Don't wait too long. For me, If I don't hear from you for 1 day I'm fine, by the 2nd day I start to get a little crazy, which could be a good thing for you. 3rd day - angry!
Wow this is sooo cool and explains my day!bad bad bad!Soo bad that I publicly announced that I hate my life and the unnecessary crap I have to deal with...Which the cancer's now not to be true,we like the challenge of turning a negative into a positive and being optimistic about almost everything...So yeah I caught myself not being myself today!But I'm not over the reality of what happened,still think it's not fair!
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Dec 20, 2011Comments: 362 · Posts: 10167 · Topics: 100
I'd say for me personally, I wouldn't make my intentions known until I'm sure there's something I can pursue. Whatever information I need to gather about you would've been done way before asking you out and by this point I probably would've befriended you. This is sort of my way of gauging whether you like me and for me to see whether the feeling is mutual.
So you could say I'm friends first and then gauge whether there can be more. I don't really go for the whole sappy "I like you, you're my girlfriend" talk though. I personally never liked labels such as that but I won't be so heartless as to say "oh no we're just friends" when there's clearly more to it.
I like to please and reciprocate feelings, that part has gotten me into trouble plenty of times especially when a girl wants more or moves too fast for me. But once I'm sure there's really no inhibitions for me to hide my feelings.
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Jun 25, 2012Comments: 19 · Posts: 19733 · Topics: 48
No, I don't share mine or yours. I've had people talk sh*t about me and betray my trust something awful and I still didn't say a peep. Trust means something to me and I won't stoop to someone else's level and then justify it by claiming "well I only shared your secrets after you shared mine" GTFOH with that. If your friendship/relationship ends just go you own way and leave it at that.
Like I always say, watch how people treat their enemies.
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So is he a Leo or Cancer????