How to keep a man
Women say all the time that they want a man who is stable or has a job
Isn't it annoying when a man hears that & comes back with, "Is that ALL you want from me? You must be a gold-digger."
Clearly that wasn't what the woman was trying to say. She was just listing maybe 1 or 2 of the things that are the MOST important to her, but that doesn't mean that it's ALL she wants.
I think it works the same for men.
If everyone literally listed all of the things they want in a partner, some of yall would have lists that are 500 pages long. So what do you do when someone asks you what you want? You SHORTEN that list & think about what stands out to you the most.
And you just hope & pray that others are intelligent enough to not mistake that small list to mean that it's all you want. What's so wrong with that??
If a man/woman wants something in particular that you may not feel is important or something that you may not have to give yourself, cool, but don't ridicule the person for what they want b/c chances are, there are actually plenty of people who also want AND can offer that very thing
Isn't it annoying when a man hears that & comes back with, "Is that ALL you want from me? You must be a gold-digger."
Clearly that wasn't what the woman was trying to say. She was just listing maybe 1 or 2 of the things that are the MOST important to her, but that doesn't mean that it's ALL she wants.
I think it works the same for men.
If everyone literally listed all of the things they want in a partner, some of yall would have lists that are 500 pages long. So what do you do when someone asks you what you want? You SHORTEN that list & think about what stands out to you the most.
And you just hope & pray that others are intelligent enough to not mistake that small list to mean that it's all you want. What's so wrong with that??
If a man/woman wants something in particular that you may not feel is important or something that you may not have to give yourself, cool, but don't ridicule the person for what they want b/c chances are, there are actually plenty of people who also want AND can offer that very thing
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Posted by gemini64
Hi Fishman.
I'm not a female Virgo, but I do have Virgo rising if that counts at all? LOL
Here's the deal. I understand where you are coming from. You are attracted to this young lady and want to do something nice for her. This is a nice gesture. However, here's where it gets complicated. You don't know if she actually has boyfriend or not. I recommend knowing the answer to this question before you act further.
As a woman, I can tell you that if I were to receive a gift from a guy who is someone I work with and who is not even on a friendship level yet; it would make me feel extremely awkward. When someone from the opposite gender gives you a gift, it comes with all kinds of emotional issues and questions. If she were a close friend or a GF, then it would be highly appropriate. But in your circumstances, I'm not so sure.
I'm a giving person and when I was younger I gave a guy I really liked a small gift. It was solely intended to put a smile on his face and just say "thanks" to him for being such a great guy. He took it as a sign that I was attracted to him and it made our rapport awkward afterwards.
You also have to consider that maybe she's not as far along in her feelings for you as you may be for her. But this is secondary to first confirming if she
has a BF or not.
I think your gesture is sweet. I just think you may have the cart before the horse, so to speak.
Good luck!
+1
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by DMVPosted by May31Baby
Dmv i just wanna say thank you for putting yourself out there to give me a piece of your mind and im sorry its being used against you now
Clueless Cancer is a woman hurt, bitter, and hateful. I get it, but its time to ditch the crabiness, thats IF she wants to let it go.
Nope! I do feel kind of a bully, but you really do gross me out. Seriously.click to expand
Thats YOUR personal problem. Not mine.
If someone grosses me out or I dont like their posts, I dont even read it. So do yourself a favor and skim right along.
HAHA Clueless, that's very sweet of you to say chicklet. Yeh, shit gets real out here hey... hard to stay idealistic sometimes.
Elle, hey hey, totally!
There was the point when I was dropping the car back and it was about three hours from where I live. I knew it was going to be a real hooter of a drive so I was braced for it. Well, the car was conking out constantly but I would start it up and power on lol up hill and down dale anyway, I missed the turn off for the mechanics shop and thought I'll just duck in to this side street and turn around...
car stops as Im turning and loses power steering so I have no control over the vehicle but its moving in this really eery slow motion... I'm gliding silently through a packed roundabout and across the oncoming traffic straight into a telegraph pole!! that was it for me, I called the guys and said Im lost about a block away (lies) and the car needs to be towed!
They were sorry but I just laughed it off, I mean sheesh I had to laugh!
They took good care of my baby so I didnt complain... I didnt have to pay for anything ( $ 3,000.00 damage)so... I won in the end it was just a hair-greying experience.
Elle, hey hey, totally!
There was the point when I was dropping the car back and it was about three hours from where I live. I knew it was going to be a real hooter of a drive so I was braced for it. Well, the car was conking out constantly but I would start it up and power on lol up hill and down dale anyway, I missed the turn off for the mechanics shop and thought I'll just duck in to this side street and turn around...
car stops as Im turning and loses power steering so I have no control over the vehicle but its moving in this really eery slow motion... I'm gliding silently through a packed roundabout and across the oncoming traffic straight into a telegraph pole!! that was it for me, I called the guys and said Im lost about a block away (lies) and the car needs to be towed!
They were sorry but I just laughed it off, I mean sheesh I had to laugh!
They took good care of my baby so I didnt complain... I didnt have to pay for anything ( $ 3,000.00 damage)so... I won in the end it was just a hair-greying experience.
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Posted by feby16aqua
I read about people who have blood fetishes...like they cut each other (nothing too crazy lol) and have sex in each others blood.
In theory that is hot, too much HIV nowadays.....it sucks for us all. condoms are like raincoats in the shower.
Eh, yeah, blood is beyond my limits. I don't mind doing a little knife play under controlled and trusting circumstances but there's no cutting in my bedroom.
It's unsanitary and my sheets aren't cheap to replace.
It's unsanitary and my sheets aren't cheap to replace.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by DMV
If someone grosses me out or I dont like their posts, I dont even read it. So do yourself a favor and skim right along.
shrugs...huh? what was the discussion about?
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ's...i swear i just love to argue for no reason, i could care less if you're being sh****ED on, some women are only worth that, poop.click to expand
Its cool, you can sidestep me all you want but something I said struck a chord. We are all students of the world.
Posted by feby16aqua
Sex with animals is unfair and cruel IMO
Sex should be consensual...that's crossing a line to me.
+1
And also, really sick and wrong.