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Anytime, Purrr 
What didn't kill you made you stronger & you sound like a strong person to me. And it's funny how going through something like that can make you very intolerant of bs in future relationships..you cut them off quickly.
What didn't kill you made you stronger & you sound like a strong person to me. And it's funny how going through something like that can make you very intolerant of bs in future relationships..you cut them off quickly.
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^^^ communication. I'm not sure how a virgo man/cancer women relationship would be...Im sure a bit different but with some things the same...I can see a virguy making the first move before a cancer man...but thats still a tough call lol
Hes the cutest thing ever and is so sweet lol
I dont want to come off strong, show interest like how? I dont know anything about virgos.
I dont want to come off strong, show interest like how? I dont know anything about virgos.
Taurus men are hard headed. Leave him alone..cut off all communication. He made it blatantly obvious he only cares about getting a nut off and not your feelings. Lesson learned for you and honestly you probably dodged a bullet. Better now than later right? Relationships blow :/
On dating a Cancer Woman...
I'm giving a DON'T how-to here.
Apparently you're a man dating a Cancer woman,
DON'T be so talkative!!!
You're not giving enough space to let Cancer express herself in the way she wants her to.
Don't be too self-centered talking and babbling about things because it just turns her off.
In your POV it breaks the ice, but NO. You're ruining everything.
Cancer gals can handle dating situations pretty perfectly.
DON'T worry too much that it'll lead you to do the wrong things.
I'm giving a DON'T how-to here.
Apparently you're a man dating a Cancer woman,
DON'T be so talkative!!!
You're not giving enough space to let Cancer express herself in the way she wants her to.
Don't be too self-centered talking and babbling about things because it just turns her off.
In your POV it breaks the ice, but NO. You're ruining everything.
Cancer gals can handle dating situations pretty perfectly.
DON'T worry too much that it'll lead you to do the wrong things.
This story sounds fishy. Not on your part but his.
Perhaps it is possible that they have an open-relationship but it seems that his wife has all the traits of women who AREN'T in open relationships lol
It doesn't make sense that she's so insecure & that they're not even in love with each other. Most couples in open-relationships very much so are in love with each other, which is the whole reason behind them setting boundaries with who they talk to on the outside
Those couples tend to establish boundaries b/c they don't want anyone/anything to jeopardize or override the intense love they have for one another
And honey, things are platonic with you & him at all! Don't be na??ve. It's not platonic if even 1 person is pushing for intimacy. Platonic means both people are not are just friends with no plans/thoughts of anything further
In the same way it's a bad move to remain friends with an ex if there's still feelings involved, I think it's also a bad idea to try to be friends with someone who is constantly pushing you to be more IF that's not what you want.
Both people should always be on the same page & want/not want the same things
I'd stay away from this guy. Doesn't seem like you're really in this for the "friendship" aspect b/c you don't know him well enough to be this persistent in being his friends. Seems like you're smitten by him but are trying to keep your feelings under control since you have morals about marriage
Which is fine. Just be careful. I doubt that what he's saying about his wife is true. Remember, married men who step outside of their marriage aren't usually so honest about things.
Oldest trick in the book: Make it seem like the wife is trippin so that it justifies the true problem which is that he wants to stray
If his marriage was THAT bad or boring, he would've left the relationship like the other millions of people who file for divorce.
Perhaps it is possible that they have an open-relationship but it seems that his wife has all the traits of women who AREN'T in open relationships lol
It doesn't make sense that she's so insecure & that they're not even in love with each other. Most couples in open-relationships very much so are in love with each other, which is the whole reason behind them setting boundaries with who they talk to on the outside
Those couples tend to establish boundaries b/c they don't want anyone/anything to jeopardize or override the intense love they have for one another
And honey, things are platonic with you & him at all! Don't be na??ve. It's not platonic if even 1 person is pushing for intimacy. Platonic means both people are not are just friends with no plans/thoughts of anything further
In the same way it's a bad move to remain friends with an ex if there's still feelings involved, I think it's also a bad idea to try to be friends with someone who is constantly pushing you to be more IF that's not what you want.
Both people should always be on the same page & want/not want the same things
I'd stay away from this guy. Doesn't seem like you're really in this for the "friendship" aspect b/c you don't know him well enough to be this persistent in being his friends. Seems like you're smitten by him but are trying to keep your feelings under control since you have morals about marriage
Which is fine. Just be careful. I doubt that what he's saying about his wife is true. Remember, married men who step outside of their marriage aren't usually so honest about things.
Oldest trick in the book: Make it seem like the wife is trippin so that it justifies the true problem which is that he wants to stray
If his marriage was THAT bad or boring, he would've left the relationship like the other millions of people who file for divorce.
