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Posted by ellessque
you do realize he's patronizing you guys, right?
And there she goes again.
Elle isn't who you newbies think she is. she is the one with a hidden agenda and manipulates you all to suit her.
This following statement is not a lie, and people in here KNOW for a fact that this is the truth:
Her own son came into dxp to warn all of us about her ... she has an agenda, as well as multiple accounts that are used regularly for the purposes of fucking with people.
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Not sure you ever tried this, but...imagine inventing and trying every week a new sex game. Finding a different place for the date. Interviewing thousands of men until you choose one. How is that for keeping your brain young?
Posted by lnana04
It will be okay.
I notice the ladies that have the most luck are the ones that dont take it all so seriously.
I feel unlucky too, but i think i expect more than i should.
Hope you feel better
Ohh I have had my fair share of serious and not so serious. The ones that I don't take so seriously are the ones that I don't want and are hard to get rid of...lol I do feel somewhat better today, keeping my head up like someone else said.
We all can use a good hug. GROUP HUG!!!!!
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Posted by tiziani
I think the best way to understand someone is to ask them. After all, people change, relationships change and go through phases. If something bothers you, clarify it with him rather than biting your tongue. If you want more of something from the relationship, make that clear and ask for it with a view to looking forward. It's a risk but it's a simpler way of getting the answers you want from one another. Astrology-wise there doesn't seem anything alarming about what you're saying. Just relationship ups and downs. What saves a relationship (and respect) is communication.
+ a billion!
Nail on head Tizi!
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My answers:
1. I grew up with both loving parents who weren't super affectionate & had gone through life thinking affection wasn't something I needed. Can't miss what you never had, right? Well, my 1st love was so affectionate & turned on a part of my heart that I didn't know existed. From then on, I never could be with someone unless they were affectionate.
2. An ex started laughing/smirking when I told him that my mother had a terminal illness.
3. I told that same ex that I could see why all his relationships had failed & that it was b/c he's not so lovable. That, coming from me, really hurt him deep b/c he'd always felt unloved & unworthy growing up.
4. I will never again get revenge or cheat! It does NOT make you feel better
5. Taurus
6. Libra
7. Listen to your gut! It has never been wrong before & is not out to get you! If it's telling you to run, run! If it's telling you to stay/forgive/trust/love, then do so.
8. "Since all men cheat anyways, you might as well prepare to be able to deal with it somehow. If everything else about him is great, don't leave or you might miss out"
9. I used to be quick to break it off with someone over little things. Anytime something went wrong I was like, "ooup it's over!" It took for someone to do that to me over & over again to get a taste of my own medicine & realize that doing that is extremely manipulative, wrong & scars the other person. Now, I compromise & talk it out & have decided not to ever break up with someone unless I intend on that being the last time we're ever together.
10. Yes & No.
11. My needs are just as important as theirs. When a person can only sleep at night after placing my need on the same high pedistool as their own.
12. When their needs/opinion/feelings matter just as much as my own...the ultimate selflessness.
1. I grew up with both loving parents who weren't super affectionate & had gone through life thinking affection wasn't something I needed. Can't miss what you never had, right? Well, my 1st love was so affectionate & turned on a part of my heart that I didn't know existed. From then on, I never could be with someone unless they were affectionate.
2. An ex started laughing/smirking when I told him that my mother had a terminal illness.
3. I told that same ex that I could see why all his relationships had failed & that it was b/c he's not so lovable. That, coming from me, really hurt him deep b/c he'd always felt unloved & unworthy growing up.
4. I will never again get revenge or cheat! It does NOT make you feel better
5. Taurus
6. Libra
7. Listen to your gut! It has never been wrong before & is not out to get you! If it's telling you to run, run! If it's telling you to stay/forgive/trust/love, then do so.
8. "Since all men cheat anyways, you might as well prepare to be able to deal with it somehow. If everything else about him is great, don't leave or you might miss out"
9. I used to be quick to break it off with someone over little things. Anytime something went wrong I was like, "ooup it's over!" It took for someone to do that to me over & over again to get a taste of my own medicine & realize that doing that is extremely manipulative, wrong & scars the other person. Now, I compromise & talk it out & have decided not to ever break up with someone unless I intend on that being the last time we're ever together.
10. Yes & No.
11. My needs are just as important as theirs. When a person can only sleep at night after placing my need on the same high pedistool as their own.
12. When their needs/opinion/feelings matter just as much as my own...the ultimate selflessness.