Scorpio messing with me
Posted by PetraV
We met through a mutual friend and started chatting on facebook. We were supoused to go on a date, but now I don't know if we are even going since he blocked me on facebook. I don't know how to get to him or should I just leave him alone. I'm thinking over and over did I say or do something wrong but nothing comes to mind. I don't know what to do, I care about him adn I dn't know how to help him.
You were suppose to go on a date and instead were blocked. Why would you "care" for someone who has done this? Look within and answer that first.
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Posted by tiziani
Funny thing is i wanted stability, family and children with this person when i decided to marry him..and that was some years back..have i regressed..lol
Think about this: If you divorce him, you'll quickly find out the single scene is not all its cracked up to be and before long you're going to be looking for a man who will give you.....guess what....."stability, family, children" and love, dependability, financial security, intellect, and status.
I hope you're not back here complaining "there aren't any good men out there"....
Really. Come on. Think about it. You're better off working on spicing things up, throwing some new adventures into the marriage and creating some fun situations. Why does he have to do all the work? It sounds like you've got a good man....try appreciating him.click to expand
No doubt he is a good man..he gives me security, stability..all that a woman would want from a stable, secure relationship...and losing all that is just what i fear and the reason why im in no haste to take impulsive decisions...i may sound selfish but one main reason y i havn't take any serious step is that he won't be able to take it and thats my biggest worry...
and i get you and most people here..guess i should not give up and continue trying to spice up things..which i had stopped doing.
hello silentkiller, I really do appreciate your response. are you a scorpio woman? I want to get some perspective on how they respond to different things.My ex would always say that i can't give what she wants or that i am not capable,even though she was very happy with me, head over heels for a few years(i am not bragging at all; not the type to). BTW she is a physician. I truly love her. As a matter of fact, i was in love with her maybe for about ten years before we got together. When it happened it was magical. she wanted me to teach her music , had two sessions and the rest is history. Neither of had to work hard at getting the other.There was a liking between us from many moons ago. she would tell me sometimes in a lighthearted way, how she was afraid of me because she thought that i was wild and a playboy. I have made her some of the most beautiful jewelry, fashion belts, bras, bags, bracelets and more that you would ever see. I am a very talented individual. I know she was captivated by me,and of course i was always captivated by her. I really need help as to how to proceed with this amazing woman. I do not want to lose her because i truly love her.she knows that i was mad because i can't really hide or fake it. What are your thoughts on the pisces guy. I have read that they signs are a perfect match and can lead to marriage. he is involved in an arena where she is also involved and the two see each other. He is also a musician and studies and plays the same kind of music as i do. I am not as involved as i used to in the music and dance arena; he is much more involved. At this point she has an obsession with the dance and the music and the culture that surrounds them; so you can see why she might be interested in him. He has been to my birthday party that my ex had at her house two years ago. We both know each other well and have worked together.They don' live that far from each other. My ex did talk about finding or having a life partner. we have thought of this idea in the past of about whether we will be together for a long time.BTW i am 52 and she will be 49 in october.Any advice as to what i can do at this point to convince her that i still love her the way she knew i did when i first kissed under a tree.I would greatly appreciate it.
Posted by tizianiPosted by firywetair
I get exactly what ur telling..i guess thats the phase i am at too..
If you can trust him with that feeling and talk about it and if he can listen and understand, then you have yourselves a marriage, I guess. No relationship ever turns out how "it's meant to be" and that's the good thing about it. It's never predictable.
What you're challenged to do is never immediately obvious unless you give it time to really see where you both stand.click to expand
yep..i get it..i got to do some thinking and rethinking now.