Don't turn into this man's "down time" "plaything" "part-time" or "void-filler" all b/c he's bored & alone. You're worth more than that!
He's not the guy who will sweep you off your feet & marry you. He's not the guy who you'd even trust to be faithful persay you 2 actually do become a couple.
He's the guy that's just looking for a temporary replacement for his wife b/c he's not willing to leave her.
That oughta be 1 position you ought not fill!
He's not the guy who will sweep you off your feet & marry you. He's not the guy who you'd even trust to be faithful persay you 2 actually do become a couple.
He's the guy that's just looking for a temporary replacement for his wife b/c he's not willing to leave her.
That oughta be 1 position you ought not fill!
Complex =)
Posted by JenLove
Infidelity usually has to do with a number of different factors so it's hard to really pin point one reason and give one solid answer as to why all people do it since each case is different. I think if we were to sum it up, the three main and most common factors behind cheating are a false sense of satisfaction, insecurity and selfishness.
Adultery has always happened, it is not some kind of new phenomenon. Even in ancient times, there have been accounts of infidelity, it was just very taboo and even criminal. I think we see it a lot more now because people have greater opportunities to do it and people are just more open about it. I mean there are websites that help people set up affairs for goodness sakes, it's absolutely ridiculous. I think there's really no punishment for it like there use to be, in certain societies people would get stoned to death and publicly ridiculed for being adulterers and that just doesn't happen anymore or at least not in most countries.
Good points! The population has also tripled too so of course it seems the percentage of people who cheat has increased but really there's just a lot more people, which automatically affects the numbers/statistics
I do however feel like it's def. more rampant in our generation than in others. Now a days, you've got more single mothers more than ever. Back in the day a man/woman might cheat on his spouse, but he damn sure wouldn't leave his family & kids for it
Nowadays, even the smallest infidelity can split an entire family a part, & what's so sad is that the kids pay for it 99% of the time smh
You scared the shit out of him, and the more you do to try and fix this... the more you will scare him. He wants space, and you continuously prove he can't have it (I mean he said you shouldn't communicate with him, and you have contacted him twice more for your daughters things and to apologize). Despite what your true intentions are, some of the things you are doing are coming across very poorly. He's questioning you in his head big time.
You're chasing him. and it appears he is running. Be it because he planned to go for a run already, or he's running from you. But you keep chasing... so it's going to turn into a "running from you" situation.
Just chill out. If the connection was mutually seen as so great, he will come back, you'll both survive it. I get a little bit of your confusion because of him saying he didn't expect you to give up so easily... but then you did it again. And THEN you're willing to fight for it... after it appears he's at the front desk ready to check out, bags in the car already.
In my opinion... he's being polite, and looking for space to figure out what you are all about (you've been a bit confusing - and his statement about not communicating anymore... eeeh... I've said that to a handful of people... and I meant it).
You're chasing him. and it appears he is running. Be it because he planned to go for a run already, or he's running from you. But you keep chasing... so it's going to turn into a "running from you" situation.
Just chill out. If the connection was mutually seen as so great, he will come back, you'll both survive it. I get a little bit of your confusion because of him saying he didn't expect you to give up so easily... but then you did it again. And THEN you're willing to fight for it... after it appears he's at the front desk ready to check out, bags in the car already.
In my opinion... he's being polite, and looking for space to figure out what you are all about (you've been a bit confusing - and his statement about not communicating anymore... eeeh... I've said that to a handful of people... and I meant it).
Posted by Sn1p3r187
Geminis- 2pac Shakur, Notorius BIG, Cee Lo Green, Ice Cube, Kendrick Lamar, Wocka flocka, MC Ren, Heavy D
Libras- Eminem, Lil Wayne, Snoop Dogg, TIP Harris, T-pain, Usher, Young Jeezy, Will Smith, Jermaine Dupree, MC Lyte.
I always see these signs becoming rappers. It's actually amazing how many of these signs are rappers or aspiring rappers. It there was another sign that had plenty of rappers I'd say it would be Aries, Scorpio, or Cancer. Has anybody else noticed this? I usually think Air signs are very expressive and verbal and definitely would make good when it comes to telling the way how things are the streets or about their life.
hey I was going to start a topic like this ! exactly same .
air signs !
they are like born to be a star ... lol
also !
geminis : macklemore , andre 3000 ! ... and more
libras : Asap Rocky ! Wyclef jean , baby bash ... and more
I'm myself a libra . I love music , im addicted to music .I play piano and much more .
its like my cocaine
I listen to rap especially since I am like 9 years old ! libra and rap it's together
lolgeminis : the best actors / actresses !! for real
aquarius : they are good at making the music , beats , instrumentals , produce .......