Thanks TrueCap.
I'm not really a homebody person per se'. I just like to do activities with smaller groups of people. And as I said if we are gonna go out, drinking every week or weekend to me is boring when there is so much else to do.
I'm an easygoing person. I'll go to the moon to make my significant other happy. I just think once I've proven their happiness is my #1 priority, I expect a little leeway.
I dont mind being pushed out of my comfort zone. That is one of the major reasons I am going to LA. To challenge myself and not be my same boring self anymore.
Will being around different groups of her friends every week scare the living hell out of me if things happen between us? Oh yes it will. And I will be working over-time to make sure her friends dont think I'm a douche.
But the pressure in trying to do that is rather daunting. We'll see how it goes if something does happen. My biggest nightmare is my tendency to put my foot all the way in mouth without meaning to. See, the more nervous I am around people I dont know from adam, I tell jokes hardcore just so they will like me. But my social nervousness in the past has pushed me to tell a joke that goes too far.
I'd rather have this problem then dating a introvert. That is even more draining to me than dating an extrovert. Having to carry the conversation all the time with a girl makes me batsh-t nuts. I would rather have someone who is easy to talk to. And nothing like that never comes without a price tag metaphorically speaking.
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I love pisces women but you guys have very low tolerance for hardcore criticism. Why is it so hard to believe that you guys have bad traits just like every other sign?
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I've been with my Capricorn girlfriend for just over three years. I want to get married but she doesn't. She talks about marriage like it's a curse, making all the 'ball and chain' type references that men usually make while saying how she learns from others' mistakes and won't do it because she's seen how it didn't work out for other people. She says it's all a display and that you can be committed without a ceremony or a ring. Sure you can, but in getting married you are making a formal statement of intent to commit and remain committed. Without marriage there is no such statement. Sure, marriages break down, but if you marry then you at least intended to make it work. But by not marrying you're effectively leaving the door open for an easy escape, like you're hedging your bets in case something better comes along. I'm starting to lose my enthusiasm for the relationship now, like I'm wasting my time working toward something that I've already been told is never going to happen. Hell - I'm a Virgo - I should be the commitment-phobe!
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whats so funny is that i dont have many air sun friends... i could prob count on one or two hands the air sun friends i've had over the years.
however! my closest friends seem to have air moons... particularly gemini moon. (sometimes gemini ascendant)
it's interesting!
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Ward of the state. Pine box. Unless you want spring for more. Me and Snoz already covered all the fixed costs; let's get this scheduled already.