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Sep 26, 2012Comments: 1648 · Posts: 8573 · Topics: 67
How long were you married?
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another thread gone wild.
re. the op... i'd love to have kids in the right committed relationship. and to me the current trend seems to mean that people are taking the decision to have kids much more seriously. if that's the case... FINALLY we're doing something right!
re. the tangent... i'm pro-abortion as long as it's not used as a means of 'birth control', but rather for super high-risk pregnancies. as in, someone's about to die, etc.
Hi Jade, I don't know if I can be much help but I'll try. I am with a aqua guy. From what I read, u were too predictable. To easy, too available.
I learned it the hard way, u have to be mysterious with aquas. Do your own thing be busy till they start missing u.
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Mar 30, 2012Comments: 1243 · Posts: 16617 · Topics: 170
Someone get that crazy fucker a valium.
lol at how this took a turn toward abortion.
This shit isn't even about abortion. It's about the jack asses who think that people who choose not to have kids are in the wrong.
And if it's "selfish" so what? I'd rather have someone be selfish at the risk of no other individuals (i.e. children). Much better than some jack ass selfishly having children and being a shitty parent. I mean really, how the fuck is not having a kid hurting ANYONE? And then that fucktarded logic of "OH OLD AND ALONE!" You do not have children for the sake of taking care of you when you're old. If that's the logic (which I've heard all too often from idiots) for having kids, then you're being a selfish twat. You have children because you want to, not just to be your servants/caretakers down the road. Duh.
That said, this is not to discredit those who want children and are good parents. I just think it's asinine that people throw out all this selfish labeling bullshit toward people who choose to remain childless, when it's far more selfish to have children for all the wrong reasons (in this case, because of societal pressure). I see way too much reckless abandonment when it comes to having children, intentional or not.
The funny thing is that you can never get a good, logical reason as to WHY having kids is a the best thing. With something like this, you never will because it's all on personal preference in the matter. Some want to and some don't. The end.
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Sep 26, 2012Comments: 1648 · Posts: 8573 · Topics: 67
well. I dunno bout that, my Cappy is 33 going on 8 sometimes. Kind of the old Sea-Goat aging backwards thing going on... =) which I love, lets face it.
Anyway, I gotta say as far as I can tell when Virgo is done- they are Done.
Why waste your time and energy on this when timing wise you have the potential to build the life you want with someone who matches that- ahead of you!?
You're only 23, I wish I was still 23... I'd ditch a few dickheads and focus on some worthies in hindsight now, I tell ya.