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i do wish i could simply report it and have it taken care of, however she has a lot or power at my workplace.
after texting me, the next day she just pretended it didn't happen, as since then has become more distant and a bit more professional. i don't understand the way she acts, and have given up trying, and have made a record of this as well.
after texting me, the next day she just pretended it didn't happen, as since then has become more distant and a bit more professional. i don't understand the way she acts, and have given up trying, and have made a record of this as well.
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They are some very very insecure men.... regardless of what I said for years or for today, that is one thing that is very clear and obvious and that will not work for a Cancer. Disagree with it, or whoever else can too. That is something thats not even debatable it's part of who they are. And I just can't see myself or another Cancer putting up with that, or babying them.
From your first question itself I know you got some kinda trust issues on him with a doubt of whether he is having another girl thats why you want to know things in detail. Personally vague answers irritates me as well but as a Gemini I think he would talk. What the heck happened to him? Did he lost his balls on the way? I think you should tell him straight that you feel insecured of his vague answers. If i am in his place definitely I'll try to change for the one I love.
'by giving him space' is what i am starting to believe hehe
Sounds to me like a Libra who was pretty upset about something. I won't say it was you, but anytime I got like that it was because I was upset about something. Usually, it's the person I'm seeing or trying to see, but things happen in life as well. If I were to guess, he lost his balance and is trying to get it back. I'd suggest going no contact for awhile because if he's trying to sort things out a daily reminder won't be helpful.
Honestly, what you need to ask yourself is this worth trying to save? Throwing five years away with a "our paths will meet again" doesn't make a lot of sense to be. We're logical and that is anything, but logic. That's why I tend to think he is very unbalanced (in the Libra sense, not mentally).
Honestly, what you need to ask yourself is this worth trying to save? Throwing five years away with a "our paths will meet again" doesn't make a lot of sense to be. We're logical and that is anything, but logic. That's why I tend to think he is very unbalanced (in the Libra sense, not mentally).
Hmm. Maybe I??ve found the one thing me and my cancer have in common. I do this to people to avoid conflict, but once I see that it??s only making them even more attached I completely dip for good. If that doesn??t work then I will try to let them down as easy as possible. But honestly for some people no matter how gently you try to let them down, they still find some kind of way or loop trough your words to give themselves hope of being with you again, until disappearing seems like the perfect tactic. It may hurt at first but they can??t latch on when they have nothing to hook themselves onto. My cancer dipping in and out is actually the least of my worries with him. To be honest sometimes I really need the space from his other little antics. Like his little tantrums and pouting whenever I don??t say or do something the way he thinks I should do it, or when he thinks I should. That is so irritating. I literally have to ignore him until he has no choice but to speak his mind and tell me how he feels. I??m not a mind reader and I??m not about to start trying either. Either speak up, or shut up. Period. But nonetheless I love him. But I guess me being air sign, the in and out thing would only upset me if we are solid and living together or something I don??t know??_
yes,pathfinder.I know he's not ready for a longterm relationship now.SO should i just completely leave him alone?and come to me when he's ready?
Is he on the process of divorce after meeting you lol?
Ah, I look at it as a guide, but not the end all be all. Almost everyone I've been with or gone after have never been the sign for me. But most, if not all, have been good breaks and we stay in contact. I like to see the sign just to see the best way to approach. Obviously, everyone is different, but the traits generally line up.
His mid life crisis started early
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Do you see what you're doing here? You're not chasing her, so you're having her friend do it for you. Essentially, you're still chasing her.
Are you sure you don't have a vagina?? You sound like you're a teenage girl, asking her friends for inside info. You went from actively chasing to passively chasing.
Seriously, nobody here was joking when they said STOP. Just go do you. If she truly was crushing or has any interest, she'll be back around.
But the overall response you got points to no, she's not interested. Again, if she is, it'll be made known eventually.
I know it's hard not to be curious about this stuff when you like someone, but you gotta start working toward backing off.
Are you sure you don't have a vagina?? You sound like you're a teenage girl, asking her friends for inside info. You went from actively chasing to passively chasing.
Seriously, nobody here was joking when they said STOP. Just go do you. If she truly was crushing or has any interest, she'll be back around.
But the overall response you got points to no, she's not interested. Again, if she is, it'll be made known eventually.
I know it's hard not to be curious about this stuff when you like someone, but you gotta start working toward backing off.