Getting bored with virgo!
Posted by firebunny
The thing is, you're already married with him. You have to focus on your long-term commitment rather than complain about these "worst" parts. There's a way to handle these things. The way I handle these is to reflect and ponder upon it deeply. Analyze the situations and try to understand things more. It's not that you have no choice but it's just that divorcing is just a bad choice...
The way i like to handle is to just retreat for sometime without any interaction with the concerned person..and let time and slow thought process bring clarity to how to deal with the situation..now retreating itself becomes another issue for him...what would happen when a person is already trying to solve a problem and a new problem in the same area crops up..isn't it overwhelming..but last night when we spoke i did not speak much he wanted to know y i did not say anything coz i have seen the consequences of expressing before..he was upset and said that i get back to him when i wish to talk..n disconnected..but i know that its easy for him to say that and if i actually take some days to get back..within those days ill have emotional blackmailing texts coming in..i can't have peace basically!
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Interesting disection of a Pisces mind, however I have degrees and BA Honours, sadly my Virgo came away with no qualifications, to be cast as inferior to a Virgo is a statement I would expect from one as their insecurities are apportioning blame onto others because of their inadequacies, a known fact, but a proven one with your statement.
Posted by MrWendall
religion lol! ironic i just said i believe in marriage! i'm not the type to congregate and dress up on a sunday or go to bible studies. i'm not fond of old dudes telling me what to do with my life for an hour and splashing water on me at the end of it.
from your list...
i'm cool with the children out of wedlock i think there's beauty in that sort of dysfunction. iv been watching californication tho and i'm impressionable lol!
i'm fine being pursued but i did pop the question the 1 time i was engaged.
See, that's the thing..many countries are being 'Americanised' because of the stuff being shown on our tvs. Luckily for us, we have a heavy dose of our traditional stuff on tv to dilute the 'American influence'.
I'm not a fan of out of wedlock children because of how & where I was raised. Everybody had a mother + a father where I grew up. I'm much more understanding of it now because times have changed & shit happens. But I'm still uncomfortable when the 'out of wedlock kids' have different fathers. That disgusts me tbh with you. So yeah, my beliefs are still very strong.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
I still believe that there should be more phat then muscle in a womans buttocks.
LMAO. Do you like girls who flaunt their assets?
@Impulsv
Understood. I just thought that the fact that I am there and tell her from time to time that I miss her with me and I am thinking of her that she knows that I care more than just a friend would. But I understand what you'r saying. Every time someone mentions a relationship she seems to go up in arms, saying that she doesn't have time or energy for it and that she doesn't want to learn new traits and tricks of a guy etc. But I will say that the times we have spent together alone she has voiced different opinions to me.
So maybe I should make my intentions a bit clearer by voicing my feelings for her. I guess that if she then throws me away at least I know where I stand :/ Not ideal because she is really the first one that completely fills my heart in the most wondrous way...
Understood. I just thought that the fact that I am there and tell her from time to time that I miss her with me and I am thinking of her that she knows that I care more than just a friend would. But I understand what you'r saying. Every time someone mentions a relationship she seems to go up in arms, saying that she doesn't have time or energy for it and that she doesn't want to learn new traits and tricks of a guy etc. But I will say that the times we have spent together alone she has voiced different opinions to me.
So maybe I should make my intentions a bit clearer by voicing my feelings for her. I guess that if she then throws me away at least I know where I stand :/ Not ideal because she is really the first one that completely fills my heart in the most wondrous way...
Posted by Mr. Defense
I'm the epitome of old fashioned. I have a lot of old fashioned mannerisms. I still wear suits when I go out, still wear slacks and button up shirts to work even though I don't have to, etc. I still treat women in an old fashioned way too, like I always pay for dinner. Though I more so call it bring a class act moreso than anything.
A few good men. That's very gentlemanly of you, MrD. I hope nobody calls you 'dawg' lol.
