Song of the State of your Heart (Mind, Body, Soul)
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Short, but sweet.
Anywho, I'm in NYC at the moment. Not for long cause I'm actually visiting my cousin due to family issues.
I texted my cancer asking him if he was free for the weekend( didn't specify which weekend.) it was quick and didn't put much thought in to it. So he text back and tells me his family is in town; but he will make time cause he really wants to see me.
Our original agreement was the 20th of this month. I want expecting to return before then; like I said it's more cause of my family. So I told him not to worry about it; to spend time with his family that I will be back on the 20th like we discussed. Besides he rare sees them and I don't want to take family time away from him( he needs it.)
Now he's upset with me. I'm confused; I though family time was important and he would appretiete me understanding the importance of it. I'm confused. Or maybe I'm not understanding his urgency.
Another thing; I want to actually spend quality time with him. Not a quick thing and then good bye. I'm not in to the quicky kind of thing. He knows that already.
Anywho, I'm in NYC at the moment. Not for long cause I'm actually visiting my cousin due to family issues.
I texted my cancer asking him if he was free for the weekend( didn't specify which weekend.) it was quick and didn't put much thought in to it. So he text back and tells me his family is in town; but he will make time cause he really wants to see me.
Our original agreement was the 20th of this month. I want expecting to return before then; like I said it's more cause of my family. So I told him not to worry about it; to spend time with his family that I will be back on the 20th like we discussed. Besides he rare sees them and I don't want to take family time away from him( he needs it.)
Now he's upset with me. I'm confused; I though family time was important and he would appretiete me understanding the importance of it. I'm confused. Or maybe I'm not understanding his urgency.
Another thing; I want to actually spend quality time with him. Not a quick thing and then good bye. I'm not in to the quicky kind of thing. He knows that already.
Err...because he wanted to do her? And she let him?
Coming from a Sag male, when I say I want to be friends, its just that friends...no benefits. Sometimes not even friends. It's why I stay platonic until I'm ready or we both are.
He told you straight up how he feels. He knows you want a commitment and he's not going to hold you up. It's something we don't get credit for...being honorable. He may be tempted to sleep with you every once in a while...we do have needs. But he knows he's not able to give what you're asking for. This doesn't mean you need to chase him like other guys would do. We don't play games like that. Be his friend but move on. In time he may be willing and you may be willing and available...let fate decide.
He told you straight up how he feels. He knows you want a commitment and he's not going to hold you up. It's something we don't get credit for...being honorable. He may be tempted to sleep with you every once in a while...we do have needs. But he knows he's not able to give what you're asking for. This doesn't mean you need to chase him like other guys would do. We don't play games like that. Be his friend but move on. In time he may be willing and you may be willing and available...let fate decide.
I'm thinking of posting this to the Virgo forum, but I don't know. Hehe.
Anyway, thanks for your words.. I know right? We're really one of the best here. I know for sure that I am not worthy to suffer anymore. I don't deserve this. And I'm a woman, one with self-worth and pride.
Anyway, thanks for your words.. I know right? We're really one of the best here. I know for sure that I am not worthy to suffer anymore. I don't deserve this. And I'm a woman, one with self-worth and pride.
His attention is probably occupied somewhere else. He might be busy or seeing someone else who just (at the moment) grabs his attention. That could very well possibly be the ex. Be patient and don't take it personally. He needs to get his mind cleared. He will always think of you as a possibility or option. If you want to you can wait, if you don't want to you don't have to. He will probably understand if you come together later on 
If you are worth it he'll appreciate. This man will give me back and foot rubs and do anyhing he can. I met his dad and he's given me personal items that belonged to his mother even one of a kind things that were his. I already know I am the #1 girl in his life and he hasn't told me this but actions show. Let him do what he does...eventually he'll feel comfortable enough with you in the picture IF you don't disrupt his routine and if you are fair. I know he doesn't like typical women who do dumb things and get him in trouble. Also it helps if you are smart usually they are brainy.
Saggies unite and express yourself! Get it off your chest and let it all out! Frustrations, rants, whatever! Lets get it going!
Posted by Superseven
Who's Tamara?
+1 who is she?
Posted by truecap
A character said this in a book I was reading and it made me go "hmmmmm". Then I started pondering on it and I can actually see how this could be the case at times.
They say caps are very patient people and yes, patience is a virtue.
But, could too much patience (like waiting YEARS on a promotion or a man to propose) be misguided and become cowardice if one is afraid to make a change?
Any thoughts?
In my opinion too much patients is a sign of contentment. You've accepted things as they are and will wait for life to dictate what will be. Sometimes that's a necessary approach, other times its the fear of the unknown.
Posted by DonJohnson
the best example of female brainwashing.
if i found out a female idolized sex and the city (or marilyn monroe) i would never take her seriously
but hey, im just a mysoginistic sexist pig who believes in gender roles