Tired of My Scorpio's bout of solitude!!!
Posted by tiziani
Two weeks is nothing. Relationships only work on patience. As a Libra, you should understand that.
It's not ignoring someone if two people legitimately don't know what to say to one another. Would you rather have empty words as a substitute for a real relationship?
Where it becomes a dick move is if you haven't communicated that ahead of time or just dropped off the radar out the blue.
TWO WEEKS IS NOTHING?
Out of your mind. OUT OF YOUR MIND.
Any non-communication for any amount of time of which is 'out of the ordinary' for either of the two is a dick move.
Scenario:
I'm in a happy relationship. Everything is going well. We have a wonderful night together. Say our goodbyes the following day and head to work. Later on a text is sent.. no reply. Ok. - a few hours pass.. fine they must be busy at work. - The end of the night comes... ummm... Where is my s/o? For the last (however long the relationship has been) I've spoken to them every day...
I would be a bit concerned.
TWO WEEKS OF THIS?
Out of your mind.
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I've also been there and done exactly that.
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promises that cannot be fulfilled, basically.
anyway, i told him.
and timing is the verdict.
plus, we are dealing with sensitive matters here.
i failed to mention that we are both actively in the middle of divorces and because he is always with his boys when not with me or working, meeting the folks would mean me meeting his boys and i am not ready for that because he cannot meet my daughters yet. ex-spouses have a way of using that against you.
well, the great thing is i put it out there so this will put some fire under his feet to make his situation as crisp as mine so, when the time comes, there will be no worries.
he can't meet my folks, btw. at least, not now...my entire family lives in another state.
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Sounds like he is genuinely trying to get to know u. Spark up a conversation, even if it is about mold.
You say that you dont want to date him just to make his life better. Im confused, I think people get n2 relationships to compliment each other or make each other better. Especially men. A man needs a great woman by his side to make him even better.
Hes whining because hes bored. Why not go on an adventure with him?
Sounds like he is genuinely trying to get to know u. Spark up a conversation, even if it is about mold.
You say that you dont want to date him just to make his life better. Im confused, I think people get n2 relationships to compliment each other or make each other better. Especially men. A man needs a great woman by his side to make him even better.
Hes whining because hes bored. Why not go on an adventure with him?
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Air it out my sag sister. Just write, no judgements. Was it something the psychic didn't say that has u a bit bummed? Wanna take a gander at your transits.
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I bet he's picked out all of those insecurities by now.
I'm sure he has! DANG!
So we had while we were making love... He said * I love you *about three times with so much passion!! I responded with my intense passionate kisses. Next night he claimed it was just a slur of passionate moments ! Now what were some of your words?? N do you mean them 
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