Mind games
It depends. If it's someone I'm not interested in, I think it's fun and I'll play along. If I like them I just disappear until they are done with their nonsense. They always come back. lol It's so stupid to even try playing games.
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Montgomery,
I will talk from my own experience. I never run after a guy. He chooses me and I put him into a category: friend - attraction - serious - no future for all of the above.
I pretty much know from the start and I prefer to keep my choice of friends in small doses.
EMPATHY is my weakness. If the man shows me utter LOVE (without expecting anything in return) and has the ability to continue this for a prolonged period of time -- BECAUSE I WILL TEST HIM for his sustainability, then I will do foolish things and might get hurt badly in the end, if he changes his mind (or is suddenly unsure).
EMPATHY blinds me. I forget following my standards that actually keep me away from my time and efforts to be wasted. I have more important things to figure about life than fall for some emotional drama.
Choosing someone who is unavailable, be it marital status, emotional blockage or someone who can't even make a friend to me, is completely out of question.
1- If the person choses me...
2- and he was able to start up in my "Friends" category.
3- sustained because he believes he loves me or there is something that keeps us going
4- I believe I can now evaluate my feelings for him
5- YES, there is the possibility I can give free reign
6- (this is the tricky part): he has found a way to trigger my sympathy/empathy in one form or another
7- NOW I'm confusing loving him or if I just want to hold his hand so he can continue his journey to life
8- Let's say he is married, loves me and I'm friend to him. I still don't want drama, but I'm OK with his love, if that is required for him to function.
9- I figure I love him back, I will NOT take a step towards destroying his life.
10- he may succeed giving me a fully blown heartbreak if he changes his mind or suddenly turns unsure for it was his EGO and not his true feelings (whatever reason)... NOW my tower of trust collapses.
How many would be able to jump through all these hoops?
So I will oppose your theory on a Scorpio wanting to be with someone who is unavailable.
You certainly gave me something to evaluate and think about. Thank you for starting up this thread
I will talk from my own experience. I never run after a guy. He chooses me and I put him into a category: friend - attraction - serious - no future for all of the above.
I pretty much know from the start and I prefer to keep my choice of friends in small doses.
EMPATHY is my weakness. If the man shows me utter LOVE (without expecting anything in return) and has the ability to continue this for a prolonged period of time -- BECAUSE I WILL TEST HIM for his sustainability, then I will do foolish things and might get hurt badly in the end, if he changes his mind (or is suddenly unsure).
EMPATHY blinds me. I forget following my standards that actually keep me away from my time and efforts to be wasted. I have more important things to figure about life than fall for some emotional drama.
Choosing someone who is unavailable, be it marital status, emotional blockage or someone who can't even make a friend to me, is completely out of question.
1- If the person choses me...
2- and he was able to start up in my "Friends" category.
3- sustained because he believes he loves me or there is something that keeps us going
4- I believe I can now evaluate my feelings for him
5- YES, there is the possibility I can give free reign
6- (this is the tricky part): he has found a way to trigger my sympathy/empathy in one form or another
7- NOW I'm confusing loving him or if I just want to hold his hand so he can continue his journey to life
8- Let's say he is married, loves me and I'm friend to him. I still don't want drama, but I'm OK with his love, if that is required for him to function.
9- I figure I love him back, I will NOT take a step towards destroying his life.
10- he may succeed giving me a fully blown heartbreak if he changes his mind or suddenly turns unsure for it was his EGO and not his true feelings (whatever reason)... NOW my tower of trust collapses.
How many would be able to jump through all these hoops?
So I will oppose your theory on a Scorpio wanting to be with someone who is unavailable.
You certainly gave me something to evaluate and think about. Thank you for starting up this thread
Posted by Peaches
You're a dangerous man, cp.
