A Leo may not see it that way. We hate...HATE...being sick. And more so being bothered while we are sick. We can't be our naturally upbeat sun-shiny self...so our mood can be quiet crabby. You have to show just enough love and care so we know we are cared for, and just enough distant so we don't feel too needy and appear weak. Remember...it's a pride thing...not a logic thing...
Try to think of it this way...we don't NEED you to take care of us...we WANT you to show concern and a "little bit" of attention.
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Feb 04, 2013Comments: 31 · Posts: 2423 · Topics: 55
Cap Venus here.
Never been affectionate but I can adapt to what others like.
I won't initiate hugging unless I know you're a hugger. Once I get to know someone ill initiate it if I know they like it.
I do love to cuddle and I love kissing, but I have to really be feeling it and I have to really know the person well.
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Jun 18, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 265 · Topics: 19
2N3R - I saw that picture and it's a 100% true haha!
CanSagCap - Honestly? I tend to think you've said just about all of it, but if the talk is going to happen then this is what I would want to hear. Put it all on the line and tell him exactly what you want. If you want a relationship, tell him that's what you are looking for from him. I might not say relationship, but tell him "hey I want to start dating". Obviously, whatever you have now is not what you want and he needs to know you don't just want to be that casual thing he seems to believe is going on.
To me, this is how I would look at it. I was continually nice when you were utterly mean to me. You apologized and said "I like you." I've been through something like this and yeah I wouldn't believe it too much. The big thing is why be mean to me at all? If you like me, regardless of issues going on (we all have them and I'm not down playing them) you'd still be nice. Now, you tell him again you have feelings for him and I say "I don't see you in that way." You don't get upset (at least in a way he could tell) and we make out. To me, that's mixed signals saying we're casual at best.
For me, if you told me "I like you a lot and I'd like to see where this goes by going on dates" then I'll give you the honest answer. No dates if I don't see a progression or yes to dates if I think there's something there. If he says no dates, stop talking to him because that isn't what you want and you're doing yourself a diservice. We love attention and I'd hate to see him continue the communication with you for just that. We can get attention from anyone if we decide to, no need to get someone who has feelings for us sucked in. Or at least, that's has been my approach.
Big misconception I think. We don't like being in the spotlight- you wouldn't know it but we are really very shy. But we often find ourselves in the spot light because we have huge personalities!