A lot of cheating threads ....
Where is the accountability of the partner? Why is it always up to us to make someone comfortable? Why cant they accommodate us?
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Posted by DMVPosted by IrresistableScorp
Does anyone really think that a 30 yr old leaves family for an 18 he old? Nah.
Personally this feels slightly creepy. You can be 18 and still in high school! Ew
He aint leavin shit for some youngster who cant even go have a drink at a bar. Wtfclick to expand
Lol!
Posted by GemsandsugarPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by GemsandsugarPosted by aquapiscescusp
He isn't ready to reach for that goal yet. If he wanted to, he would have. If he senses you are putting pressure on him he will do it even less because its HIS goal, not yours.
I think you may be right.
You obviously love him very much and want him to reach his goals, too sweet btw, Aquarians do things when it feels right, by intuition and not logic. Step away from his to dos!
I had to reread this.. I do love him very much which is why it scares me that he's so stubborn..
But your point is valid and I realize this because it reminds me of my extremely stubborn Aqua father. My poor Virgo mom has been nagging my dad about selling a property for years now , and my entire family has discussed it and tried to have like an intervention about it with him lol.. Logic says to sell something that you are not profiting from, but his intuition apparently been telling him it's simply not time yet.
I'll never get itclick to expand
I think real estate is a good investment since they don't make it anymore. Value usually increases as the years go by. Besides, its been a bad market for selling the last couple of years. Maybe he's waiting on the real estate market to revive - it is slowly on its way back up. If you can afford the taxes, then whats the point of selling when the market is down?
?? Just a thought from a cappy.
Hello
So i know this leo.. and he likes me... And he's big and bold... and I'm a little intimidated QUITE FRANKLY
What should I do? How should I handle this? Cause I feel like it's "jello puddin' vs. bricks and stones"
Cancer-input requested
So i know this leo.. and he likes me... And he's big and bold... and I'm a little intimidated QUITE FRANKLY
What should I do? How should I handle this? Cause I feel like it's "jello puddin' vs. bricks and stones"
Cancer-input requested
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No serious relationships dmv?
I always wanted it to work with 90% of the men I slept with and felt really bad, slutty for having my number go up for "no reason." Sometimes I would even stay with guys because I had sex with them! If I had a regular sex partner, I would call up old familars so I wouldn't have to add new or worry.
For some reason, if a guy has a large number...they are a stud. If a girl has more than a certain amount, like a handful, she's a slut? What?
I had to talk my bf out of this mentality. We have the same number. He went "no you aren't bad for a girl" as have the same number! He goes "but I'm a guy...a girl can open her legs for anyone but if a guy gets with a girl it's harder, he's a stud" I bitch slapped him with my fury.
He was raised strict catholic and his mom instilled and was ok with it, very sexist social norms. He didn't know and better. She even called a female friend of his a whore because she was wearing short shorts in the summer. His parents were eachothers 1sts, she was upset he wasnt Tim TiVo and had drank and etc. she knows he has a gf but she doesn't want to hear about it because she thinks it's distracting from school...he doesn't tell her when he sees me (they are visiting) as that would raise too many questions, she had said "not Christian like" when he mentioned staying over before. He's 24!
I already do not like this woman -.-
But views like that with double standards really frustrate me. Since I've been with him and am working off the brain washing from his mother, he doesn't have them as much. Parenting can have a big impact!
I always wanted it to work with 90% of the men I slept with and felt really bad, slutty for having my number go up for "no reason." Sometimes I would even stay with guys because I had sex with them! If I had a regular sex partner, I would call up old familars so I wouldn't have to add new or worry.
For some reason, if a guy has a large number...they are a stud. If a girl has more than a certain amount, like a handful, she's a slut? What?
I had to talk my bf out of this mentality. We have the same number. He went "no you aren't bad for a girl" as have the same number! He goes "but I'm a guy...a girl can open her legs for anyone but if a guy gets with a girl it's harder, he's a stud" I bitch slapped him with my fury.
He was raised strict catholic and his mom instilled and was ok with it, very sexist social norms. He didn't know and better. She even called a female friend of his a whore because she was wearing short shorts in the summer. His parents were eachothers 1sts, she was upset he wasnt Tim TiVo and had drank and etc. she knows he has a gf but she doesn't want to hear about it because she thinks it's distracting from school...he doesn't tell her when he sees me (they are visiting) as that would raise too many questions, she had said "not Christian like" when he mentioned staying over before. He's 24!
I already do not like this woman -.-
But views like that with double standards really frustrate me. Since I've been with him and am working off the brain washing from his mother, he doesn't have them as much. Parenting can have a big impact!
Posted by MellyMel909
Have you all read/heard of this book?:
or this:
They're both about the early days of forensic psychology and criminal profiling. Very interesting reads if you're into that sort of thing, and very well researched too from what I can tell.
Hmmm. They look interesting. Thanks M&Ms
Posted by Agentgem24
No serious relationships dmv?
naw. 1 major quasi no good boyfriend in my 31 years, we were together for 3 years but i wanted to break up during the last 2. no one believes me but i just dont to be with any ol body.
ive smased alot of guys but i just wanted the smash not the guy.
funny tho, many of men have tried to count themselves as my boyfriend but i never claimed them.
the double standard is ridiculous but it is the status quo.
Posted by scorpchick76Posted by saweetz1988
..He's just being a typical Taurus..
BAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!click to expand
What did you mean by that ?!! Don't get all bent out of shape... it's only been a couple of days !!!
Anyway... I GUESS we are still an item. We spent a weekend at the beach in July... we went to Corsica together in August... after which, I even met most of her immediate family... as just a FRIEND I might add. I have also helped her with a lot of her house projects... we seem able to work well together in this way.
BUT... as of now I haven't seen her for a week and a half. She returned from a 4-day conference last Thursday relating to her job... which I can understand. She returned that evening very late and still had to go to work the next day... sending me a message that she was glad to be home. Since Friday... for a reason that I have not managed to uncover... she has NOT been so content... and the only times I have heard from her is at night... when I send her a 'good night' via sms.
On Saturday evening, vaguely answering my questions, she admitted that she has been very sad. She wouldn't share the reason with me saying that she has 'to solve her own problems... and that she was feeling alone and can't stand her loneliness anymore.' On Sunday I wished her a 'good night' as usual... but her 'you too' like response bothered me a bit. While on her trip, she sent me nice little messages always with 'kiss' icons or something of the like... but none such as these since Thursday. Thinking about all of this... I decided NOT to send her a 'good night' on Monday... and again on Tuesday (last night). This has not prompted a response on her part... but I didn't really expect it to.
She feels ALONE ?!! I suspect this has to do with her last boyfriend of a year and a half that ended at the end of last year... I COULD be wrong. I don't think she has completely turned THAT page yet completely... she keeps looking back at it. I am sure that it is more difficult to do when he still lives rather close to her... and their daughters remain friends while attending the same school. It appears as though his ghost is still haunting her... and that I am losing the imaginary competition for the moment. So I wait... for now.
Posted by Arielle83
I don't get how CC needs to get over herself when she is simply being positive and giving positive affirmations to other cancers...then a virgo steps in and tells her to "Get over herself?" who invited you? can't people just let people be happy instead of being a hater? No wonder i can't stand virgo women...negative perfectionists who are always JUDGING!!
Thats not positive affirmations...that's being arrogant. If you're are so humble and good...you dont have to shout it out from the roof tops. It's just a given...so get the fuck off your high horse sweetheart!
Hows is that being a hater...I call it like I see it! so you can shut the fuck up already with your bs...thank you!