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I went into the bathroom at work and had a crying pity party for myself..then sucked it up and went back to work hahaha
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Sounds to me like a Libra who was pretty upset about something. I won't say it was you, but anytime I got like that it was because I was upset about something. Usually, it's the person I'm seeing or trying to see, but things happen in life as well. If I were to guess, he lost his balance and is trying to get it back. I'd suggest going no contact for awhile because if he's trying to sort things out a daily reminder won't be helpful.
Honestly, what you need to ask yourself is this worth trying to save? Throwing five years away with a "our paths will meet again" doesn't make a lot of sense to be. We're logical and that is anything, but logic. That's why I tend to think he is very unbalanced (in the Libra sense, not mentally).
Honestly, what you need to ask yourself is this worth trying to save? Throwing five years away with a "our paths will meet again" doesn't make a lot of sense to be. We're logical and that is anything, but logic. That's why I tend to think he is very unbalanced (in the Libra sense, not mentally).
Hmm. Maybe I??ve found the one thing me and my cancer have in common. I do this to people to avoid conflict, but once I see that it??s only making them even more attached I completely dip for good. If that doesn??t work then I will try to let them down as easy as possible. But honestly for some people no matter how gently you try to let them down, they still find some kind of way or loop trough your words to give themselves hope of being with you again, until disappearing seems like the perfect tactic. It may hurt at first but they can??t latch on when they have nothing to hook themselves onto. My cancer dipping in and out is actually the least of my worries with him. To be honest sometimes I really need the space from his other little antics. Like his little tantrums and pouting whenever I don??t say or do something the way he thinks I should do it, or when he thinks I should. That is so irritating. I literally have to ignore him until he has no choice but to speak his mind and tell me how he feels. I??m not a mind reader and I??m not about to start trying either. Either speak up, or shut up. Period. But nonetheless I love him. But I guess me being air sign, the in and out thing would only upset me if we are solid and living together or something I don??t know??_
yes,pathfinder.I know he's not ready for a longterm relationship now.SO should i just completely leave him alone?and come to me when he's ready?
Is he on the process of divorce after meeting you lol?
Ah, I look at it as a guide, but not the end all be all. Almost everyone I've been with or gone after have never been the sign for me. But most, if not all, have been good breaks and we stay in contact. I like to see the sign just to see the best way to approach. Obviously, everyone is different, but the traits generally line up.
His mid life crisis started early
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Do you see what you're doing here? You're not chasing her, so you're having her friend do it for you. Essentially, you're still chasing her.
Are you sure you don't have a vagina?? You sound like you're a teenage girl, asking her friends for inside info. You went from actively chasing to passively chasing.
Seriously, nobody here was joking when they said STOP. Just go do you. If she truly was crushing or has any interest, she'll be back around.
But the overall response you got points to no, she's not interested. Again, if she is, it'll be made known eventually.
I know it's hard not to be curious about this stuff when you like someone, but you gotta start working toward backing off.
Are you sure you don't have a vagina?? You sound like you're a teenage girl, asking her friends for inside info. You went from actively chasing to passively chasing.
Seriously, nobody here was joking when they said STOP. Just go do you. If she truly was crushing or has any interest, she'll be back around.
But the overall response you got points to no, she's not interested. Again, if she is, it'll be made known eventually.
I know it's hard not to be curious about this stuff when you like someone, but you gotta start working toward backing off.
I'm seeing some contradiction here. When someone posts that their aqua detaches/disappears/pulls back (whatever you want to call it), the usual advice they get is "do your own thing", "wait for them to contact you", "go out with someone else", etc.
BUT, now yall are saying when you detach, you want the other person to be there. You want them to reach out to you.
Which is it? You give advice one way and, yet, when you say when you detach you want the opposite of the advice you've given.
*Just an observation*
BUT, now yall are saying when you detach, you want the other person to be there. You want them to reach out to you.
Which is it? You give advice one way and, yet, when you say when you detach you want the opposite of the advice you've given.
*Just an observation*
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Posted by VirgoHeroPosted by rockyroadicecream
Yeah, zero interest in meeting anyone here...
Rocky, I hope all went well today with your mom and the hospital?click to expand
Eh, it's just post op recovery right now. They're discharging her today. Biopsy won't be known til tomorrow or Thursday.
I wasn't picking on anyone in particular, by the way. Just amusing myself witnessing the contradictions.