People getting exactly what they deserve
Posted by PurrrrrrHissssssPosted by BalmyTigressPosted by beautifulsoul74
@Balmy: I agree totally. Hence why karma exists. If more people learned what they're suppose to or had simple compassion then there would be less bad situations. But a lot of us operate out of ego and put ourselves first and foremost. If we learned that self survival depends more on what we do for others than ourselves things would be a lot better. By doing for others, you do for self. We do the opposite.
Isn't that why we're supposed to help each other, and not condemn? To point out gently that perhaps there was a flaw in thinking or acting somewhere along the way that others could see even if the person in question couldn't. We're all in the same boat. We're all equal and going through the human experience, even if it is a different experience for each of us.
...and I'm not claiming to be perfect :-) I do stupid stuff all the time and hope that others would point out (gently) when I do wrong. None of us can see clearly.
The problem is that some people equate compassion with stupidity or weakness, and choose to exploit those who offer it to them, triggering more negativity and problems.
These people tend to do a whole lot of damage to a whole lot of people.click to expand
True but don't let that change you
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Posted by LibrDude89
I would play it cool if I were you Lysander. I'm inclined to say that this girl may be interested in you but maybe your professional relationship or her wanting to see if you are seriously into her is making act the way you described but that's just MHO. Maybe she's into you, maybe she isn't, it's hard to say at this point and her friend's angle isn't quite clear so I would wait to see how things pan out in the next couple of weeks and just do your thing meanwhile.
Care to explain why you and this dude have the same IP?
Are you seriously trying to create other screen names to chime in on your own advice thread?? :/
Melbourne, Australia... Its winter there now but there are lots of hot men its worth a trip down under! And I don't know why but there is a beard phenomena going on there, don't know why its so damn sexy?
Okay, long story short, there is this libra chick i was friends with for a little while in our big friendship group..
i know things about her though (so do a few people) which really made me not like her much, (she's been cheating on her boyf of 5 years with another guy and both are madly in love with her) but she acts like she doesnt do anything wrong and is really sly about this other guy.
she is extrememly friendly/bubbly etc so everyone loves her. i began to HATE how everyone thought she was this perfect girl when in reality what she was doing behind her boyfriend is pure evil in my eyes so i confronted her and told her i didnt like this about her and hate being friends with someone who i think is fake cause shes so manipulative etc. of course she denies the whole thing when i know for a fact she cheats on him (seen it with my own eyes) we also clash quite a bit coz we are both similar, we are both loud and bubbly and both enjoy having the spotlight. i will admitt sometimes i feel jealous of her, but i know she is jealous of me too in some situations. ANYWAY.. i'm sick of disliking this girl. since i confronted her we stopped being friends, i may have said to a few of our mutual friends that i dont agree with what she is doing and said mean names behind her back. afte a few months, i contacted her again and said "we should be civil" she said "i would love to be civil until u said xxx about me" that was a good 6 months ago now, and when we see eachother we just ignore eachother.
my question: next time i see her should i go up to her and just apologize for everything that has happened and tell her i will just mind my own business from now on? how would she respond do you think? would she accept if it's face to face or should i message her again? :/
her chart:
sun: libra
moon: leo
i know things about her though (so do a few people) which really made me not like her much, (she's been cheating on her boyf of 5 years with another guy and both are madly in love with her) but she acts like she doesnt do anything wrong and is really sly about this other guy.
she is extrememly friendly/bubbly etc so everyone loves her. i began to HATE how everyone thought she was this perfect girl when in reality what she was doing behind her boyfriend is pure evil in my eyes so i confronted her and told her i didnt like this about her and hate being friends with someone who i think is fake cause shes so manipulative etc. of course she denies the whole thing when i know for a fact she cheats on him (seen it with my own eyes) we also clash quite a bit coz we are both similar, we are both loud and bubbly and both enjoy having the spotlight. i will admitt sometimes i feel jealous of her, but i know she is jealous of me too in some situations. ANYWAY.. i'm sick of disliking this girl. since i confronted her we stopped being friends, i may have said to a few of our mutual friends that i dont agree with what she is doing and said mean names behind her back. afte a few months, i contacted her again and said "we should be civil" she said "i would love to be civil until u said xxx about me" that was a good 6 months ago now, and when we see eachother we just ignore eachother.
