What's up with taurus males??
Posted by OmagaIII
Hahaha, Taurus guy here...
Well, let me tell you this, if the roles where in reverse you would react the same... I know, cause I am dealing with a Scorpio that after 10 months does the exact same thing with me, and I really really care for her and want her by my side.
Anyway, I believe it is true that with us, as with you, you need patience. What might have pushed him back the first round is the fact that you where involved. We respect that, and so immediately back off. But, I will say this, it is usually hell for us to back off when we have feelings for you, but we still do, because a good mate will not ask you to stop dating someone else in favor of us/you.
Next, like you, we also need assurance that you are interested, this means words, not just actions. If I am in his situation, I would almost want a voiced invitation that you are available and would like someone to approach. Note, someone... You could probably tell him you want him closer, but I don't know him so I can't say how he will react. By saying someone you might 'open' the floor to 'competition', which could drag him out, or do the opposite, but like mentioned before I don't know him.
We, like you (getting kinda boring doesn't it) over think things because we want to be 'perfect' to our potential partners. I want my love interest to see I am the best option out there. (Yes, you can ask my Scorpio love interest and she will most likely tell ya because I had mapped it in my mind down to a T, which is probably bad, but I want her with me, not some douchbag like before)
Overall, I feel that in his case he really is interested but doesn't know how to handle it. My situation is slightly different but currently I back down a bit because I am so afraid I would smother her and then end up being friend zoned, which I don't want. So I am forcing myself to move back, I want her to miss me, I want her to think of me. In your case, it is already happening, you need to react on it. You need to be spontaneous with these emotions in some way and only to him.
Although we, I do believe most of us, love to engage in public displays of affection (also keeps a-holes at bay lol) the deeper stuff needs a whisper, a gentler touch, and much more privacy to fuel intensity. Because we have that drive and that passion. Not lust, don't do that, we still have moral (Although I don't know how many actually use it,
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I also don't want to play the push game now. Think that with any Scorp, knowing what I have learnt over the past few months, if they back off to heal or to try and figure life out, the worst thing to do is to push. Like your asking to get your ass whipped by the stinger. So, like I mentioned, I'll still be me and just be around, I don't feel like I should move closer now. Just there, so that when she emerges she still gets the same guy she got to know from the start. I don't know if it is the best, but it feels like the best way to show who I am and what I want no matter what happens. I do imagine that most Scorpios do want at least one thing in their life to be stable, even if they them selves shake up the pot some times. So I also feel this might be a test before we hopefully move forward to something more personal or exclusive.
But if she plays me, than I'll have to back out gracefully, I cannot lose my heart and mind If I am not appreciated for who I am.
But if she plays me, than I'll have to back out gracefully, I cannot lose my heart and mind If I am not appreciated for who I am.
Posted by LibraLove
He called me last night crying and begging me to forgive him and not break-up, but I'm having a difficult time. The one thing I've made a point of to reiterate from the beginning of this relationship is how unforgivable I find cheating.
All he could do last night was cry and say he "fucked up" and that he loves me, but I don't know if I can compromise myself for someone who I feel has disrespected both me and our relationship.
First of all, at this point you should know him well enough to know if he's too fucking drunk to maintain himself. Not saying it's your fault that he got that drunk ... saying you should know how he behaves this drunk.
Kissing is not cheating ... however painful .... then ... the very next post you say this ....
Posted by LibraLove
University starts tomorrow and I'm in classes with 3 of his friends, and granted how close-knit they all are, I know word has already gotten around. I don't want my first day to be peppered with awkward exchanges and sympathetic questions because people feel sorry for me or want to know what happened. And I certainly don't want to be known as the idiot who stayed with her cheating boyfriend.
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That means you fucking told all of his friends .... this drunk episode was the night before, and now, the next day ... you made sure to tell all of the people that your was a cheater, when in fact, he didn't cheat at all .... he got drunk and made an ass out of himself. But, he didn't cheat.
He called you crying, upset for being a fool, and apologizing ..... and YOU ran your fucking mouth, in telling people (HIS FRIENDS) what he did in a drunken stupor, and not only told them, you lied to them, in making them think he's a cheater ... when he's not (based off of a kiss).
Hahaha, kinda confuses me as well, but maybe this round I should just wait a second longer than usual. Then play a hand of show it all... 
Then play a hand of show it all... 
I meant "consult" as in bring up these issues to give me some form of indication that he was having doubts or feeling unworthy.
And his "I don't deserve you" is essentially as insincere as "it's not you, it's me" in my eyes.
I just came here to vent--I don't know why some people on the Virgo boards are always so combative and defensive. I'm not even going to attempt to reason with someone of the absurdly warped interpretations of what I said in this thread.
But it certainly reaffirms for me that most of you are NOT my type.
Bye, lovers/haters.
And his "I don't deserve you" is essentially as insincere as "it's not you, it's me" in my eyes.
I just came here to vent--I don't know why some people on the Virgo boards are always so combative and defensive. I'm not even going to attempt to reason with someone of the absurdly warped interpretations of what I said in this thread.
But it certainly reaffirms for me that most of you are NOT my type.
Bye, lovers/haters.
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..........and clearly I need a Bull in my life.
you like it rough I see
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Guess
Posted by starlover
If you feel your partner is doing something wrong..cheating etc
and your gut feeling is telling you that, there is no need to go
through his stuff
Womens' intuition is never wrong
sometimes, some women's intuition isn't strong or they IGNORE it.
i've read tons of historical/celebrities past history and relationships and their partner has never guessed, even before marriage. For example, this is not a dig to any sign, please, cause we can come up with many signs/placements, and the one that shocked me is Schwarzenneger's where he was even having sexual relationships with Brigette Nielsen before and during his entire marriage. Of course, we can come up with tons of many signs/placements that do this. The intuition was broken??
You wanted insight...people gave it to you.
instead of being ignorant...you could say thanks!
but good luck with that princess mentality
instead of being ignorant...you could say thanks!
but good luck with that princess mentality
it's aquarius moon today....no wonder.
anyway this is really good for women and men/relationships/love:
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anyway this is really good for women and men/relationships/love:
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She's so full of shit .... she's been fucking with him since day one.
She is so long-winded, there is no way I could post it all ... but, at the beginning of the relationship, after like 2 months or so .... she tells him that she's a virgin and will only have sex with a guy she trusts.
He then begins to bend over backwards trying to earn her trust ... she still doesn't fuck him.
That's using sex as a weapon ....
She's a fucking cunt ... there's no doubt about that.
Then when she tells him she won't fuck him because she has to trust him first (which is after 2 months) .... then she pressures him for a commitment, then when he tells her that he can't do it, that something else will have to happen because he can't go that long being affectionate and close to her in a intimate relationship without having sex ..... her reaction to that is to then accuse him of not being faithful to her, and that if he truly wanted her then he should be able to wait without any relief.
::: shakes head :::
She obviously thinks she's a princess