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Posted by CuteGem
it sounds to me that you need to set some boundaries with this guy. You said what you had to say. You told him no so I think that now it is time to stick to silence every time he brings up sex and fuckbuddies and not engage in that part of the conversation. Move on to the next topic like it was never said.
Obviously he is not the type of person to start something serious. He gives signs that he can't stay faithful and he doesn't respect your wishes. This is a man that you cannot trust and he will never respect you. He also comes accross as selfish despite the fact that he is being polite and asks you how you are.
Some people ask about how you are doing it as a technique to come across more friendly. It is part of their social skills. If the actions don't match the kindness of the words this instantly means that the person is faking it for a reason..
This man is chasing after you because he wants you to be the woman on the side or the mistress. This is why he is being polite and this is why he keeps a friendship with you.
My opinion is that you don't have many choices here other than cut him off or stick to what you want and not take it seriously every time he is being nice. He is not genuine. He is only trying to seduce you.
If he really wants you and he wants to be with you he should stop talking about sex, he should leave the other girl and he should slowly invest in you. OR... he should behave like a normal friend if he only wants friendship and friends don't have sex together LOL
However,... after all you said.. with the past that he has and the way he is treating the current gf I wouldn't dare to think ever to be his gf. It is sure that he wouldn't be able to be faithful to me.
It is his personality as such that he can't settle down. He hasn't found himself and can't find a higher purpose other than sleeping around.
I know lots of guys like him and sex and sleeping around is like an addiction.
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by Arielle83
How am I racist? I'm saying you're acting low class...by your vulgar language. Originally you were offended by someone's self confidence so you called them arrogant. I called you on it and you went all 'postal' and 'ghetto' meaning low class (because white people can live in the ghetto as well. A ghetto is simply an area of space where lower class individuals inhabit due to their culture, upbringing, religion etc. You can be as white as wonder bread and be GHETTO, like yourself. So why don't you educate your ignorant, and obnoxious brain and then learn to speak properly. If you think me calling you "ghetto" means I'm racist then you clearly have some already preconceived ideas of what that word means. DUMBASS!
A ghetto is a derogatory term, sometimes referred to as a part of a city in which members of a minority group live
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