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Since the 'cheating' episodes,he does not 'love' you the same way as before.
I agree with neutro,no trust=no love.
He still cares enough to stand by you since you are having a baby and perhaps 'wants to' love you like in the beginning but can't because of trust issues.
As for the 'buried feelings',he won't open up unless he trusts you sufficiently.Also,he will make an attempt to trust you again only if he wants to.
In summary,I see him sticking around you,supporting you and taking care of you and the baby without having to/feeling like investing his emotions 100% this time.The 'barriers' help him stay safe, yet there.
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You're gonna have to get rid of your gf before you pursue anything. If you go at her romantically and she finds out about your girl, so won't trust you and write you off as a player - no different from the rest of the men who tend to come at Scorps.
Until then, you're gonna just have to play the friend card and genuinely just be her friend. No flirting, just friendly.
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