Aries man disinterest? Salvageable?
As a disclaimer, I know full-well I'm not well-versed in dating (it's been four years... and I admit i'm not the most feminine girl in the world) This might be quite a pain to read... and to add to the injury, I'm in my late 20s too. But still, could you maybe give me insight, arians?
The Aries guy was the new pub manager i frequent to and new to the country as well. Great conversations, very interesting and pretty good looking guy and it felt comfortable to chit chat, good atmosphere.
One night I jokingly asked for his number, then one Virgo lady came and asked him his number instead and sat between us. I didn't end up asking for his number but it was still a good night. The virgo lady drove us home then he asked me to make time to go to a dancing venue (with bunch of people) on a certain date before I left the car so i agreed. I found out the next day from her that she ended up sleeping with him that night.
I asked for his number via facebook, and then asked him out for a lunch/coffee the next date. We had mismatched schedule so it didnt happen but he promised me there'll be a next time and told me he wants me to come to see him more often at where he work. Normally i would think he just want to make more business but I often get free drinks if i come anyway so who knows!
So i started coming more often, he would ask me about things related to his job (I used to manage a small hotel/restaurant as well) and I'll help him fix his work related to the language used here, stuff like that. While maybe there wasn't anything romantic, I enjoyed his company, he would stay until it closes to accompany me (buying me drinks as well). Generally being direct and somewhat sweet, even talking about his past exes, family history and life situation, invited me to go to poker nights with him and his best friend. etc. If anything he had a potential to be a good friend, and I'd love that.
But apparently he's slightly involved with the Virgo lady (which i found out from the bartenders). The virgo lady is into him but she has a bf, and currently away with her bf in other country but still like him a lot while has no intention of breaking up w/ him. I jokingly inquire if he's having a relationship problem. He said it's not a relationship, just a bit complicated, but it's no problem.
We meet again the next day because the bartenders wanted me to put in songs into the pub playlist. He was really busy that day so we didn't end up talking much, but when we did
The Aries guy was the new pub manager i frequent to and new to the country as well. Great conversations, very interesting and pretty good looking guy and it felt comfortable to chit chat, good atmosphere.
One night I jokingly asked for his number, then one Virgo lady came and asked him his number instead and sat between us. I didn't end up asking for his number but it was still a good night. The virgo lady drove us home then he asked me to make time to go to a dancing venue (with bunch of people) on a certain date before I left the car so i agreed. I found out the next day from her that she ended up sleeping with him that night.
I asked for his number via facebook, and then asked him out for a lunch/coffee the next date. We had mismatched schedule so it didnt happen but he promised me there'll be a next time and told me he wants me to come to see him more often at where he work. Normally i would think he just want to make more business but I often get free drinks if i come anyway so who knows!
So i started coming more often, he would ask me about things related to his job (I used to manage a small hotel/restaurant as well) and I'll help him fix his work related to the language used here, stuff like that. While maybe there wasn't anything romantic, I enjoyed his company, he would stay until it closes to accompany me (buying me drinks as well). Generally being direct and somewhat sweet, even talking about his past exes, family history and life situation, invited me to go to poker nights with him and his best friend. etc. If anything he had a potential to be a good friend, and I'd love that.
But apparently he's slightly involved with the Virgo lady (which i found out from the bartenders). The virgo lady is into him but she has a bf, and currently away with her bf in other country but still like him a lot while has no intention of breaking up w/ him. I jokingly inquire if he's having a relationship problem. He said it's not a relationship, just a bit complicated, but it's no problem.
We meet again the next day because the bartenders wanted me to put in songs into the pub playlist. He was really busy that day so we didn't end up talking much, but when we did
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It's funny, he's a scorpish Cancer and you're a crabby Scorpy. Shouldn't be that complicated, I would think.
Don't you have friends who could lock you both in the same room or something?
We do have a few friends in common that might help out. Though I imagine that wouldn't be a good idea. I get really nervous when he's around. I'll probably say or do something stupid.
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I also ordered him around while he cleaned.
This seemed to improve his mood tremendously.
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I completely understand where you're coming from! ha they tend to just contact you out of nowhere and then disappear. Same with my taurus aswell, hes liked me for a year but yet now when hes got the chance he just seems distant! they definitely take their time thats for sure!!!
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