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Apr 07, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 175 · Topics: 10
Honestly, yes everyone has their own insecurities but there's a difference between having them and being an insecure person overall. And I also mentioned that I didn't need him to comfort me considering the fact that I knew I didn't work hard enough to get into the university. It's just when you tell someone about something that can be deemed disappointing, usually they will try to comfort you in some way, shape, or form. So when he just smirked at me, I thought it was strange. And I'm certainly not labeling him insecure out of pretentiousness, I've known him for years. I noticed a lot of things but since I can sometimes be very naive, I thought it would change. And near the time I stopped talking to him I did start to feel insecure, that's my fault but that's also why I left. I'll admit to having a pretty big ego so I can not deal with insults. I've seen my mom be brought down by an insecure man. I know the signs. He constantly picked her apart because he felt inadequate. She never left because she started to believe him. He finally changed one day after nearly drinking himself to death. He still has some insecurities like we all do but he doesn't project them onto her anymore.
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Sep 08, 2011Comments: 4 · Posts: 1107 · Topics: 77
My Aries guy mate just told me he thinks Leeb wants me, but maybe just to be his.. not necessarily to go steady, but just not to be with anyone else.
I think he's on to something.
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Aug 16, 2007Comments: 93 · Posts: 6284 · Topics: 96
Jahlia, back to your other question.
It's really hard to come up with a concrete theory especially with how things are at 16. The only thing I could bring up is try not to obsess over it and find out the truth if you can. Guys do stupid shit at 16. I certainly had my fair share of it.
You really like the pisces don't you?
Well. Taurus and Virgo has a great Compatibility..
s0o keep g0ing 0n..
they b0th can understand each 0ther
Anxi0us Virgo finds reassurance in the st0lid Bull, whereas the Taurean derives needed peace and energy fr0m the Virgoan. A caress, a gaze, a gesture: each is w0rth a th0usand w0rds, when it comes t0 expressing the tenderness that binds them together. Taurus dominates, t0 the delight 0f clinging vine Virgo. "The p0wer 0f harmony, and the deep p0wer 0f j0y"
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Jun 27, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 172 · Topics: 12
Hmm, well for me I'm only in the beginning stages of talking to my Gem guy & we'd talk casually & be on the phone for 3 or 4 hrs at a time. But I guess in a sense I had to make the "first move", he metioned going to church & I just decided to ask if me & my girls could tag along with him & his son & he thought it was a good idea. He has since then made plans for us to hang out as well. As far as chasing goes in the beginning he did most of the calling & texting. But then it waned a bit, I asked him about it & we had a heart to heart & I know his feelings for me. He wants to take things slow because of past hurts, & he backed off because he knows if we were to hook up now the relationship wouldn't last long & he doesn't want that to happen. I'm saying all of this to say that maybe you should just be upfront with him. Or go out on a limb & test the waters with asking if he wants to go for coffee or something. I'm finding that Gemini men will tell you how they feel good OR bad.
Good luck!