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Mar 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 5038 · Topics: 65
well im often direct n frank wid people but then there r times wen im not... why??? coz eum people r really sensitive n u gotta b considerate...
Why do you think people have such a problem saying what they mean?... itz not that i have a problem or sumthin but at times i dont wanna hurt people by being direct...u noh people can b very sensitive...
Why do you think that people have such a problem with the direct approach? Is it fear, insecurity, or is the problem even more deep rooted than that?... itz neither fear not insecurity in my case.. itz juz that i dont wanna hurt people coz at times my judgements can b silly n cruel...so betta not speak my mind...
Is it that we've been socialised to be so sensitive these days, that we can no longer hear true opinions?... ya i think so... like wen sum1 is FAT n asks u am i fat?? ur deff not gonna say .. YAAAAAA... ur waaaayyyy fat...u gotta b sensitve 2 otherz feelingz...
but yes i have seen people who dont speak their mind out