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Dec 20, 2011Comments: 362 · Posts: 10167 · Topics: 100
Those virgos will be the death of me I tell ya.
Hi there,
So ive been dating this Taurus female, Im a Scorpio. I met her at a fetish event. We have been spending pretty much every weekend together. I like hanging out with her and we have amazing chemistry. I want to take it to the next level but i know how Taurus's like there space and freedom. Which im willing to give her. I just dont want to ruin what we have now.
We have sort of an alternative sexual thing going on. She is a very beautiful Dominatrix and i am a Submissive. When im away she tells me she misses me but the other weekend she went to vegas and posted all these photos with her and other guys. I didnt say anything and dont plan on it. But it did make me jealous. I feel like i get mixed messages from her sometime though. She gets very mad very fast and can be a little mean. ME being the sensitive scorp gets a litte effected by it. So sometimes i think she likes me a lot and others i feel like she is looking for something better. So im a little confused She is very kinky and says she wants to hook up with other guys. Im down with whatever really, but want to feel safe and protected as to feel like she isnt going to go off looking for someone else. I want to feel secure knowing if that happened she would stay with me. I dont mind mixing things up sexually i just want to be the one she goes home with in the end.... EEEHHHHKKKK. Anyway we talked a while ago when we started dating and she asked me what my expectations were, i said i dont have any. Side note, she and her long term BF just broke up a few months ago. Maybe like 5 or so.
I want her to be my gf but im afraid of asking and smothering her. How do i know if i should pull the trigger or not ?
Anyone out there can shed any light on this i'd greatly appreciate it.
I'm an INTJ... I have a Sag sun, Aquarius moon & Sag rising. Mercury & Mars in Sag, venus in Scorpio... Midhaven is in Libra. Hmmmm.
Hi, your Aqua's unhappy. It not a problem with you, it' a problem with him. Depending on his maturity he could consciously know what the problem is or he??s buried it so deep he doesn??t. The problem is probably very simple, but he??s gotta figure it out for himself. Aquas find emotion very draining, talking out someone??s emotional problem or even worse talking about mine, although I??ll feel better after, it feels like I??ve just run a marathon.
You and your Pisces female (being two water signs), you both look at the problem the same way, through emotion. That??s not how your Aqua looks at it or needs to deal with it. It??s a logical problem, that he needs to find an acceptable logical solution to. He??s paying attention to everyone else because they give him energy and you are dumping emotions on him, which he is incapable of dealing with. Normally he can cope with your emotion, because he can be one step removed from it, but as he has his own problem your emotion is bringing up emotion in him. It??s probably guilt and embarrassment, that he can??t deal with such a simple problem. If you have a fire sign or better still an air sign to talk to, try them for advice, they??ll have a better understanding of the problem.
As far as a solution goes, that not easy, depends how big the problem is. Best solution I??ve got, is buy him a oneway ticket to where ever and send him off. He??ll come back, you can see he loves you. If you want a less extreme solution, don??t want anything from him, give him lots of space, easy as you can on the emotion. Really easy on calling him and spending time just the two of you. All interaction should be kept light and airy. Keep the majority of communication through SMS/IM, there??s very little emotion through such communication methods. Flirt, tease him, try to act like you where just going out, he??ll love that game.
This may take some time, if I??ve had a major problem it??s taken me 6 month to a couple of years to get over it.
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Aug 25, 2012Comments: 25 · Posts: 885 · Topics: 40
Happy birthday ic ! How many bdays have you celebrated till now? :p
Have a blast!