my question: next time i see her should i go up to her and just apologize for everything that has happened and tell her i will just mind my own business from now on? how would she respond do you think? would she accept if it's face to face or should i message her again? :/
her chart:
sun: libra
moon: leo
Posted by EccentricUranianPosted by Libra911
Breed? I think having a dog as a chick magnet is better for guys. Girls go crazy just to cuddle it
Note to self, "Trade race car for dog."click to expand
shes not lying lol when my pit was a pup she had all the girls gawking
Posted by chopstickcharmerPosted by Libra911
Breed? I think having a dog as a chick magnet is better for guys. Girls go crazy just to cuddle it
pug.
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Yep that's my cookie
She's gorgeous!!
I recently became interested more profoundly and in astrology after years reading stuff on magazines, books and the internet (like these forums) and I always felt like a true Libra but it turns out I am:
Rising sign:Scorpio
Moon:Scorpio
Mercury:Scorpio
Venus: Scorpio
Uranus:Scorpio
Mars:Leo
Neptune: Leo
Jupiter,Pluto,Saturn:Libra
It seems odd to have so much Scorpio...I would like to hear you honest thoughts and insights please if any.
Rising sign:Scorpio
Moon:Scorpio
Mercury:Scorpio
Venus: Scorpio
Uranus:Scorpio
Mars:Leo
Neptune: Leo
Jupiter,Pluto,Saturn:Libra
It seems odd to have so much Scorpio...I would like to hear you honest thoughts and insights please if any.
I listen to alot of bands and names my friends have never herd of LOL I must say though my favorite song right now is that robin thicke song. Reminds me of my inner self when I wanna get down and dirty 
I've had two get in touch within 6 hours?
One is problematic; his life is super complicated to the point that he made an about turn a couple of weeks ago about our new relationship and decided he couldn't be in it. Typically it's been a drawn out break up and 2 weeks ago he had a minor meltdown and disappeared. Now he is back and tells me he needed a break to sort himself, that he had, and he's sorry and hoped he hadn't upset me too much...
Do I even bother to try and unravel that one? Is there an angle? Should I ask if this means he'd like to try a relationship again? Wait for him to spell it out? Or keep walking?
The other one is an old flame lives overseas and isn't really an option but he is such a lovely man, our friends think one of us should move and live happily ever after. There has never been anything serious, just holiday flings but he's always been the 'what if'. Was nice to hear from him, a pleasant surprise that he'd been thinking about me!
One is problematic; his life is super complicated to the point that he made an about turn a couple of weeks ago about our new relationship and decided he couldn't be in it. Typically it's been a drawn out break up and 2 weeks ago he had a minor meltdown and disappeared. Now he is back and tells me he needed a break to sort himself, that he had, and he's sorry and hoped he hadn't upset me too much...
Do I even bother to try and unravel that one? Is there an angle? Should I ask if this means he'd like to try a relationship again? Wait for him to spell it out? Or keep walking?
The other one is an old flame lives overseas and isn't really an option but he is such a lovely man, our friends think one of us should move and live happily ever after. There has never been anything serious, just holiday flings but he's always been the 'what if'. Was nice to hear from him, a pleasant surprise that he'd been thinking about me!
Posted by RaeofSun
I'm a lefty! I eat, write and brush my teeth with my left and do everything else with my right. For soccer, I kick with both feet :-)
Thought you kick with your sexy lips ummmmmmmmmm
Your question being "where do you meet hot guys?"
Sporting events, gyms, walking dogs etc...
sometimes you have to extend yourself if you want to find
Sporting events, gyms, walking dogs etc...
sometimes you have to extend yourself if you want to find