Oh boy he is, the ladies must get in tip top shape, possibly a bit of tan and don those pretty enticingly coy bikinis to be saved. I shall swim there if I must, the rest of the lot who can not ditch their material confines shall be forever lost to them zombies. I knew scantily clad nubile ladies would survive best, knew it all along
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by CluelessCancer
Justin Timberlake is and looks like a cunt. Next
Ooowwwwww
In his defense he's really good in Alpha Dog, even if he does look cuntish most of the time.click to expand
That was a good movie.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Oh boy he is, the ladies must get in tip top shape, possibly a bit of tan and don those pretty enticingly coy bikinis to be saved. I shall swim there if I must, the rest of the lot who can not ditch their material confines shall be forever lost to them zombies. I knew scantily clad nubile ladies would survive best, knew it all along
Hey! Get your own material, lady!
Posted by PeachesPosted by cowpuncher
Any time you wanna show up Peaches, we'll go out to my Uncle's farm and bust some clays with my shotguns
Every time I take a gal out to do that, they always end up in love with the same shotgun though. I've got a Browning A-5 "Sweet Sixteen" 16ga semi auto. imho, the finest semi auto shotgun ever made. Everybody that shoots it tries to buy it. A buddy of mine owns a gun shop, he and his wife had never shot one before... she loved it so much that despite them being able to get *anything* she'd want brand new at dealer cost, she had him scour the countryside for an A-5 Sweet Sixteen just like mine until they finally found somebody willing to part with one.
In true Capricorn fashion, I got that Belgian made Browning for either $ 225, or $ 250, can't recall which. I see the same shotgun in similar condition on gun show tables all the time for $ 1000 - 1500, the upper end of that being overpriced admittedly.
Interesting how it works in the US, over here in Europe, we don't really have the same fascination for guns, maybe because not everyone has a permit and can carry them, let alone practice....at least where I live, being we're neutral, we're nothing offensive. We have a great army, but the point is to remain defensive. I don't even have pepper spray when i go out, I refuse to be driven by fear!
But when it comes to zombies, this could be funclick to expand
In Suisse, one sees them Army Boys in trains at times
The rule exists so vastly different in Suisse-land, no one could comprehend what all the fascination is about in regards to guns as compared to other places around the world.
ok I gotta stop lol
Posted by P-Angel
we don't have to be right .... he knows stuff that I cannot even begin to grasp, and I know about things that he doesn't get ... so instead of having to be right, we bow down to each other, and step aside.
Stand tall beside your partner and have faith that he knows what he is talking about, and in turn your partner will regard you with the upmost trust, because you believed in him.
it's really that simple.
we respect each others differences ... because we are different ... and we don't force each other to be anything other than who they are
Posted by P-Angel
Trust is an issue that a lot of people face ..... we don't have this problem.
I am an extremely emotional person ... Cancer Moon, you know .... and to my emotions is where I need him to be faithful.
And he is. He has never let me down emotionally, he is right there holding me every step of the way.
He's male, and is going to act like one .. and I accept that. Does he look at other woman? Of course! Does he talk to his buds about skirt chasing? Of course. I'm not going to scold him or be upset at him because he is full of testosterone, and I'm not.
to my feelings he is utterly loyal and faithful .... I trust him with my life that he will be there for me when I am in emotional dire straights.
So, I therefore, have never had the need to fuck with his head to try and make him make me feel special, so therefore, never have I given him any reason to fear other men in his territory .... and territory is what it's all about with men.
he knows that I'm completely devoted to him ... so he trusts me implicitly. Do I fuck up? Of course.
But, to him and by his side, I never waiver from that position, no matter how wrong he is. And in the end, when he realizes that everyone has taken advantage of him (which is the Virgo nature), except for me, because I am grateful for everything he stands for him my life ... he knows that I will die before I forsake him.
trust between us is absolute and it is so because he desire to beclick to expand
such wise words of experience. wow P... so appreciated. love you
Posted by VirgoHeroPosted by TheLadyScorpio
Oh boy he is, the ladies must get in tip top shape, possibly a bit of tan and don those pretty enticingly coy bikinis to be saved. I shall swim there if I must, the rest of the lot who can not ditch their material confines shall be forever lost to them zombies. I knew scantily clad nubile ladies would survive best, knew it all along
Hey! Get your own material, lady!click to expand
That was the point, you spot it. Knew you had a good eye, was checking your eye-sight in case of the impending Zombie Apocalypse, wanted to know for certain you could aim
Next I shall put VH?? next time, take it as a compliment dear