I run an American on line Candy Company, a Beauty Salon and Moderate for a Dating Site, I was widowed early due an unfortunate accident and I meet many interesting people, I posted on this forum to understand in many ways what it would be like to date a Virgo, my husband was a Pisces albeit Zodiac Signs did not play a part in any thought process until I spoke about my new man and was asked what sign he was, it seems that we all fall victim sometimes to the hearsay rather taking into account the person who they are.
I had to do a little research before moderating in understanding what men/women were looking for and traits of signs under Lunar Moons etc to acknowledge questions, in doing so I then decided to ask from my own personal perspective now that I had met an opposite, I do not believe that Virgo men believe every woman wants to be seen with one, one of my closest male friends is a Virgo and I have no connection romantically at all with him, I still believe there has to be chemistry.
When I look back I have dated a couple of Virgo's but it was the chemistry or lack of that I did not initiate another meeting, however having found and enjoyed a blissful 7 months until now am I trying to understand an earth sign more deeply, but not too deeply because again Virgo's will retreat if you show emotional blackmail to achieve an answer that was possibly there but not visible the way we would express those feelings.
I had to do a little research before moderating in understanding what men/women were looking for and traits of signs under Lunar Moons etc to acknowledge questions, in doing so I then decided to ask from my own personal perspective now that I had met an opposite, I do not believe that Virgo men believe every woman wants to be seen with one, one of my closest male friends is a Virgo and I have no connection romantically at all with him, I still believe there has to be chemistry.
When I look back I have dated a couple of Virgo's but it was the chemistry or lack of that I did not initiate another meeting, however having found and enjoyed a blissful 7 months until now am I trying to understand an earth sign more deeply, but not too deeply because again Virgo's will retreat if you show emotional blackmail to achieve an answer that was possibly there but not visible the way we would express those feelings.
Posted by Mr. DefensePosted by deni1403
Thats a shame and a comment by Mr Defense that they are allergic to Pisces because he is the pursuant and talks of long term within the relationship, he has an ex who was an Aries and an ex wife who was Cancer and with both he was the same in these relationships too, how do I know, because we live in a small town and friendly and talk, thats what women do no matter what sign we hail under.
If they are allergic to some signs, why pursue at all? why the hell dont they just move on as the sign suggests they do?
He's just trying to make you feel better about yourself. He knows that it's every woman's dream to be acknowledged by a Virgo.click to expand
LMAO. Puhleeze. It's not 'every woman's dream' to be acknowledge by virgo men. If I were given 3 wishes, one would be to not be acknowledged by virgo men lol. The only virgo man I'm mildly attracted to is Dave Chappelle. I'm not sure if he is even a virgo or a leo. The rest I find cute, as in baby cute. I like PHV though & some of the male virgoes on this site. That Axion guy is very cute & so is Infinity(something-something).
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I was more amazed at Greg Allman's chart. Stellium Sagittarius in the 7th house, (his sun sits there)
and he was married 6 times, notwithstanding his gfs. I'm used to seeing women marry multiple times, guess i need to research more.
I was more amazed at Greg Allman's chart. Stellium Sagittarius in the 7th house, (his sun sits there)
and he was married 6 times, notwithstanding his gfs. I'm used to seeing women marry multiple times, guess i need to research more.
I agree with everything listed except it's more of a personal preference than a belief. I don't find it shocking/have a problem with women proposing, pursuing or having sex with more partners at once. I have a hard time understanding how people do find any of that strange, different mentalities, different folks, it's whatevz.
I find it interesting that everyone associated old-fashion beliefs to man/woman relationships, marriage, etc. Mr. D mentioned mannerisms, that's more up my alley. I also try to go by "old-fashioned" respect as much as I can.
I find it interesting that everyone associated old-fashion beliefs to man/woman relationships, marriage, etc. Mr. D mentioned mannerisms, that's more up my alley. I also try to go by "old-fashioned" respect as much as I can.