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Posted by starlover
What if you are as equally assertive or powerful ?

Someone has to lead, trying to share that role makes things more confusing.

Do you think so? Is it really that black and white, as in the man's role and the woman's role.
That seems like quite a narrow view to me?
I think it is fun to take turns .....when two very strong people are together, it can work
In the sex department it would be the equivalent to *switch* ?

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Posted by djbuck1
I believe she is talking about people using astrology to justify/excuse/enable offensive behavior.

I agree, and I hate when I see people on here giving horrible advice to women based on some asshole's sign. Yeah, it's an astrology site, but there are some things that should be obvious red flags for EVERYONE.
It's especially bad when the women here give ridiculously shitty advice just because they share the same sign as some jackass treating some poor girl like garbage. "He's a Scorpio! Of course he's going to go through your phone/demand to know where you are at all times/accuse you of cheating/interrogate you/stalk you/etc. YOU probably did something to make him that way!"
*barfs*

And as far as the "You probably did something to make him that way" Sorry, but I see too many people on here that won??t take responsibility for their own fault, in their problems. About 60% of the Sign Board threads are a one sided blame fest. And just having that point of view is the first part of the problem, because that is not a relationship mentality.
But I think that really plays into how our society is changing. And part of that, is really facilitating a me based perspective.

I get that. We only have the OP's side of the story to go by, though. What I don't like is when these wannabe relationship guru bitches flat-out make shit up and act as though they're speaking for the other person in the equation. They'll often twist the OP's words around like crazy, fill in what they consider to be "holes" in the story with crazy accusations or assumptions, then try to act as though they're somehow helping by showing them "tough love" or giving "fair" advice. In reality, it's almost always just a bunch of bullshit conjecture with a few of the OP's words (often taken out of context) thrown in. I'm sorry, but that's just plain stupid and illogical.

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Posted by Qbone
Lol??_
Remember kids??_ Life starts at 40.

I hope you're right


I know I am right??_
You have your whole 20??s and 30??s to secure your future (while you have energy for it), fail to accomplish this, then you have suffering to deal with when you pass 40.
So, life starts at 40.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Oh, so you make it a habit to date guys who are in relationships/barely out of relationships?
You need to work on your self esteem issues, chica. No woman should be settling for shit like this, let alone chasing taken men.

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
So much of it comes down to men/women either not knowing what they want, or refusing to set standards and making excuses for bad behavior. Also the myth that if you love a person enough they will magically become who you want them to be.