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Posted by MsSag86
What sign are u ninjagirl?
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I like the fact that as a taurus i can have sex just to feel good and just for the sake of it and physical enjoyment no attachments at all. It doesn't have to be love making all the time
Your not the only one to notice this.. it has gotten worse and worse over the years. They have changed their algorithm in favor of the companys paying them to get higher page rankings. Either that or they dumbed it down for whatever reason.. The top page results always have a few of my search words and they are scrambled all over the fkn page. What ever happened searching for a cluster of words that were actually together. It infuriates me. I remember back in 2003 - 2008 google worked great. You could really find what you were lookin for.
Being back men in suits wearing hats! 
Posted by xMoonMan
este8, it's Sunday morning in my part of the world
I can be & feel independent within a relationship, or as a single man. The dynamics are different between the two situations but it's possible.
So, I guess I just wanted to clarify the distinction between being independent and "that Cancer vibration" of wanting to hold on too or cling to someone or something.
See now this is what I'd like to learn from you: how to be independent WITHIN a relationship. I think this might be a younger (tho I'm not so young anymore) woman thing: to lose our identity w/in a relationship. In my last relationship, I cared for my partner and stopped caring for myself. At some point, it became too dysfunctional and I realized I had to leave. I knew I wasn't caring for myself and was doing everything to "save" a troubled man. I'm bound and determined not to make this mistake again. It wasn't his fault. I'm not sure it was my fault. It was just a dumb thing to do. I think men tend to be better at maintaining who they are and their independence within a relationship. I feel like we have things to teach each other. Men teach me independence and that's really cool thing to learn from you guys. Cuz no matter how much you suffer from a breakup, you always have yourself, your own identity. I got so caught up in my rela, that I lost my identity. And that's what I had/have to learn to reclaim. I do agree that Cancer is paradoxical when it comes to being "needy." I actually don't think we are that. I think we're very good at doing our own thing. It's that cardinal energy at play. But then our need for love can make us codependent, if we let it. Live and learn. But I've always had that independent/needy aspect to my own character. I'm actually an introvert and a bit of a longer. Like Krebbsman, I was a weirdo in my youth. I'd like to think I'm still a weirdo at heart. But I definitely had that "march to the beat of my own drummer" ways and I've always loved my solitude. In fact more than most. Thanks, mate! This is why I like coming here. I learn so much and as you'll prolly recall I didn't have the most favorable take on cancer men b/c of one bad apple. Seriously, dumb. But I'm learning from some pretty amazing cancer men. I think cancer men are a mix of macho and sensitivity.
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I hid my last msg b/c it did not come thru. I wrote: introvert and loner. Typo queen here. Thanks again, mate. Didn't realize the time diff when I emailed.
Wow.....that must of been terrifying. Your right about the sleep patterns. I actually had my experience when I was suffering from sleepless nights because of a stressful job I had. I think many ppl have similar experiences but they just shrug it off as a bad dream the next morning.
Posted by WaterCup
My father was an aqua & my mother was a virgo. She left him, but continued to love him in her heart until she died. She said he couldn't give her enough emotional support, she felt lonely & like she was in the marriage by herself.
Her sister passed away while they were still married & she was quite emotional about it like expected, it's family. He didn't give her comfort & honestly didn't get why she was so upset because according to him, my mother hated her sister..so what is the crying all about? Its true that my mom & her sister weren't close, they've ceased talking 15+ years prior the death, so her sudden emotionalism was a WTF MOMENT to him lol. She left closely after.
But my mom had a leo stellium, so attention of all kinds (including emotional attention) must have been of great importance..something she couldn't be without hence why she opted to leave him even though she still loved him.
She left because of that? What is one's breaking point? I guess if it's not cheating or abandonment, it's something else.
I'm guessing there were DEEPER issues than that.
People stay together even when a man has a live-in mistress, as long as the wife remains as no.1 and the husband gives obligation to his first family.
People even stay together when there's alcoholism and addiction in there.
Everyone has a breaking point and some people's breaking points are small. And some are huge. Some don't have any. They stay even if the man has several mistresses and flaunts them in his wife's face.
Believe me, i have seen it!
Men who keep mistresses and live with them in a 2nd home, and have children with them, and come home to his wife on other weeks.
These women don't have a breaking point. Marriage is marriage.
And some go through abuse, mental and physical day in and day out. No breaking point.
Men who keep mistresses and live with them in a 2nd home, and have children with them, and come home to his wife on other weeks.
These women don't have a breaking point. Marriage is marriage.
And some go through abuse, mental and physical day in and day out. No breaking point.