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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Your reality is your focus .... if you truly wanted a different reality, then you'd have a different focus.
If you think you are helpless about what you think about .... then what was the point in you being born a human instead of a cow?
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Sep 20, 2011Comments: 13 · Posts: 10937 · Topics: 699
You see, women in the US wanted freedom. So...... they got it.
They raised a few generations and the nation went to pot.
There you go.
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Jul 17, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 1056 · Topics: 11
I thought I was already elected?
nah,u gonna sleep at the couch
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 3 · Posts: 15387 · Topics: 830
HOLOGRAPHIC UNIVERSE THEORY
PHYSICS DOESN'T RULE IT OUT BUT DOESN'T CONFIRM IT
THERE ARE MANY THEORYS DEALING WITH SPACE TIME
AND BEST YOU BONE UP ON GRAVITATIONAL WAVES
IF YOU PLAN TO ARGUE YOUR POINTS
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Jan 12, 2012Comments: 34 · Posts: 1132 · Topics: 27
Whatever, good discussion.
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Jan 19, 2012Comments: 6 · Posts: 702 · Topics: 39
Parts of that is true...most of it...but not in the way they see it. With him she's right on some levels, he:
- Is very social
- Very chaotic mentally (he's always jumping from thing to thing)
- Goes against convention (he does what he thinks is the priority which isn't always the most important priority)
- He is very caring and helpful
But yep you are right...the ironic thing is, like she said in the video we are immediately attracted to them and I was...though I didn't give it alot of thought in the beginning but as we got to know each other I ADORED his personality...he was just so silly and calm and helpful and attentive and because he was so random, he was never predictable and so he always surprised me with things he said or did that i didn't expect and for some reason he automatically was comfortable with me since day 1. I don't know what it was but he always was drawn to me and even now that we work together...somehow I became his "Bonnie" (bonnie and clyde reference).
Not sure why but he always treated me like that even during that dark period where we barely spoke...I'm the person that he always says he's leaving when he goes to a meeting or is going home and he will often repeat it if he thinks i'm not paying attention.
But I think the problem lies like she said on the video...because he doesn't focus on any one person 100% of the time, that makes scorpios jealous and feel neglected which it did LOL. Part of why its so tough now is because he's not great at reading people so when you act a certain way he assumes its because of something so he alters his actions to fit yours instead of ever wondering why he/she is acting that way...
Even when that Pisces female kept suggesting he talk to me about the most recent issue ASAP...he didn't...but fortunately i pulled him aside when he was leaving to go home. I even told Pisces female that a week after it happened and she said that she thinks he was gonna give me the weekend to calm down before he approached me but if I know him like I think I do, he was hoping I'd be over it after the weekend and not have to talk to me about it because he's chicken lol
But that would have made it worse. But ever since the talk he's been 50% better. He's very talkative in a silly way half the time, the other half of the time he's easily distracted by everyone else or whatever priority projects (that aren't really a priority) that's going on in his head.
He seems to follow by example so if I
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Mar 18, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 1355 · Topics: 6
I don't think this is a pisces thing. I think it's a human thing. Sometimes people hurt us so badly, forgiveness is really only a concept because in our heart when we think of them, we feel the pain. I can only think of 1 person in my life, a woman who I knew for a decade, considered a VERY close friend and screwed me over royally, that I can't find it in my heart to forgive. Everyone else. Every boyfriend who ever let me down or friend who did something stupid. No problem. Her? She stuck that knife in too deep. I was blindsided and didn't see it coming. It's been over a decade now and she rarely crosses my mind. That's the closest I'll probably ever get to true forgiveness. Maybe it's my Cancer nature but I think a lot of us have that person or two who really challenges forgiveness.
The best I can suggest is for your friend to try to stop thinking about these people who hurt him so badly. Just don't put your energy there. It's a black hole. And don't talk about it with others because it will resurrect the dead. Let sleeping dogs lie.