ---- XX (2)
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Aug 25, 2012Comments: 25 · Posts: 885 · Topics: 40
he is older to me...but is no fun and always has his controlling and dominating nature when it comes to me. he earns very well in his job but is very frugal when it comes to dining outside or shopping..barely spends it on either me or himself. so today we were supposed to go to a great place to eat... but as usual he started cribbing about too much money being spent when it wasnt that much. what does he expect? getting everything for free??? i am done with this attitude and this person. i wonder sometimes that he has no class . i dont like such people who are not ready to let go of all these material pressures and just enjoy life for once. they remain miserable and controlled in their comfort zone and let others be dominated by their decisions too..anyone has a scorp sibling who is similar?