Scorpio Mirroring.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by Draumstafir
The car salesman technique:
"If I'm similar to you, maybe you'll like me..."
Nah, that'd cause eyes to narrow, even more soit they try those gaudy techniques where they tap or try to touch an arm whilst maintaining eye contact etc lolclick to expand
Well it's been my reason for mirroring lol. The only other time I do is if I'm losing control of myself in an argument. If my emotions spin out of control, I end up copying the other person, often to my own detriment! And no I have not yet been able to teach myself not to do this... it is so deeply hardwired. But that's a goal. Two hotheads in the same room is NOT a good idea. But conversely, if I'm arguing with someone who has a calming effect on me, the argument can turn into more of a soft banter than anything monumental. Calm people (not fake calm, because it's the undercurrents I'm reading) are very healthy for me.
Insight is the best repayment gift I can give to authentically calm people. From the few I've known so far, it's sort of a carefree spirit that enables their calm, and I like to keep them from walking into those hurtful situations that I can see a mile away. Even the nicest people have their limits.
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Eh, maybe not as hopeless as me.
I've been single my whole life, and as such, can't understand the mind reading it seems people expect me to do to know if they're interested or if I'm just imaging things due to supposed innocence or whatever. My moon's in Sagittarius, and Venus is in Gemini. I think my birth chart is pretty random, though I don't really understand those things because try as I might, I can't seem to be bothered to go further and deeper than my beloved Sun.
My thing is though that I am wondering about why people say we're charming and how it is that they see as as such because for the most part, while I can't speak for anyone, I don't think it's something that I and other Taurus people do on purpose unless I explicitly say so. It's kind of, are we charming, or is that what other people who say this about us feel when we associate with them?
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Posted by capgirl69
He says, "Oh, you wanna hook up. I'm down." haha.
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Phoenix- you're having too much fun. haha.
Lol, Well I guess I'll have to tell him not to be soft with me. 
and I'm kinda hoping it does. I've been scoping him every since he asked for my number, just to see what he might be about. Most of my friends love him and think he could give me a run for my money. Which is what I'm liking about him. He challenges me. I can't lie when he's around I am completely drawn to him. Just want to see where it can go.
and I'm kinda hoping it does. I've been scoping him every since he asked for my number, just to see what he might be about. Most of my friends love him and think he could give me a run for my money. Which is what I'm liking about him. He challenges me. I can't lie when he's around I am completely drawn to him. Just want to see where it can go.
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Yep, and put a jacket on his jimmy if you do... There seems to be a wave of disease recently.