The Mind of The Sag Male
@Boots: this goes beyond Sag behavior and is a sign if what men and women have...devolved to.
I really don't have to discuss the particulars as you are already aware of the truth...you need to leave him alone. The emotional connection you feel is him selling you on the idea of being his savior. Turning your instincts...your strengths into weaknesses in order to fill himself and use you. You already see the obvious. If it was that bad he would've left already. But they make it seem like hell so you'll let your guard down. Marriage or no, they are attached. It's part love/history and part comfort...that's their connection. He may whine and bitch but he ain't leaving her and there ain't nothing like a little side action masked as a love connection to medicate thing. There is a deeper reason but in these situations some are aware of what they're doing and some aren't aware and the latter is most dangerous because they don't know or think they're doing wrong. Even if you got with him and he left his wife, he may not stay with because he's not going to value or respect someone who got with him while married and violating the very thing they say they want...a relationship. Simply, leave him alone and move forward.
I really don't have to discuss the particulars as you are already aware of the truth...you need to leave him alone. The emotional connection you feel is him selling you on the idea of being his savior. Turning your instincts...your strengths into weaknesses in order to fill himself and use you. You already see the obvious. If it was that bad he would've left already. But they make it seem like hell so you'll let your guard down. Marriage or no, they are attached. It's part love/history and part comfort...that's their connection. He may whine and bitch but he ain't leaving her and there ain't nothing like a little side action masked as a love connection to medicate thing. There is a deeper reason but in these situations some are aware of what they're doing and some aren't aware and the latter is most dangerous because they don't know or think they're doing wrong. Even if you got with him and he left his wife, he may not stay with because he's not going to value or respect someone who got with him while married and violating the very thing they say they want...a relationship. Simply, leave him alone and move forward.
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This is the combo of my grandparents who raised me.
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He thinks she??s trying to nag him to death, and she wishes she actually could.
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Posted by bakedbabyPosted by msXPosted by bakedbaby
thx for all the responses!! the new guy I'm dating is a sag with a Venus in scorp and mars in lib. I'm a cancer with venus in virgo and mars in cancer. Just taking notes
your new guy has my exact placements and you have my ex-husband's placements.
that was a relationship i couldn't WAIT to escape!
interesting... well love to hear anything you want to tell, relating to the placements and all.click to expand
of the top, cancers and sagittarians are not compatible. at all. initially, yes...but it will come out. cancers are introverts and homebodies and will retreat and avoid confrontation. they are the type that wouldn't mind going to bed angry and holding a grudge. they have secrets and will hold on to something or someone longer than they should. this is everything a sagittarius is not. mind you, all of this is on a general scale.
my mars being in libra makes me only attracted to classy, well-rounded and -adjusted men that don't do drama. my venus in scorpio makes it all about the business of love and sex. this is probably why venus in virgos are always attracted to me. but they can never hang on. they love to try to be that classy, well-adjusted and well-rounded guy that is only about serious loving, but they don't have it as honestly as i and they fall the fuck off...everytime. and, the thing is, i don't have to tell them they are falling off, they already know. i just tell them so when i step out on the relationship, they cannot say i didn't warn them. i find most venus in virgo want the tidy and pristine mate, on the outside. nothing wrong with that. but a venus in scorpio wants you to LIVE it, not just show it...whatever "it" is. a cancer with a venus in virgo would be more concerned with how well our relationship looks to the observer while a sagittarius with a venus in scorpio would be tormented to find that the appearance is just that, and not true. that cancer would be horrified to be embarrased. the sagittarius would not be able to find one fuck to give about being embarrased, for the proper cause. the cancer would not mind a white lie to save the relatinship. the sagittarius would be horrified to find ANY lies, big or small, in the relationship.
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Posted by bakedbabyPosted by msXPosted by bakedbaby
thx for all the responses!! the new guy I'm dating is a sag with a Venus in scorp and mars in lib. I'm a cancer with venus in virgo and mars in cancer. Just taking notes
your new guy has my exact placements and you have my ex-husband's placements.
that was a relationship i couldn't WAIT to escape!
interesting... well love to hear anything you want to tell, relating to the placements and all.click to expand
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sorry...i didn't know it had been cut off.
your mars in cancer wants something that the new guy probably cannot live up to. you may want this man to slow down and he won't be able to. the more you grasp, the more he slips out of your fingers. then the fun stops and he stops and it all stops and a disgruntled sag with a venus in scorp is something you never want to be in the presence of. we will fuck you up. not like you think, though. we like to make you fuck yourself up. minimum effort, maximum effect.
I need help understanding the things that he does. Do I still have a chance with him?
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I just dont get how he could pursue me for 5 months and then after I push him away, he just watches me. I understand that he's never been one to use words but rather actions.
This once particular Capricorn pursued me for 5 months straight and we ended up kissing after he opened up to me about his past and WOW was it loving. He used to sit next to me everyday, offer me his jacket, help on work, caress my fingers discreetly, and constantly text me. The ironic part is the fact that he's an awkward and shy person that actually openly pursued me. My friends thought he liked me. So anyway after a month after the kiss, he and I almost had awkward sex. That night ended with me calling him and him texting me about our relationship and he suggested fwb. I asked him if there was anything more and he said he's not sure if he wants one right now.
I just couldnt understand why after pursuing me for so long. I have three theories.. 1) Because he's going to the military in a year and he's working hard to be in shape for the military and doesnt have the capacity to be in a relationship 2) because he only wanted sex 3) because he just liked the chase. He really made it seem like he really liked me, and afterwards we kept on talking and kept friendly. He still did sit next to me everyday all throughout.
Eventually a month later I told him I like him, he didnt respond. 2 days afterwards he tried to talk to me and I pushed him away feeling embarassed. Eventually we became very distant, we barely talked but for some reason I would always see him watching or observing me from a distance. One day I decided to spontaneously say Hi to him and he blushed immensely.
This continued for 1 month and by the end I was over thinking everything, afraid of talking to him I just pretended that I didnt like him. Later I gave him a letter stating how I just dont want to lose him, how I hate how we're awkward, how I miss his amazing hugs and what not.
It's been 2 months since then. I tried hard to move on and get over him. I thought I had, but the second I saw him four days ago.. everything came rushing back to me. When we saw each other, we had this moment where we just paused and looked at each other. He's in two of my classes and I havent said hi, I havent smiled at him, I havent done anything.
I just dont get how he could pursue me for 5 months and then after I push him away, he just watches me. I understand that he's never been one to use words but rather actions.