How to keep a man

Some of you seem like you're living in another world
You really think that all you have to do is simply show up & that you won't have to do any work, fulfill any needs or understand to an extent how men think, in order to get and keep a man
When women list 500 page-long lists of what they want in a man, do you see guys whining & saying, "Wow, I guess honesty & looks is all we guys have to offer?" NO!
It's highly hypocritical that women want all this understanding, have all these long lists of what they want in a man, what they want him to do & what they expect, yet they're quick to call men shallow or get offended when a man pulls out his very OWN list.
There's NO such thing as "People oughta be happy if you just show up."
No, relationships are WORK! People expect for you to prove to them why you, out of the other 7 billion people on earth, should have the privilege of being with them. And simply showing up & sitting on a high horse aint gonna cut it!
And the women who think that way all have 1 thing in common: They're always single or when they do get into a relationship, it ends very quickly & very bad
I get that some standards are unfair but it is what it is. There's something called "reality" & arguing with it all the time won't change it! You'll just end up left out while everybody else accepts it & has the time of their life simply b/c they learned how to stop fighting something they can't control!
Seriously, it's 2013! There is nothing wrong with saying, "You're dam right, you better bring something to the table or else there is no incentive to be with you!"
Relationships aren't just about you & your wants, your expectations, etc. It's about BOTH people. It's about what THEY want, expect & feel they deserve too!!
If a woman doesn't want to be judged for feeling like she deserves a man who buys her things on occasion, for example, it's just flat out dead wrong to judge a man who comes back & says, "Fine, but I feel I deserve a woman who cooks for me occasionally"
It's like people are afraid to have standards or expectations People are afraid to ask for what they want & feel they deserve! Perhaps that's why the state of relationships/marriages in this country have gone to sh*t
And that's how it should be!
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