Let's get emotional! (signs and emotion)
I get told I'm cold and unfeeling by many people, namely men. All I have to say about that is that I do have emotions but I'm not mushy about it and I won't let them show. I used to think being emotional was weak; I no longer think that. In my family I'm the oldest; the strong one. Sometimes that gets tiring. When everything gets to be too much I might have a good cry in solitude. I'm a strong believer that time heals all wounds. That's why I detach, cut the person off, and move on.
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Posted by P-Angel
... fum loves drama, and will fight to keep it ... I would have thought that to be obvious ...
Well-- you know what they say, p-gel: If you spot it, you've got it.
It's a little variation on the old adage, "Takes one to know one."
MsX,
I think we have established similarities. After reading the further back story with the divorce, I am also in the middle of that. Just waiting for him to sign the damn papers or put me through 5 months of another process. But, there is no "legal separation" here. You are married or you are not. So until the divorce decree is final you are viewed as married and adultery can be brought up which is one of the select only reason the other spouse can get spousal support as well if it can be proven in court. So honestly, I really don't blame him to proceed cautiously.
To build onto what SML said, Leos in general are very protective people over their loved ones. Especially their children. Leo men too, not just women. I have not worked that all out yet for myself, but the way I see it "right now", no one will be meeting my kids, PERIOD. They are the one thing I do not play about. Their best interest and safety is my number one concern.
Be patient until his divorce is over. If you can establish meeting parents without kids, may be best. Let him set the pace on meeting the kids.
I think we have established similarities. After reading the further back story with the divorce, I am also in the middle of that. Just waiting for him to sign the damn papers or put me through 5 months of another process. But, there is no "legal separation" here. You are married or you are not. So until the divorce decree is final you are viewed as married and adultery can be brought up which is one of the select only reason the other spouse can get spousal support as well if it can be proven in court. So honestly, I really don't blame him to proceed cautiously.
To build onto what SML said, Leos in general are very protective people over their loved ones. Especially their children. Leo men too, not just women. I have not worked that all out yet for myself, but the way I see it "right now", no one will be meeting my kids, PERIOD. They are the one thing I do not play about. Their best interest and safety is my number one concern.
Be patient until his divorce is over. If you can establish meeting parents without kids, may be best. Let him set the pace on meeting the kids.
In a relationship's infancy, I do not like for the other person to set the pace. Once I have decided I want you, you will become my primary focus, but until then I see any attempt (however innocent or justified) to set the pace as "pushy" or "clingy".
Don't underestimate our fear of entaglement and captivity as a major motivating force in our lives. We have to feel like we are choosing to be where we are at any moment.
(Sorry to hide the previous post. Just wanted to add a couple of things to it)
Don't underestimate our fear of entaglement and captivity as a major motivating force in our lives. We have to feel like we are choosing to be where we are at any moment.
(Sorry to hide the previous post. Just wanted to add a couple of things to it)
I am curious to see scorpion's point of views..what are some of the Pros and Cons for Taurus's..
What were your experiences? did you date one..did it turn out ? how was the connection..etc
What were your experiences? did you date one..did it turn out ? how was the connection..etc
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My husband is a Scorpio moon (Scorpio sun, too). No, he's not crazy at all. Passionate, intense, stubborn, sensitive, and straighforward, but not crazy.
Posted by IrresistableScorpPosted by saweetz1988Posted by IrresistableScorp
OMG this is an easy fix. Find a moment when you can claim this Scorp in a very direct way in front of your ex or so that it gets back to your ex. This sounds like loyalty testing. No biggie. Not saying this Scorp dude is in forever love mode with you--I don't know because I am not him--but if you feel like your ex is old news and you want to be with this Scorp, make it obvious. We love that shiite.
Don't badger on the dating other people scenario unless he starts dating others then you truly do have just an FWB.
Now that i realised, me and my virgo ex were together for 2.5 years. His best friend ( my friend) told him ..how me and my ex were still talking heaps etc.
I told my Scorpio that i did not even get hurt ending things with my ex etc and that he hurt me more braking up with me. He asked how we broke up etc...i have shown him with actions and words that my ex doesn't mean anything to me anymore and i can't be bother hearing from him etc. I definitely been making it obvious !!! if he doesn't see that ..i don't know how else to pass his test !..as off dating.. to me that is a test too... he pushes me away by saying...be with other men..you deserve better etc...to me that means ( i want to prove whether you can be loyal to me and will only love and support me in life forever) ..am i right ? haha
Try not to over think. Not worth it. Just do what comes naturally. Also actions speak louder than words so just telling Scorp dude could actually mean exactly zero to him with regards to how you are feeling about ex.
Remember you told Scorp that you it hurt you that Virgo broke up with you--kind of a red flag. That may mean your are not completely over as for the typical Scorp of someone breaks up with us, it takes awhile before we are ready for another relationship. Just things to keep in mind. Try not to over think things. Go with the flow until or if until the flow seems to stop.click to expand
i just want to clarify that i said to my scorpion that I did not feel hurt at all when me and my ex broke up but got more hurt when my scorpio broke up with me....even though we were together for a week...compared to 2.5 yea