Posted by everevolvingepithet
Why did my keyboard just freeze?
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Posted by Piscesdream89Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by Piscesdream89
A good strategy is the one time rule. If the man does something really bogus to you like ignore you, stand you up, ECT, just be done. Lifes to short and someone better and more attractive will be eager to please you with everything you want and more. Chances are if it happened once, it will happen again. Its not meant for you it doesn't flow naturally down the river. Move on and stay up! What a man does too you is not your problem. He also owes you no explanation why he did anything if your not in a relationship. Once we all learn to have a "I" and realize what belongs to us and what doesn't, one could never become a fallback girl.
Hope my contributions have merit.
Why are you trying to let men off the hook and not be accountable for their actions??
Its not about that. When red flags are drawn you get out of there as fast as possible and do not associate yourself with that person. Just complaining about some mens actions online is not going to change how one can protect themselves from being played or falling into their traps.click to expand
Posted by Damnata
You can always choose not to participate in it. If you grow indifferent, they won't have anyone to argue with and the whole thing will cease.
Posted by HungVirgo
idk could be a mixture of things, maybe he likes you more than them. I know im more comfortable declining help to people Im closer with, if I dont think its a big deal. thats probably why you see him helping randoms more than you, because those are small things and he probably feels like he helps you in more important ways and says no to dumb things as a way to exert his independence. when i was involved with a coworker I would almost avoid her at work when just prior to us being involved I was always around her helping or whatever else.
Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
How is he considered a friend again?
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